1st m/c January, 2nd m/c May, still trying for 3rd BFP

[bazzb]

thanks, im not getting excited yet though as I dont want to get let down, we were not actively trying ( i didnt think i ovulated yet) we are waiting for AF to arrive before we start, although a postive would be a true blessing,

I am stressing so much now, all i think about it everyday, what if my period doesnt come for months then I cant get preggo til the new year, im constantly doing math for if i convience this month when will my due date be etc.

The month I did convieve in july i thought about it A LOT as well, used OPK and BD that day and the day after and it was sucessful.

 

[A1983]

I think there is something in waiting to bd til you get a +opk as before my bfp I started earlier...but the month I got my bfp I left it til day 13 and I got ov pains on day 15, so just bd'd day 13,14&15....going to do that from now on too. Maybe it dries out your cm if you start too soon! :-\

 

[mannymoo]

A1983 it's totally normal to think about ALL the time. I was exactly the same. I spent so much time and effort worrying about when we should/shouldn't be dtd. Eventually we decided to go with SMEP and I found that although there was a lot of BDing, we both knew when we had to be available and I didn't worry as much about if I was picking the right days. It's impossible to tell someone not to think about it so instead I suggest you think about as often as you want but keep your thoughts positive. You WILL see the two lines again and it WILL be soon! Stay strong. Xx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Bazz

Ok, I'm trying not to be too excited for you either...but I'm giddy for you!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Mrs it's almost Friday!

Manny! Glad you and LO are well.

1983 I second what Manny has said! It is hard not to think about ttc every waking moment, especially after a mc. I think it helps with emotional healing...gives you something to look forward to. We'll get there!

 

[bazzb]

I used a dollar store opk tonight after a short hold and I drank a bit of water the line was lighter than last night.. I dunno y I bother lol

 

[mannymoo]

Bazz opks pick up hcg. I definitly suggest stop testing with fresh urine. Try in the morning with FMU.

 

[bazzb]

Thanks manny no more opk's for me!!

How is everyone one today??

Mrs omg one more day!!!

 

[xoxo4angel]

G'afternoon ladies!

I went to RE today...my follie is at 20mm and lining at 8.5...things progress quickly when it comes to O time. Without seeing my lab results the Dr thinks I'll get a +ve OPK tomorrow. The timing couldn't be better because DH comes home tomorrow afternoon!

 

[bazzb]

awesome!!! whoo hooo

sending oodles of baby dust!!!!!!!!!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Thank you! I'm so glad he'll be here...I really have missed him, so it's a bonus that it's also O time!

Hope you are alright and avoiding the urge to poas!

 

[bazzb]

trying not to think about the one dollar store HPT i have at home LOL

 

[xoxo4angel]

Don't do it Bazz! Step away from the stick! Tomorrow morning is the ticket! You just have to make it until the morning!

 

[bazzb]

LOl I can do this!!!
i was thinking about testing saturday AM.

I have to work the early shift tomorrow and didnt want to bother it half asleep at 5 am LOL

 

[MrsNJR]

Angel what perfect timing! My hubby works away some times, and if we'd not got our BFP WHEN we did the chances are he'd have been away the following month, so it was perfect timing for us. Hopefully it's a good sign, I am a bit of a believer in things happening for a reason, so if doc says tomorrow is the big day, and hubby home tomorrow too, I'd say that's a pretty good sign that this is your month!

Bazz... Hang fire with those tests!! Lol

Eeek, just one more sleep for me and I should get some answers.... Xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Thank you Mrs! I really hope so...I know it will happen when it is supposed to.

My plan for tomorrow:
+ + + + =

 

[bazzb]

hahah love it!
have fun

 

[xoxo4angel]

Bazz, if you cave and POAS in the morning (which I would probably do regardless of the hour), please be sure to keep us posted! FX and

 

[xoxo4angel]

Mrs...thinking of you today!

Bazz...did you give in and poas?

Manny...hope you are feeling better!

 

[bazzb]

Nope i did not!! I thought i saw some very very pink yesterday on my TP but i guess i imagined it as still no aflol

MRS good luck hope everything is good XXX