17DPO no AF but cramps!

[shaescott]

You def hit a sensitive spot hehe Stop poking around in there lol
I get you on not wanting your mom to know yet. I am the same with my mom. If she knew I was ttc 1 she would say you don't need a baby, and 2 every neighbor on the block would know in 5 mins lol.
I am only having to pee every 20 mins cuz I am trying to drink more water...it goes right through me it seems.
I hate having to go all the time.
Hope you get some answers soon B.
Any new sympts body wise? Boobs? cm?
I looked at my old chart and my cm was creamy every day with DS up til I stopped charting at 8 wks

My boobs are sore on and off, CM varies from creamy to watery. I just started spotting though. It's like EW CM mixed with tan stuff, no blood. I think it's probably AF coming, that's how it often starts.

 

[JLM73]

uh oh...
well if by chance it is I really hope you get back to your normal pattern immed after.
I know this limbo has been draining for you.
Pls keep us updated sweetie

 

[shaescott]

uh oh...
well if by chance it is I really hope you get back to your normal pattern immed after.
I know this limbo has been draining for you.
Pls keep us updated sweetie

Idk what it is. I did BD last night (kinda rough at times) so that could have done something... and there isn't any when I wipe, just when I swab... and I know that that kind of spotting is normal for early pregnancy. I'll just have to give it a few days to see if it turns into bleeding. At least it's brown not pink... Agh this night itching argh... and I just peed for the millionth time today...

 

[JLM73]

Ahh well maybe the then since it is old blood and not much...sensitive cervix due to increased bloodflow perhaps hmmm sounds interesting.

 

[shaescott]

Aaaaand we have pink. I did just pretty rough though so I mean idk but I'm pretty sure this is AF. It's always possible that I was pregnant and am miscarrying, which would explain the symptoms, but idk.

 

[shaescott]

PINK IS GONE! We're back to light tan. Honestly I'm so confused right now.

 

[shaescott]

I feel like the pink will come back though.

 

[JLM73]

hehe Naughty girl...I'm jealous lol.
I have "options" for that at the moment, but don't want to do anything until I know for sure what's going on with this cycle.
Hey if a good hard "wrestling match" doesn't start AF, then perhaps it's something else. FX!

 

[shaescott]

It's totally possible that this is implantation and I wasn't pregnant but am now. Wouldn't that be crazy? But the symptoms.... hmmm... Idk. Tan CM is fading, but it'll probably come back and turn into AF.

 

[JLM73]

Uh, unfortunately that puts you in BFP limbo still lol
Hopefully it's not AF and you skipped last cycle but are preg now!
You don't have to have a period to ovulate...so many factors !

 

[shaescott]

Yeah. I wish the female reproductive system wasn't so complicated. I guess I'll test again in a week if AF is a no-show.

 

[shaescott]

CM is now regular clear EWCM. I give up on my body lol.

 

[JLM73]

gasp - !!!
Maybe you skipped an AF and have come back around to O
Go for it!!

 

[shaescott]

Unfortunately I can't. My fiance is gone for the next week. And he didn't finish the last two times we had sex so if I'm Oing, I'm out.

 

[JLM73]

ahhh
Sorry B

 

[shaescott]

So this morning I had blood. It was more rusty red than bright red. It was probably less than a ml of blood, it was a swab of the finger. After the swab a tampon caught a spot the size of a pen mark, so not much at all. Now it's gone, back to tan. I had a massive bowel movement, which normally pushes out more blood when I'm on my period, and nothing but tan. I'm so confused.

 

[JLM73]

and so am i lol
No idea hun. May be time for some labs...
So odd

 

[shaescott]

Maybe. I'll see if it comes back.

 

[shaescott]

I'm like 99% sure this is AF. Sigh. Ok more like 75%.

 

[JLM73]

uh oh
If so then I hope you are going to try again
Def want to see you get your BFP!