WantsALittle1
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It's true, needhope. It sounds like it would have been different if she were hanging out with your little man! Unfortunately she was hanging out with kiddos who's parents were correcting the hitting every now and then, but were letting much of it go uncorrected which, I think, sends a mixed message to their own child.
And I was in this awkward position where I was trying to correct these other mothers' kids. Frankly if the kid were hitting AJ but the parent were catching it and giving them consequences, I really wouldn't have a problem with it. Their kid would see that it's not okay and AJ would see too, and that would make me feel better about it. I just have a hard time letting her be around kids whose hitting and other discourteous behavior is being excused because they are 'just a toddler.'
I hope that makes sense!
And I was in this awkward position where I was trying to correct these other mothers' kids. Frankly if the kid were hitting AJ but the parent were catching it and giving them consequences, I really wouldn't have a problem with it. Their kid would see that it's not okay and AJ would see too, and that would make me feel better about it. I just have a hard time letting her be around kids whose hitting and other discourteous behavior is being excused because they are 'just a toddler.'
I hope that makes sense!