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Love all the birth stories ladies! Theyre all so different and many of us sound like not quite the ideal experience lol. Hope the pre-e stays away for everyone!
Congrats @Suggerhoney such a peanut
@Reiko_ctu yea the one nurse after having my second literally told my husband I was too quiet and they couldnt believe I wasnt screaming in agony. Then turns to me and said “if you have another make a huge fuss so we believe you” no thanks, I’d rather be calm and in control. I didnt even mention with my first they never cathed me bc I progressed faster than they thought a first time mom should. They were also pumping me full of saline in case of blood loss bc I dont accept blood products. So extra fluids, no cath = lots of bleeding after bc my bladder was so full the uterus couldnt contract. After stitches…..the doctor had to go up to her elbow to check for retained placenta….after that 3 times (mind you they had taken out my epidural already) they had an ultrasound tech come look - thankfully she saw my full bladder and they were able to get it all settled and bleeding stopped shortly after. I dont fault the doctors bc they had no idea the nurses never cathed me and honestly they were right on top of it as soon as I kept bleeding. There were like 12 doctors in my room immediately. But 2nd labor I made it very clear I wanted a cath before pushing! Lol
Sooo sorry to hear your sister had to be delivered so early with her first. Hope she can bring baby home soon
Congrats @Suggerhoney such a peanut
@Reiko_ctu yea the one nurse after having my second literally told my husband I was too quiet and they couldnt believe I wasnt screaming in agony. Then turns to me and said “if you have another make a huge fuss so we believe you” no thanks, I’d rather be calm and in control. I didnt even mention with my first they never cathed me bc I progressed faster than they thought a first time mom should. They were also pumping me full of saline in case of blood loss bc I dont accept blood products. So extra fluids, no cath = lots of bleeding after bc my bladder was so full the uterus couldnt contract. After stitches…..the doctor had to go up to her elbow to check for retained placenta….after that 3 times (mind you they had taken out my epidural already) they had an ultrasound tech come look - thankfully she saw my full bladder and they were able to get it all settled and bleeding stopped shortly after. I dont fault the doctors bc they had no idea the nurses never cathed me and honestly they were right on top of it as soon as I kept bleeding. There were like 12 doctors in my room immediately. But 2nd labor I made it very clear I wanted a cath before pushing! Lol
Sooo sorry to hear your sister had to be delivered so early with her first. Hope she can bring baby home soon