Oh stella I hope you and baby are ok! Are you going for a check up?
Whiplash is awful, dp had a car crash in 09 and was in so much pain with whiplash. He had to sleep in the spare room on this futon thing we borrowed from a friend because our bed hurt his back. It was wierd as the bed was nice and comfy and this futon was rock hard but he preferred it.
He still gets chest ache from where the seatbelt dug into his chest. His physio said he may have that for life

kiddy friendly car was another reason we halted ttc, we drive a 2 seater bmw convertable z4 thingy so it needs to go. Got declined on loans and dp isnt keen on selling privately. The finance on the bmw ends in 2016 (as do other loans) so we will be in much better stead then.