MiasMum
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Im feeling so deflated today. I have just undergone my first ivf attempt and spent so long feeling ill from all the drugs and all to be back at square one.
I had egg collection last week and was due to have a day 5 blast put back yesterday but the doctor strongly advised against it as I have developed OHSS.
The situation now is 6 top quality blasts and 2 embroys have been frozen and I have an appointment on 11th oct to hopefully start the ball rolling for FET.
I cant help but feel sad. The doctor said our chances would be the same but im sure the embrologist said different and to compensate 2 or 3 would be put back - providing they survive the thaw.
I spoke to her earlier this morning and she said we still have a really good chance and they see lots of pregnancies from FET.
I am a natural worrier and am so fed up to be starting again.
I have a daughter from my previous relationship who is almost 8 and my partner has no children, I so dont want a 10 year old and a baby!
I know ill be very lucky but this is just not what I had planned.
Everywhere I look I see pregnant teenagers and people I know are now on to their second or third pregnancy since we have been trying.
Can anyone offer some sucess stories of FET or just some positives?
Many thanks.
I had egg collection last week and was due to have a day 5 blast put back yesterday but the doctor strongly advised against it as I have developed OHSS.
The situation now is 6 top quality blasts and 2 embroys have been frozen and I have an appointment on 11th oct to hopefully start the ball rolling for FET.
I cant help but feel sad. The doctor said our chances would be the same but im sure the embrologist said different and to compensate 2 or 3 would be put back - providing they survive the thaw.
I spoke to her earlier this morning and she said we still have a really good chance and they see lots of pregnancies from FET.
I am a natural worrier and am so fed up to be starting again.
I have a daughter from my previous relationship who is almost 8 and my partner has no children, I so dont want a 10 year old and a baby!
I know ill be very lucky but this is just not what I had planned.
Everywhere I look I see pregnant teenagers and people I know are now on to their second or third pregnancy since we have been trying.
Can anyone offer some sucess stories of FET or just some positives?
Many thanks.