WTT 2015... Chit Chat Thread

[Noodlebear]

I desperately want to try again in 2015 but OH isn't sure just yet :/ Thought I'd join in anyway lol. I'm 20 also and my little man Lucas is coming up to 10 months old x

 

[rhdr9193..x]

Yey! Lots more people! All very welcome. Il put details on the first page when I get on the laptop x

 

[bbygurl719]

I like the idea of our stuff on front page. How is everyone doing with the waiting.

 

[aidensxmomma]

Can I join you ladies?

I'm Terah, I'm turning 22 in 3 days and I'm long-term WTT. I have three beautiful children already - my five year old son, Aiden; my 3 1/2 year old daughter, Madalynn (Mady); and my angel baby, Seraphina. I've been WTT for about a year...I was NTNP in May and June 2012 but then my husband and I split up and that put a stop to my TTC plans. I'm currently single so I don't have any definite TTC date, 2015 is my optimistic guess.

Some days the wait is easier than others. It usually comes in waves. There will be times where I'm okay with waiting and content with everything how it is and then there will be times where the broodiness hits me like a freight train and I can't think of anything other than babies.

 

[rhdr9193..x]

Hi Terah. I remember you from teen pregnancy I think, I was pregnant with Oliver around the same time you were with seraphina?
How's things going, you are one brave mama... More than welcome here.

 

[wouldluvabub]

I like the idea of our stuff on front page. How is everyone doing with the waiting.

I'm doing ok with the waiting currently!! I was really shattered as I am sick and that's why I need to wait, so I was feeling really angry with myself for a while! Anyways I have come to terms with it and feeling a bit more at peace. I'm holding out hope ill be able to move my TTC date forwards but its probably not possible!

How about you?? Maybe we should get to know each other with out WTT reasons..?? I've just said mine, if people want further details on me you can find them in my journal which is in my sig!

 

[bbygurl719]

I'm doing okay right now. My youngest is only five months old. I'm a little broody because at this age with Ella I was already pregnant with angel lol. I love being pregnant and I love having babies. But right now is not a good time. We live with my mom which we love but don't have anymore room for babies lol. I have two that sleep in just room. And we decided that we will wait til our two girls r in school and have our last two close in age again.

 

[twilightgeek]

hey can i join? i'm emily i'm 21 and we will be hopefully ttc late 2014/early 2015 much to my own dismay! i do have an angel baby from october last year so right now i should pretty much be either ready to pop or have already had them which makes me sad but the thought of waiting makes me sadder! but i have to finish my degree which finishes in june 2014 and then hopefully move out of where we live now to another town about an hour away to go get my dream job of outwards bounds teacher for kids so optimistically it'll be end of next year

 

[rhdr9193..x]

Really can't decide what to do, finished year one of my degree. But can't decide whether I want to do a midwifery degree and put another baby even further back :/ I just don't know what I want to do with my life! X

 

[aidensxmomma]

Hi Terah. I remember you from teen pregnancy I think, I was pregnant with Oliver around the same time you were with seraphina?
How's things going, you are one brave mama... More than welcome here.

Yep. You were a couple months behind but we were both in there for a while. Things are going alright. It's been a rough year but I'm starting to finally pull it all together. I'm going through a rough break up right now, but with the exception of that, everything is actually going pretty well. I've been looking for a job and trying to move to the city and overall looking forward to what the future has in store for me.

I just needed to tell someone about this...I am good friends with a lot of guys and I've talked to a few of them about my broodiness. Well, two of them have offered to have a baby with me. And not even just as a sperm donor but actually be there for me and the baby and help raise him/her. Both of them already have kids that they love and care for, so I know they would do the same for me. It is sooooo tempting to take them up on their offers (well, only one of them obviously). Some days the broodiness gets so bad that I just feel like saying "f*ck it" and going for it. So far, I've been good and been waiting for the right time. But the temptation is still there.

 

[wouldluvabub]

Really can't decide what to do, finished year one of my degree. But can't decide whether I want to do a midwifery degree and put another baby even further back :/ I just don't know what I want to do with my life! X

That's a tough situation to be in and only you can make the choice!! Try making a list of pros and cons and see what you come up with! What ever you choose I'm sure it will be the right choice!!

Hi Terah. I remember you from teen pregnancy I think, I was pregnant with Oliver around the same time you were with seraphina?
How's things going, you are one brave mama... More than welcome here.

Yep. You were a couple months behind but we were both in there for a while. Things are going alright. It's been a rough year but I'm starting to finally pull it all together. I'm going through a rough break up right now, but with the exception of that, everything is actually going pretty well. I've been looking for a job and trying to move to the city and overall looking forward to what the future has in store for me.

I just needed to tell someone about this...I am good friends with a lot of guys and I've talked to a few of them about my broodiness. Well, two of them have offered to have a baby with me. And not even just as a sperm donor but actually be there for me and the baby and help raise him/her. Both of them already have kids that they love and care for, so I know they would do the same for me. It is sooooo tempting to take them up on their offers (well, only one of them obviously). Some days the broodiness gets so bad that I just feel like saying "f*ck it" and going for it. So far, I've been good and been waiting for the right time. But the temptation is still there.

I don't want this to come out wrong and offend you so pretty please keep in mind that I am saying this in the nicest possible way!! I'm a strong believer in family. I know families are made of all different sorts of things but personally for me, unless a situation is thrust upon someone that means things NEED to be different, I think you owe it to your future child (and current children) to bring a baby into the world that's made the way they are supposed to be made! As a result of love!! Not just out of broodiness! I understand how amazingly tempting it must feel but you have 2 beautiful blessings and should just try to focus on them until your in a committed relationship! I understand not everyone shares my opinions and if you want to totally ignore this then go for it! Just thought I'd offer my opinion!




AFM...
I am working on getting fit! Want to give my self the best possible chance of getting pregnant when the time comes!!! What is everyone's else's goals before TTC?

 

[bbygurl719]

my goal is to enjy y three i have nw and qui smoking before i get preggo again

 

[rhdr9193..x]

I want to lose weight to get my BMI back down to normal. Then I can go midwife led again and hopefully have the home birth I want x

 

[LoolaBear]

I'm no longer a 2015 WTT'er!
the man and i were texting yesterday whilst i was at work and he dropped the bombshell that he doesnt want to wait that long anymore. all being well (and things going to plan this year) i will be stopping the pill next june!

i can't wait! good luck to all you lovely ladies starting in 2015, i hope the time passes quickly for you. xx

 

[rhdr9193..x]

Yey! Good luck loola! X

 

[DazedConfused]

Hey I'm WTT 2017 as I'm training to be a MW at the mo! My current wee man will be 6 by then! waaaahhh! and OH has said he'd be okay not having another one, but we so are So I'm quietly waiting til then. Hope I can join in til you guys all start TTC

 

[wouldluvabub]

Seems that getting fit is a common goal amount us! What are you ladies planning to do to achieve your goal? I'm just starting with exercise then if I need I will alter diet! Maybe we can all work together to motivate and keep each other in line

Congratulations loola- we are TTC end of 2014 all going to plan. But not until November so pretty much 2015.

Hi dazed :wave: well done on following your dreams!! It's nice to see someone on here a little closer to home! I'm from Australia!!

 

[kittiecat]

I like the idea of our stuff on front page. How is everyone doing with the waiting.

I find it changes week to week with me. Atm though I'm ok with waiting. 2 years seems an age but I am also hoping it passes quickly. Am looking forward to OH and I having some US time before a baby comes along. Was hard though coming to this point after 8 months TTC.

Really can't decide what to do, finished year one of my degree. But can't decide whether I want to do a midwifery degree and put another baby even further back :/ I just don't know what I want to do with my life! X

I think you have to follow your gut instincts but it does sound a tough decision! Good luck with whatever you decide!

I just needed to tell someone about this...I am good friends with a lot of guys and I've talked to a few of them about my broodiness. Well, two of them have offered to have a baby with me. And not even just as a sperm donor but actually be there for me and the baby and help raise him/her. Both of them already have kids that they love and care for, so I know they would do the same for me. It is sooooo tempting to take them up on their offers (well, only one of them obviously). Some days the broodiness gets so bad that I just feel like saying "f*ck it" and going for it. So far, I've been good and been waiting for the right time. But the temptation is still there.

Please don't be offended by this but I really don't think this is such a good idea. You could decide to do this but then meet a potential new boyfriend next week. I'd give it more time to find a new committed relationship before taking this step.

I'm no longer a 2015 WTT'er!
the man and i were texting yesterday whilst i was at work and he dropped the bombshell that he doesnt want to wait that long anymore. all being well (and things going to plan this year) i will be stopping the pill next june!

i can't wait! good luck to all you lovely ladies starting in 2015, i hope the time passes quickly for you. xx

yay congrats Loola! good luck for when you start TTC!

Seems that getting fit is a common goal amount us! What are you ladies planning to do to achieve your goal? I'm just starting with exercise then if I need I will alter diet! Maybe we can all work together to motivate and keep each other in line
!

I'm trying to get fit too. Mine is mainly exercise based but am trying to improve my diet too by not snacking so much etc xx

 

[siobhankerry]

Hi ladies, im 20 from Scotland & we are waiting untill 2015 to try for our second .our LG will be 2 then so but will be 3 when ( & if all goes to plan ) new baby will be here, so its a close enough but not too close an age gap
be nice to chat too you girls x

 

[rhdr9193..x]

so, does anyone have names for their next baby.. i have ones i like but OH has vetoed them.. plenty of time to talk him round lol x