Comfycushions
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Been actively ttc for 6 months (plus one year previous not preventing) and have spent a lot of time lurking around these forums. Found it comforting to read other people going through similar. Today got af yet again and hoping putting feelings into words might lessen the pain of disappointment.
I know that only been trying a short time but feel my age and that of dh is against us and that coupled with lack of sex drive from dh point of view makes me anxious it just wont happen for us(know that wont help-lol!) Despite charting, plotting, dreaming etc (oh and illl advisedly taking vitex-oops) rationally each month I know it's not be be (only one month bd on ov.) However I hope for 'miracle' and frequently convince myself it's happened, pee on loads of sticks and then end up thoroughly dejected.
DH is fabulously supportive when I'm dismayed but don't want to lay too much on him about this in case it causes less than the already woefully insufficient!
Wallowing with glass of wine then hopefully on wards and upwards with positivity! Thanks for reading the self pitying rambling.: Any tips to actually achieve the 'just relax and it'll happen' approach gratefully received!
I know that only been trying a short time but feel my age and that of dh is against us and that coupled with lack of sex drive from dh point of view makes me anxious it just wont happen for us(know that wont help-lol!) Despite charting, plotting, dreaming etc (oh and illl advisedly taking vitex-oops) rationally each month I know it's not be be (only one month bd on ov.) However I hope for 'miracle' and frequently convince myself it's happened, pee on loads of sticks and then end up thoroughly dejected.
DH is fabulously supportive when I'm dismayed but don't want to lay too much on him about this in case it causes less than the already woefully insufficient!
Wallowing with glass of wine then hopefully on wards and upwards with positivity! Thanks for reading the self pitying rambling.: Any tips to actually achieve the 'just relax and it'll happen' approach gratefully received!