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1st m/c January, 2nd m/c May, still trying for 3rd BFP

thanks Angel

I am almost scared to get a BFP now since she said i should have waited 3 months! only time will tell i guess!

How is everyone today?

Angel what time do you get your bloods done?
 
Labs are taken before 9am, so now it's a waiting game :xmas17: I'm hoping they call by lunch time!

You'll be fine with a BFP...my RE told me to just wait one cycle. I feel your body will let you get preggers when it's ready to be preggers.
 
Here here Angel, completely agree. My mum told me to stop putting so much pressure on my body as it had been through a lot...she means well but not as clued up on fertility and the body as I like to think I am! I was feeling twinges a lot in the 2ww and was obsessing about them thinking it was good news-implantation, or something bad like endometriosis...spent hours googling! Turned out to be nothing, just my head! But the twinges were very real and my mum kept telling me to not focus on my uterus so much ha ha! Do you remember me saying she suggested I look into adoption?! Anyway I don't know why I waffling on, sorry ladies, just wanted to point out that your body WILL hold your baby when it's ready...all we can do when ttc is hope, pray and wait! Distraction is also useful for mental state ha ha! I was busy in my last 2ww x

Good luck Angel, I just know it's going to be good :-) but isn't the wait SOOO annoying!!
 
thanks ladies.. sorry I was venting.. I was just scared id get a BFP and because of the spotting Id miscarry again and then have to wait another 3 months.. lol i tend to over analize also!
 
1983 ~ Sometime's our Mother's can be like our DH's in that they don't like to see us stress or hurt, so they say some crazy things thinking that will calm us.

Bailey ~ Everything will be just fine of you get a BFP straight away! Lord knows my DH and I started ttc as soon as I got my 1st AF. Obviously it didn't take until after cycle #3, so I am a firm believer in it will happen when it is meant to happen. In the meantime did you test today or are you waiting until the weekend? I know I ask you this every day...I'm just anxious and it's spilling over to your tww. :xmas4:

Manny ~ I temped today, but only because I had spotting yesterday and wanted to see if things were heading south...I need DH to hide my thermometer, temp was fine. *phew!*

Mrs, Starry, Jess and anyone I may have missed :hugs:

Is it time for the nurse to call yet? I cannot believe I will have to go through this waiting on Friday too! I totally need this trip to NY!
 
Hope you get a call soon! and when are u going to NYC?

I dont want to test lol... im trying to wait out AF
 
1983 ~ Sometime's our Mother's can be like our DH's in that they don't like to see us stress or hurt, so they say some crazy things thinking that will calm us.

Bailey ~ Everything will be just fine of you get a BFP straight away! Lord knows my DH and I started ttc as soon as I got my 1st AF. Obviously it didn't take until after cycle #3, so I am a firm believer in it will happen when it is meant to happen. In the meantime did you test today or are you waiting until the weekend? I know I ask you this every day...I'm just anxious and it's spilling over to your tww. :xmas4:

Manny ~ I temped today, but only because I had spotting yesterday and wanted to see if things were heading south...I need DH to hide my thermometer, temp was fine. *phew!*

Mrs, Starry, Jess and anyone I may have missed :hugs:

Is it time for the nurse to call yet? I cannot believe I will have to go through this waiting on Friday too! I totally need this trip to NY!

MY DH has taken my Thermometer and i have no idea where it is lol:thumbup:
 
So HCG a bit more than doubled 311, yay! but progesterone dropped. :shrug: More labs Friday because they said progesterone can vary and they want to make sure it stays within range. I'm tempted to go buy a progesterone cream...
 
Glad the HCG more than double that is fantastic!!!!!

Sorry about the progesterone dropping but lets see what they say friday... Im sure you will be fine:) and if you need a supplement then thats fine too:hugs::hugs:
 
Hi Ladies - sorry I've been MIA for a few days. Been so busy at work.

Angle so pleased the HCG doubled nicely. Ask your doctor for a script for progesterone supplements. I was on them for the first 12 weeks and I think it made all the difference. I have low progesterone and that was the suspected cause of my second mc. I looked back at my chart and I had spotting at 14dpo. I was convinced that was it but here i am at 16 weeks so hoping all is fine for you too!

Bazz - I agree with the other ladies. If you get a bfp now, your body is ready and you will be fine. My doctor told me to wait 1 cycle and he said that provided everything had passed (if it was natural) there is no medical reason to even wait the one cycle. I think they tell you to wait longer for mental well-being and also due to the frustration that TTC causes when your cycle isn't playing ball!

A1983, Starry, Mrs - hope your all well! Bring on Friday and the weekend. Its a bank holiday here on Monday - wooohooo!

xx
 
Manny ~ Looking back I should've asked her at what point they'll give me progesterone...obviously my 12 point drop wasn't significant enough to cause concern for them. It is certainly on my list of questions for tomorrow morning! Thank you for the suggestion.

Hi ladies! Any news Bailey?
 
good luck tomorrow hun

not much new here.. had some pink when i went to the washroom last nigth and non since so i thought maybe AF was onn her way.....

I do have a cramp in my right side all day its very dull and achey and my right leg is a bit crampy also... feels weird..:shrug:
 
Hi ladies, good luck Angel-what was your last progesterone level? I've heard progesterone fluctuates all the time but if it drops too low then yes supposetries will be needed but worth it :-)

Been feeling very sick and so tired-been chilling but back to work today for 8 days straight boo!!

Hope you are all well :-) 16 weeks Manny-woo! You must have a little bump now :-) I have a hard little bump right above my pubic bone and my tummy is sticking out a little bit, so sweet :-)
 
Let us know how you get on Angel. Really hoping for good news from you!

A1983 - I definitely have a bump growing now. I have a scan on Thursday so will post a pic of my bump with a pic of baby then. I'm so excited. Don't know how I will get through the next week. Sorry you have 8 days of work straight. I just had my last official day in the office today. Working from home next week and then holidays until 7 Jan! Sorry - I'm sure I'm not helping;)

Bazz - how are you feeling? When are you going to test?
 
Manny ~ I plan on testing maybe next week just incase I O'd a little late :)

Angel~ good luck today will be thinking of you

1983~ hope u feel better hunny and dont work too hard

Everyone else:hi: and hope you ladies are all well :hugs:
 
Jeez...sorry for the delayed response. Unbeknownst to my nurse, the lab lost power and transferred their specimens. It took her all day to find them! My Betas doubled and progesterone is at 24.3. Things are still progressing even with the random spotting!

Bazz...you have some great patience with testing! Fx for you!

Hope this finds you all well!
 
Glad to hear angel!!!! What a relief!

When do u leave for NYC
 
Yey that's brilliant Angel! Does that mean you don't need supposetries? (I'm not sure of levels!)

Just had my first midwife appointment, makes me so hopeful and everything to real which scares me as I want this SO much. The baby pack she has left me I've put away until my 12 week scan! My midwife said once the heartbeat is heard mc is so much less of a risk, it's just a case of getting through the next 4 weeks...and keep sane!! My tummy is definitely got a bump to it though, can't wear tight tops to work or people could see! Ohh midwife also said 70% of pregnant women have GBS (group b strep) at some point in their pregnancy as its a naturally occurring bacteria and it is not dangerous to pregnancy at all, but if detected when you get swabbed (around 35 weeks) all you'll need is iv antibiotics during labour. I'll need them as have shown positive 'at some point' during this pregnancy, even if negative at 35 weeks. But if negative when in labour thats even better as no GBS! But will still have antibiotics as precautionary.

Hope you are all well ladies :-)
 
BFN here this am, which I am okay with. Since I've been spotting off and on for over two weeks. So come on af so i can make a New Years baby :)
 

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