your opinion.....

[confused_2009]

Okay so my best friend (whom i work with) got pregnant when she was 20. the guy turned out to be a jerk & left her & their daughter. she's now 21 & there daughter is 10 months. (im side-trailing...) this is about me, not her. im a week late for my period & for the past couple weeks my breasts have been extremely tender. even the slightest touched makes them hurt like, well... ya know? and every time my fiance touches my stomach where my uterus is, it also hurts. but only when it's touched. i don't feel like i have cramps. i feel really nauseous, but don't have an appatite. i'm really tired & get alot of headaches. i'm a straight up grouch towards my fiance, but then i cry about it and blame all our fights on me. (im extra emotional right now) well, last night i took 3 pregnancy tests. 1 was positive & 2 were negative. i don't know what to think. my best friend said she thinks i'm pregnant, but me & my fiance hope we're not. does it sound like i could be pregnant?

 

[nikky0907]

Yes, it does sound like you could be pregnant. Althouth since your period is one week late it should already show an accurate result.

I recommend you test in a few days in the morning and if it shows negative you can go to your doctor and have a blood test done.


P.S. Can I ask what the story about your friend has to do with this?

 

[confused_2009]

she knows all the symptoms and has been watching me for awhile. she noticed i'm acting the same way she did when she was pregnant. she suggested me to take the test & when it turned up positive she was the only person excited for me. when i told my fiance his response was, "you're getting an abortion & we're going to pretend it never happened." i told him i would NEVER in my life get an abortion & that i'd leave him, if it all comes down to that being our only decision. i just don't think being a single parent at our age is good for us.

 

[Miss Lisa]

hi, i think nikky is right, it does sound like you could be pregnant, and you should follow her advice with the test and going to the doctors.
as for your OH, if he doesnt support ur decision, dont be afraid to go with what you believe in just to suit his wants.
im 18 and i have a one year old and im pregnant with baby number 2, and im gettin on just fine on my own.
its tiring but it hasnt been bad for me at all in any way, i am a trainee accountant and have a house of my own, its not all bad to be a single teenage mother.

 

[AppleBlossom]

I agree with Amy, sounds like you could be pregnant, test again in a few days x

 

[nadupoi]

A positive pregnancy test usually means pregnant. If he's not willing to help be a part of the babies life, then he's probably no good anyway. Had you guys discussed children at all?

 

[nikky0907]

she knows all the symptoms and has been watching me for awhile. she noticed i'm acting the same way she did when she was pregnant. she suggested me to take the test & when it turned up positive she was the only person excited for me. when i told my fiance his response was, "you're getting an abortion & we're going to pretend it never happened." i told him i would NEVER in my life get an abortion & that i'd leave him, if it all comes down to that being our only decision. i just don't think being a single parent at our age is good for us.

Well hun, I'm your age and a single parent and while it is hard, I'm doing just fine. Certainly better than if I were in an unhappy relationship.

Your fiancee obviously cannot force you to do anything (I'm not liking the way he 'ordered' this to you). If your decision is to keep the baby he needs to own up to his responsibilities as he was equally involved in creating this child.

Good luck!