Dimbo
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Ok, I know I am jumping ahead on this one, but just wanted to see what people's thoughts are.
After we found out I had miscarried I said that I want a scan at about 8 weeks next time. Part of me thinks it's a good idea for several reasons:
To be able to make sure everything is progressing nicely, and not having to wait until 12 weeks. To know earlier if things aren't going right. I think to see the hb feels like it will keep me going.
But then I know that there is always the possibility that things can go wrong after that scan before the next... but then I think that it'd be nice to see a heartbeat at least once... but then I think maybe it'd be better to not see it if things were to go wrong... and then I realise I have talked myself round in a circle.
Thankfully I don't have to make this decision just yet
What are your thoughts ladies?
After we found out I had miscarried I said that I want a scan at about 8 weeks next time. Part of me thinks it's a good idea for several reasons:
To be able to make sure everything is progressing nicely, and not having to wait until 12 weeks. To know earlier if things aren't going right. I think to see the hb feels like it will keep me going.
But then I know that there is always the possibility that things can go wrong after that scan before the next... but then I think that it'd be nice to see a heartbeat at least once... but then I think maybe it'd be better to not see it if things were to go wrong... and then I realise I have talked myself round in a circle.
Thankfully I don't have to make this decision just yet
What are your thoughts ladies?