Hey girlies!
Well just got into work from my first scan and feeling a bit disheartened after my excited/nervous mood yesterday. I should be 6 weeks tomorrow and they said that they couldn't see anything resembling that timescale so they did an internal and said it was clearer and is about 4-5 weeks. I didn't get shown anything as could not see the screen and the woman typed up her report and sealed it in an envelope for me to give to Early Pregnancy Clinic. Walking to the EPC the whole thing just made me think that there must be something wrong. The EPC nurse was lovely and just said congratulations and has booked me in for another scan on Wednesday 25th Jan so fingers crossed everything is ok and progressing nicely by that one and hopefully next time they will let me see the screen! Ok waffle/moan etc. over.
Sorry girlies, I just felt like I needed to get that off my chest.
Hope your all ok?! I've only got another 20 mins left of internet time at work so I will catch up later!!
Big hugs!
J xxx
Name (just first)? Jennifer
How old are you? 26
What's your EDD, how have you figured that date? Well, it SHOULD be Sept 9 based on ovulation date, but since my OB refuses to listen to me I guess it's Sept 7 based on LMP. Whatever, I'll talk 2 days earlier.
What # child is this for you? Ha. Well. Technically 3rd.... but the 1st was placed for adoption, 2nd is DS and the love of my life, and this one is a surrogate baby... DS is going to have an interesting family tree.
Do you predict you're carrying a boy or girl? Well, I'm kinda feeling boy, but the whole thing doesn't feel real yet so who knows.
Are you finding out the gender? Yes!!
How many months were you TTC? Just one!
Are you on any meds to help support your pregnancy? I was taking baby aspirin under the impression it would help beef up my lining- we started TTC immediately after my mirena IUD came out- but stopped that once I got my BFP. Only prenatals (technically just a women's one-a-day) now.
I'm so excited to jump in on this group! I'm working my way through all the previous posts, it feels like getting to know you all, but I'm only on page 15 or so and I wanted to hurry and post so I could find it again under my subscriptions.
So a little about me, because I have a somewhat weird situation- I'm a traditional surrogate via artificial insem for a lovely gay couple. I refer to them as O and R, and you'll probably see them referenced a lot! I'm also married and have 1 son, and DH is very supportive of the whole thing.
I have a 1st appointment scheduled for 2/8, but I may be switching to a different dr. I'm struggling to find someone who I'm comfortable with, who is also comfortable with my situation. I also live in a very conservative, closed-minded area which makes it a little harder, I think.
to all!
I wanted to go ahead and say welcome to all the people I haven't welcomed yet -- I already feel like an old-timer being in week 6 when there's so many new week 4s popping up! I wish I could keep track of everyone so I could wish y'all happy week anniversaries, but I'm just plain too tired out to do it. =( Sorry.
Man, it's gonna get super weird as the month progresses, isn't it? In two weeks I'll be 8 weeks and there'll be NEW week 4s! Wait, would those still be due in Sept? Ugh, too tired for math.
I'm really struggling with fatigue from about 5p to 9p. And since that's generally the entire last half of my work shift...man, it's been pretty terrible. My OB recommended waiting another two weeks before I make any announcements, so fending off "What's going on?" questions from my co-workers is going to be kind of a pain. But it's definitely getting worse, and I am taking that as a sign that little Baby September is working hard to get chubby and adorable.
What's our ratio of pukers to non-pukers so far? I haven't puked yet and now that I've seen my bean and know that all is okay, I'm sure GLAD I'm not.
Sorry for the novel...apparently I just felt chatty. It's been a good day. Here's the scan image I promised! Also, the slightly fuzzier larger "bean" looking thing to the right is my ovary, not another baby. She was quick to clarify that, haha.
https://oi40.tinypic.com/2en4ute.jpg
Hello ladies
I'm feeling positive today.. Literally! I'm 17dpo and my test went positive within 10 seconds. This did not happen with the chemicals. I gave in and did another CBD hoping to see 2-3 but nothing at all happened. I did everything right and never even got a timer lol :/
Hey girlies!
Well just got into work from my first scan and feeling a bit disheartened after my excited/nervous mood yesterday. I should be 6 weeks tomorrow and they said that they couldn't see anything resembling that timescale so they did an internal and said it was clearer and is about 4-5 weeks. I didn't get shown anything as could not see the screen and the woman typed up her report and sealed it in an envelope for me to give to Early Pregnancy Clinic. Walking to the EPC the whole thing just made me think that there must be something wrong. The EPC nurse was lovely and just said congratulations and has booked me in for another scan on Wednesday 25th Jan so fingers crossed everything is ok and progressing nicely by that one and hopefully next time they will let me see the screen! Ok waffle/moan etc. over.
Sorry girlies, I just felt like I needed to get that off my chest.
Hope your all ok?! I've only got another 20 mins left of internet time at work so I will catch up later!!
Big hugs!
J xxx
purplepanda, what an amazing gift to them, someone offered to be a surrogate for me and it wasjust the kindest thing ever.
Jinbean I had a scan at 5 weeks ish and didnt see much, six weeks we saw a bit more and then seven weeks we saw a heartbeat, all was fine with her