20 year old wife looking for young buddies who are ttc! Update: 4 healthy babys born!

[youngwife20]

oops sorry i was respondign on my phone so didnt think the message sent ! ooops!

 

[MamaDee]

Sorry to be a downer ladies..but I am bleeding Going to the dr now, being sent to have a scan to make sure it's a regular miscarriage and not an ectopic. I'm shattered, this is my first time experiencing this :'(

 

[DG1984]

Sorry to be a downer ladies..but I am bleeding Going to the dr now, being sent to have a scan to make sure it's a regular miscarriage and not an ectopic. I'm shattered, this is my first time experiencing this :'(

I'm so sorry! Hope things go okay for you at the doctors. Praying for you!

 

[brookettc3]

I am so sorry Mamaofone please keep us posted! My bestfriend bled so bad for so many months while preganant where they told her she would most likely lose the baby and he was born 2 months ago full term healthy and happy baby boy don't lose hope

 

[Kimbre]

i was bleeding with my DD... not bright red or anything... but lightly and i about lost myself! i was flipping out on the nurse for not taking me more seriously. they told me i may have a MC. but i never did=) so there is hope. let us know what happens!

 

[MamaDee]

Thanks for the support and thinking positive ladies. Waited and waited all day, of course they had to have an overwhelmingly busy day at the hosp today. I wasn't able to wait for the results from the ultrasound as I had been there for 7 hrs already and DH had no choice but to get back to work ( so I had to be with ds), I was honestly tired of sitting in there anyways and was feeling fine at that point. Figured I'd rather be at home and comfortable. But because I didn't wait for the ultrasound results he couldn't say whether it was a regular miscarriage or ectopic. Since my pain had subsided he said that ectopic was unlikely but he booked me in on wednesday with the early pregnancy complications clinic. He said my levels are low and that it is no longer a viable pregnancy. Thankfully I am no longer having an cramping and honestly feel pretty much fine. I had my cries on and off today but somehow I am feeling very hopeful for the next time and just pray my cycle returns to normal quickly! Thanks girls!

 

[youngwife20]

Omg omg mommaofone! I am so sorry! this is so sad u are really brave to think so positive xx. I hope u get plenty of rest and this time next month u will have another healthy bfp I'm so sorry again mama my heart goes out to u xx

 

[hopeful4bubba]

I'm very sorry hun, get some rest and take care x

 

[youngwife20]

Were all here to support eachother xxxx hope everyone is doing ok


Update: I've been to docs and my cramps were just a muscle pull in lower stomach and did a blood test just to check I am ovulating or to check that I have ovulated yesturday I was on cd21 so he said they shud be able to know by now so fingers crossed.
I'm very laid back this month but hoping af domt turn up I'll find out in the next 5 days as now I'm on day 22! What day is the other ladys on? X

 

[brookettc3]

So an update on my pregnancy yesterday I had cramping and pain in my right ovary and got my levels done they had only gone up 15 in 4 days so they were very worried so they sent me in for an U/S to rule out ectopic the sono found a large cyst on my right ovary which would cause the pain and a teeny tiny ges sac but it was too small to measure. The doctor says he is worried about molar pregnancy now and I have to get my HCG checked again in a week if I havent bled or anything by then and if the levels are going up as they should then he wont worry but if not I will go in for another U/S to check for a baby or molar I pray it isnt a molar!!!

 

[DG1984]

Mama, I am sorry for what you are going through. Big to you, hope you are resting and taking care of yourself.

Brooke, I am sorry for what you're going through as well. I hope you're ok!

Well, I'm almost 11 weeks (only 2 more weeks until I go back to the doctor!) and I still have really bad morning sickness. I guess that's a good thing right?

How is everyone else doing? Throwing lots of baby dust your way...

 

[brookettc3]

Thank you DG I hope I am okay as well I just hope by some miracle my levels are drastically higher next week and my little bean is okay!! They are trying to give me hope but I just feel so down

 

[Kimbre]

oh man. i hope things get better brooke!

 

[Ginag88]

I've been trying for 5 months now.. I'm wondering why is it taking so long. I'm young! I'm hoping for a missed period the 16th... seems so far away... Sigh..... It seems like all my friends just sneeze and get preggo. ANyone else hoping for a missed period around the 16th. I tested this morning and got a BFN. but my obsessiveness is telling me thats its okay since I did it a bit early.

 

[Kimbre]

Ginag- i feel the same... i just turned 25... thats still young. it seems like all my friends sneeze and get preggo too! its bugging me. i was on the shot and that can cause it to take longer... but i have had a regular AF since december and NOTHING.
i am due for AF on the 13th. i am 10 DPO today and BFN. hoping its just too early?

 

[Ginag88]

@Kimbre - I am like 1 ovulation day away from going outside and screaming out loud in the just-in-time rain pour, "AREN'T I FERTILE ENOUGH GOT DAMMIT!!!" , instead i usually put on a crappy movie and eat milk and cookies. Either way, both are good feelings.

 

[Kimbre]

yeah. i am really starting to get pissed off that i cant conceive! i may have to go see a doctor if this cycle doesnt work. thats how fed up with it i am...i mean this 16 year old and her 14 year old bf are pregnant....come ON....

 

[MamaDee]

@Kimbre - I am like 1 ovulation day away from going outside and screaming out loud in the just-in-time rain pour, "AREN'T I FERTILE ENOUGH GOT DAMMIT!!!" , instead i usually put on a crappy movie and eat milk and cookies. Either way, both are good feelings.

Thanks! This actually made me smile and laugh. I am sorry you are feeling this way but trust that you are not alone! I was exactly at that point and finally got my bfp. Only to be here now losing it after it took so long to get. Also Kimbre about the 16 year old, I totally get it, I can't help but feel the same way when I see that. I am turning into a jealous monster, I even feel upset that one of my friends is on her 3rd child and (with a new boyfriend) and I can't even even have a 2nd child with my husband. My son doesn't help as he is desperate for a sibling and goes around telling everyone that "mummy has a baby in her tummy" and that he wants 2 babies. ( he does not know I was actually preg, he's just been saying that for about 3 months and even offers my tummy books and toys for the "baby" that doesn't exist, it's actually a little bit upsetting now. At first I thought he was very strange but I realized that there are about 5 pregnant mommies at his preschool and lots of his closest friends are having siblings.) I know it's terrible to think like that about the friend, I just can't help it! Just a little vent.... So glad I have you ladies to share this stuff with!

Also I go in today at noon to the early pregnancy complications clinic. I am really worried that they are going to tell me I am not passing anything and will have to have a D&C done. I have bleeding but it really does not seem heavy enough to empty my uterus. Sorry tmi but they said I should be clotting and passing tissue and would know once it had passed. This is definitely not happening I was really hoping everything would go naturally so that monday would have counted as cd 1 and my next cycle would be quickly on its way.

 

[Kimbre]

mamaofone... i am SO SO SO sorry that this is happening to you. after its taking so long and you finally get what you want only to have it taken away=( i hope that things get better...but this happened to my cousin and it had taken her so long b4, then after it didnt take long bc she was more fertile after the loss.

also...i am the same way... my cousin has three kids with three diff men and is upset she hasn't had a girl! so she wants another.... and i have a DD but with her bio dad whos a loser and isnt there for her... i want a baby with my husband! and its getting really frustrating. we just have to keep telling ourselves it WILL happen.

 

[MamaDee]

Thanks I am praying that is the case with me and I do conceive quickly after this is all over with. I did do quite a few things differently the month I conceived so will be trying to copy that cycle again, hopefully we have better luck than the past! I am cheering for your bfp soon also, I'm glad I can buddy up with you ladies again although my cycle will probably not quite match up