14 dpo and Negative HPT...

[Sunshine7125]

i go to acupuncture to help regulate my cycles and was told my pulse felt different this time and id have a good chance so been feeling good this month i hope its because it just too early to show on a test and maybe i implanted a little late!
i re-checked my fertility friend chart and it now says predicted af for thursday with the new information i put in! so we'll see if it arrives. i have struggled with my cycles since the last mc and now have been back on a regular cycle since starting acupuncture sessions! wouldnt go without it now!
i would question them to the blood test i practically had to beg my doctor to take bloods for testing my hormone levels as i wanted to know. turns out everything was fine but i had to see 4 different doctors at the same practice just to be entertained they wont do it if you're not persistent!

If I don't start by Friday I am going to nicely demand a blood test haha. I don't feel comfortable taking pills to start my period if I am not 100% I am not pregnant especially since we took fertility pills this month. Sometimes the Dr's amaze me with what they suggest I hope a BFP for you!!

 

[Mrskg]

Well I'm in that limbo land done an ic this morn saw a faint pink line but was after time scale so done early superdrug test an def a very very faint line posted pic on a couple of threads an everyone else can see it too x still not convinced though as very very faint but feeling positive either way what will be will be an nothing I can do to change it hope I still feel like that if af hows but with the support of all you ladies on here I know I'll be fine x x
Sorry to all who got caught by that pest of a witch an gl to every one else x

 

[Sunshine7125]

Well the witch got me as soon as I got off work... Good luck girls! I will be seeing you soon for my next tww.. Lots of baby dust!!

 

[Mrskg]

Aw I'm so sorry gl an have fun on you next cycle x x x chase that eggy! X

 

[Sunshine7125]

Thank u!! I sure I hope we catch it this month! =)

 

[cloud9]

sorry sunshine and you def have the right attitude well done! so many times you hear how people are so 'depressed' that af arrived i see it as a new month for another opportunity ...go you!

 

[Mrskg]

I agree I'm depressed just now cause in limbo prefer when af comes as you say new chase can begin an if it fails least we have fun trying could think of worse ways to spend my time lol x

 

[cloud9]

definately! im in limbo too at the moment it sucks! according to my cbfm i ovulated 15 days ago and fertility friend says af is due tomorrow but havent had any symptoms but i dont like to symptom spot too much as its been very different for me each time so tells me nothing really! im holding out until the weekend to test again if af hasnt shown up

 

[Mrskg]

Oh fx'd for u x just saw another post of yours gave me hope if implantation took me12days an then another 3 for hcg to show I could still be in that timeline an could explain very faint bfp or I could be clutching a straws an that witch might be revving up her broomstick lol x x

 

[cloud9]

lol stay positive my 2nd pregnancy i implanted on 12dpo (had some spotting) and didnt get a faint bfp until 15dpo and then it was darker by 18dpo when i went for an early scan at 7 weeks my dates were bang on and could see a heartbeat. unfortunately ended in mc at just over 9 weeks but this is not the case for all pregnancies i just seem to have been very unlucky so far

 

[Mrskg]

so sorry for your losses x im just stressing if im not pregnant thats fine but where is af??????????? x

 

[cloud9]

sorry for yours too you might just be getting back to normal its still early days. i recovered fairly quick after the 1st mc i got my cycles back to the usual after about 2-3 months but this time it's just not been as easy they were fine to begin with then eventually i just didnt get any! thats when i began acupuncture and its helped me get back on track.. wish i'd gone sooner because out of the year ive only had 6 cycles where i have actually ovulated and hubby has only been home for 2 of them as he works away alot. sucks waiting!
how did you find your predictions? i went to see a woman earlier this year and she told me september or december would be a significant date for me with regards to conceiving and also predicted twins! so we'll see. when she said that in april i felt like that was an eternity away its actually come round pretty quick. i ditched all of the opk's, preseed and everything else this month cos im starting to get fed up with it all! just waiting for it to happen any day now.... im sure it will be our turn soon!!!

 

[Mrskg]

cathy is a medium that stays close to me got readin couple of wks after mc she was great mesina was online but alot of what she said coincided with cathy made me relax this month as not expecting anything till dec lol but af decided to be a pain last 2 cycles were reg ive just been thinking i took vit b6 for about a wk then stopped wonder if such a little ammount could have changed my cycle x you have it even tougher if your oh not around at the right times x

 

[cloud9]

lol i think thats a good thing they give you a date and you can work towards it my reading was september or december either birth or conception so i feel some hope for the coming months!
b6 can change your cycle as it is good for lengthening your luteal phase, if you dont need it i wouldnt take it atall. i have been taking chinese herbals along with my acupuncture and it made a huge difference i wasnt given them after my last session and i wonder if thats why my cycle is different this time as i was back on a 28 day cycle before... im on cd38 at the moment i know i didnt ovulate until at least cd24 which would mean im due af tomorrow. either way i can feel shes definately not coming for me so now i think i didnt ovulate until after acupuncture treatment - if thats the case i will be only be around 6-7dpo at the moment! so confusing lol !!
it drives me mad hubby not being here especially when im ovulating it is so frustrating i could cry!

 

[Mrskg]

Oh my hubby not being here would make me cry too

I'm really into the spirit world so I really should have faith an stop stressing an just let it happen cause if they say it's going too I know it will x it's good getting dates but all cathy said was that I would know I was pregnant before my oldest turns 18 in jan so could be anytime unless you go by mesina but as I've never met her an was a short reading so I can't take her as serious just in case x I really hope your predictions come true an if you fall in dec you'll be due in sept! That's one thing that makes me think about mesina after my readin I checked to see what my due date would be an it was 7th sept which was a yr to the day of reading found that quite spooky

I have a short cycle n was worried I might have a short lp so thought I'd take vit b6 but then got thinking I've got 3kids 1mmc an there's a baby waiting to come from spirit so I shouldn't be taking anything and that's why I never took it for long lol my friends think I'm crazy as look to the spirits for so much but I've had so much proof it has to be real x

Hope this all makes sense lol sorry for writing a book hope you're still awake x

 

[cloud9]

Oh my hubby not being here would make me cry too

I'm really into the spirit world so I really should have faith an stop stressing an just let it happen cause if they say it's going too I know it will x it's good getting dates but all cathy said was that I would know I was pregnant before my oldest turns 18 in jan so could be anytime unless you go by mesina but as I've never met her an was a short reading so I can't take her as serious just in case x I really hope your predictions come true an if you fall in dec you'll be due in sept! That's one thing that makes me think about mesina after my readin I checked to see what my due date would be an it was 7th sept which was a yr to the day of reading found that quite spooky

I have a short cycle n was worried I might have a short lp so thought I'd take vit b6 but then got thinking I've got 3kids 1mmc an there's a baby waiting to come from spirit so I shouldn't be taking anything and that's why I never took it for long lol my friends think I'm crazy as look to the spirits for so much but I've had so much proof it has to be real x

Hope this all makes sense lol sorry for writing a book hope you're still awake x

it drives me crazy but then i think well it surely doesnt help either! one of the reasons i started acupuncture as it has helped my stress levels so much. i always worry for my hubby when he is away

im a total believer in it too ive had some really nice messages and one reading in particular said specific things that no one else would know it was really very personal to me but then my mum went to the same woman and she got nothing.i seem to always look to the spirits for whenever i feel i need a bit of guidance it just gives me that little bit of hope when she said september or december date she also said that she could see it being twins- one of each!
how amazing would that be!

definately, you just have to not take anything! you managed it all those other times before, thats how i think. i can get pregnant so its only a matter of time before it will happen again

 

[Mrskg]

Is your husband in the army?

Twins would be lovely how exciting if that comes true

Here here to natural ttc you really cheer me up if we both get dec bfps we can be bump buddies lol unless this is our month of course x x

 

[cloud9]

he's offshore ....i would dread to think what my stress levels would be if he was in the army i'd be pulling my hair out! he doesn't have a set rotation either so its not uncommon if he gets called away last minute i think thats what bothers me the most because we dont know when hes going to be here and when hes not

it really would be amazing

definately- bump buddies! it would be great to share with someone as i think when i do fall pregnant i will be so nervous because of 2 mc's in past dont think i could go through that again

 

[Mrskg]

Oh I'm glad lol does sound safer shame about schedule though x

I'm dreading how I will feel with my mmc I had symptoms from about a wk before bfp they goy gradually worse I was sick all the time I got a bump straight away not for one min did I think anything would go wrong sickness an sore bbs fade at 12wks was slightly worried by this slight spotting at 12wk 3days confirmed mc by scan baby stopped growing at 6wks so for 6wks my body had tricked me then it took another 3wks to pass was the longest month of my life an prob the worst so obviously strong symptoms not always a good thing x x I think I will worry till 20wk scan then hopefully relax a bit x

 

[cloud9]

i know, we have a limited time scale and i think thats why its not working for us! if hes home for ovulation everything is focused around that and not enjoying our time together. it was our anniversary last month and decided no more charting or opk's just to relax and get on with it

i was the same with the last pregnancy my bump started to show at 6 weeks and i had alot of strong symptoms at the beginning that stopped at about 8 weeks, at our 12 week scan it showed the baby had stopped growing at 9 weeks and decided to go into hospital to help pass it i did that with the first aswell however with first pregnancy i had no symptoms atall didnt realise i was even pg until i was 13 weeks along not showing or anything i went to the doctor with a cold and they just so happened to do a full round of bloods and found alot of hcg in my system! that ended at 15-16 weeks so i thought i was past the safe point at least we can worry together now as its inevitable we will worry its only natural!!!