17, pregnant, abortion?

[lfc_sarah]

Congratulations xxx

 

[vikkie1991]

if you are having doubts it seriously shows u shouldnt have the abortion, im 16 and found out i was pregnant 8 weeks ago i as considering abortion until i went to the first scan then i couldnt understand where the feeling of abortion came from and now im lookin forward to the best part of my life coming but honestly if u r having doubts it shows its not what u want, do u really want to have an abortion and egret it afterwards?

 

[Dream.A.Dream]

Congratulations on deciding to keep your baby i hope all works out well with telling your parents.

 

[celine]

Congrats on keeping the baba, Im so glad ur man is into it with you, makes ur life loads easier when your oh is supportrive

Good luck & God Bless hun

As I was reading your thread you mentioned your sister...are you on good terms with her? She might be able to help you with what u are feeling atm?

 

[Sarah-Jane]

Congrats on keeping the baba, Im so glad ur man is into it with you, makes ur life loads easier when your oh is supportrive

Good luck & God Bless hun

As I was reading your thread you mentioned your sister...are you on good terms with her? She might be able to help you with what u are feeling atm?

Na, we're not really that close. We're more like mates that see eachother now n then, not like sisters which isn't great.
Thanks for you advice though xx

 

[xXx Vamp xXx]

Just wanted to wish you well for the future hun xXx

 

[Amy-Lea]

I was 17 and got pregnant to a Man I had know for under a month. I was at a bad time in my life and didn't even like him but because he took a shine to me I just fell into the trap.
Finding out i was pregnant was a major shock, I had no job, I was in 6th form getting A's and wanted to go to university. I forced myself to stay with him for 3 months, praying I would fall in love but it never happened. These things happen all the time, believe me, you WILL find a coping statergy and were as money worries are concearned, forget all your sterotypes, go for it and get help of the state, people who don't need it take it, and if your in need, your more than entitled to it.

Also you say your boyfriend wont be to keen on the idea. I got with my boyfriend when I was 6 months pregnant, because i never had a bump he was i denial ( when i was 5 months) and didn't no wether he could handle be with me, he just avoided any pregnancy talk. But one day we were just sitting in the car and he saw Hallie's arm come out of my belly and her roll over, there and then he said I had to bear with him, if he thinks he can't handle the baby he will tell me asap, for for know he was willing to give the baby a chance.

Now the baby is 6 months and he tels everyone he has a daughter, he loves her too bits. If soemone who isnt even attached to the baby can love her so much imagine your partner when he starts seeing scans and moving bellies. good luck

 

[Danielle]

hey hun, i agree with most of the girls dont have an abortion unless you are really sure about it, take more time to think, hope everything goes well

 

[SJK]

having the baby will be the best thing you ever do, good luck xx

 

[7WZ]

You can have an abortion up to 12 weeks really. 24 weeks if there's real problems but it's rare. Just because you dont get on with your mum shouldnt stop you. I didn't get on with mine that well before I got pregnant and I was so scared about telling her but when I did she was happy and fine about it but shocked. If you really want the baby then don't worry about money and other people apart from you, your other half and the baby. You won't be left without nothing if you have a baby. That's why living in England is so good. You will get money to live on it just wont be alot. If you really want it don't let silly things get in the way.

 

[jobee2222]

Its a tough situation, but i think mayb you should talk to your mum. She knows you best and mayb able to give you the answers to your questions. Give it time however - you dont want to make a decsion that you may later regret.

 

[anamaz]

hun the very fact that you came onto the net and found this site and posted shows you are having serious doubts
have a really long think about this adn seriously i know how hard it is to tell your parents about being pregnant i found it hard too but if you dont want to have an abortion dont there are ways of getting by
and i dont want you to live with the regret for the rest of your life as it never leaves you

 

[Sarah-Jane]

Had my first antenatal booking appointment yesterday, we've got our 1st scan on the 1st of September Can't wait hehe xx

 

[Aidan's Mummy]

Had my first antenatal booking appointment yesterday, we've got our 1st scan on the 1st of September Can't wait hehe xx

aww thats great news hunni . good luck for then
xx

 

[princess_x0]

Had my first antenatal booking appointment yesterday, we've got our 1st scan on the 1st of September Can't wait hehe xx

aw thats great xx

 

[Sarah-Jane]

Thanks Everyone

 

[enigma]

Hi, just read the thread (im late for everything me) I wanted to wish you good luck on your pregnancy. You'll know you've made the right choise when hold that little bundle in your arms for the first time, i swear there is no feeling in the world like that.
I was wondering, did you tell your mum? (i dont if i missed it or if you havent mentioned it, sorry)

Anyway, congrats and good luck.

 

[Always&4ever]

Good luck babe! Were all here for you *hugs*

 

[Toni08]

Good ,luck xxxxxx you will be thrilled when u see your little bean on your scan xxx

 

[Sarah-Jane]

Hi, just read the thread (im late for everything me) I wanted to wish you good luck on your pregnancy. You'll know you've made the right choise when hold that little bundle in your arms for the first time, i swear there is no feeling in the world like that.
I was wondering, did you tell your mum? (i dont if i missed it or if you havent mentioned it, sorry)

Anyway, congrats and good luck.

Na, you haven't missed it lol... I still haven't brought myself round to telling my mum or dad yet. We want to wait till the scan to tell both of our parents, think it will be easier if they can see their grandchild actually on a picture (although he/she will only look like a blob as my sisters scan did, but I think they'll see we're really serious about this... I hope)
I feel awful not telling them, although I'm not at all close to my mum, I have so much respect for my dad and he trusts me so much, and I'm just beginning to feel so guilty not telling him. I know he'll stand by me and support me and I think he'd want me to stay at home, but I just know he'll be so disappointed. But I know he'll understand why we waited 12 weeks, and I honestly think he'll be proud of me once the baby's born and the shock has gone as I want to really prove myself now, show everyone us teen mums aren't just chavs after a free flat haha. He'll know I'll do my best