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[Phoenix82]

Thanks phoenix!
I am actively looking for jobs as home alone maybe getting to me....there is only so much cooking and cleaning I could do for two of us....
How r u all feeling?

Good luck with the job hunt
I'm cd8 due to start bding again and I'm not feeling it this month, can't be bothered with it all - strange and not like me

 

[Phoenix82]

So girls I need some girly advice if you don't mind.

Most months I used to have brown cm before AF shows up then a very light AF.

However the last few months I've had only a couple of hours of brown the. Red and brown together, with my cycle appearing to get slightly heavier.

This month I'm on cd9 and I had no brown cm before AF but since AF I've had brown cm on and off and today bright red blood when going to the ladies.

I'm not sure what is happening and it's bugging me now especially as we start to be tomorrow (but I don't really want to if there is blood).

I've started to excercise again but that shouldn't affect it.

My persona monitor is showing me as being in the fertile window and on the test stick it now has 2 lines which I understand to be showing estrogen and the the normal one hcg.

My temp was in the 35 degrees but is at 36.10 so I have literally no idea what my body is doing.

Any ideas or advice???

I have a 21 day blood test booked this month xxxx

 

[Jannah K]

Is the cd9 flow heavy? Do u have cramps?


I am 4dpo...been really irritable, depress, cranky for no reason...since o, OH and I have been clashing...
Got wet cm...weird as around o I was so dry...
Had runny nose last two days...

Other than that my neck acted up after so many minths yday..cannot take any med so in pain..dr says stress makes me get this pain...also suspects disk reversal in my neck....OH too busy to give me neck massage so i am just fighting pain as I dontw ant to take meds and interfere with implantation....


I haven't been going to gym since fertile period...just been doing fertility yoga, Pilates, Zumba at home....I am not too sure what is considerd too much...

 

[Jannah K]

https://www.myfertilitycharts.com/webedition/20/ovulation_chart.aspx?y=2014&m=3&d=7&ev=1&a=1&dt=1&l=107&fid=94345&pub=1"

Tatemp, RCP, nanninoo, Phoenix... how is my chart looking?

 

[Phoenix82]

Hey Jannah

There's no flow as such just spotting brown cm all day and this morning had a fair bit of blood.

I just don't know what is causing it and why it's happening

 

[Tatemp]

I'm DPO6 today, no symptoms at all. My temps were very near to my coverline, until today when it jumped from 36.3 to 36.7. Not really sure what's going on, I'll see what it does tomorrow. Since I have no symptoms at all i don't think this is my month either.

Phoenix, I am just as confused as you are about your symptoms. CD9 is a bit long to still be period related, have you ever had a period that long? It can't be ovulation, too many days and it's definitely too early for implantation. You tested BFN so it can't be an early miscarriage. As long as it's not so much that you need to wear a pad, I wouldn't worry too much. You did have an unusual cycle, maybe your body needs a little more time to readjust?.

Jannah K, your chart looks great. There is a clear shift in temperatures, so you definitely ovulated.

 

[Jannah K]

Thanks Tatemp......I hope your temp stays up!!
Phoenix how r u feeling? Did u have period for this long before? Keep a record of all this so when u see a dr...they can provide some guidance....

 

[Phoenix82]

Hey girls

I just feel v low at the moment but more confused then anything.

I've never had a period go for more then 4 days and nothing like this, it's not really AF anymore.
Confused.com

Now I've scared myself it pcos, cysts, endometriosis, premature menopause, anything else that will stop me having a baby - mad I know but I can't help but worry.

I honestly don't think I'll sleep tonight. Xxx

 

[Jannah K]

Phoenix
Sometimes women body act up for no reason at all. I don't think there is Anything serious going on unless bleeding continues for month...also is this fresh blood or AF blood?
For peace of mind, try to see a dr

 

[Phoenix82]

Thanks Jannah

I think I'm losing it this month. I want to start bding but with this cm I'm not sure I'm comfortable doing that.

It's mainly brown cm like before AF comes and the red was pinkish then full on red but that only happen when I went to the loo once and then after that nothing but brown - it's that kind of brown sticky stuff

I had a bit of an emotional time last night and cried myself to sleep, I think the oh thinks I've finally cracked.

 

[Nanninoo]

Hey girls just been catching up on your posts...
Jannah your chart looks great! It looks like you ovulated so it just a waiting game now, fingers crossed you get your BFP

Good luck Tatemp!

Phoenix please don't be sad sweetie I used to have a couple of months bleeding inbetween periods I had af then stopped then about 10 days later I bled red blood for a couple days then went back to brown cm then I bled again the following cycle about the time I would of ovulated and I spoke to my consultant about it and he did ultrasound but couldn't find any problems and he also did bloods which showed my hormones weren't right they were low then it never showed again it was very strange but my cycles have never been right I always had long iregular heavy periods, I even went 10 weeks without af showing and I definatly wasn't pregnant! Since my consultant prescribed me the clomid it really has helped (apart from the major cramping when I ovulate) it has regulated my cycles to normal length and i haven't had any more bleeds between periods and most of all it made me ovulate! When do you see specialist? I think they will prescribe Clomid as they usually do that for woman not conceiving/ovulating or if they have iregular cycles like me. Hope that helps x

 

[Phoenix82]

Thanks sweetie, I don't have a date yet I'm still waiting xx

 

[Nanninoo]

xxx

 

[Phoenix82]

Hey ladies

Do any of you know which line on the fm shows estrogen? I understand that that line should get fainter as the lh hormone rises, is that right?

I cannot understand when to know I'm ovulating as the first month you won't get the o symbol - I wanted to do smep but can't if I don't know - help!!!!
Xxx

 

[Jannah K]

Can u get digi ?
Basically on digi its flashy smily meaning estrogen high
Solid smiley both estrogen and lh at peak

Not sure based on FM...

Nothing new with me ..6dpo today and don't feel a thing...

 

[Phoenix82]

Can u get digi ?
Basically on digi its flashy smily meaning estrogen high
Solid smiley both estrogen and lh at peak

Not sure based on FM...

Nothing new with me ..6dpo today and don't feel a thing...

Hey hun

To be honest it's just one month so I'll just keep bding every other day for a bit.

I was just hoping I could pin point o straight away with the monitor so I could smep.

So much to think about ttc

My temps were
Cd 1 36.61 degrees c
Cd 4 35.81
Cd 7 36.19
Cd 8 36.13
Cd 9 36.10
Cd 10 36.18
Cd 11 36.07

 

[Nanninoo]

Phoenix I'm not too sure regarding lines on persona as I've never used one I'm guessing they are similar to cbfm though? Why not post a thread in the TTC section with the title....ladies using persona monitor need help? and see what responses you get, worth a try especially if others are using the same monitor as you and would be more helpful. I never used the smileys clear blue ones that jannah used either and my cbfm started to play tricks as well saying I ovulated on cd 10 when opk's confirmed I didn't till cd18 so I will always stick to my internet cheapie opk's they worked for me and were a lot cheaper x

 

[Phoenix82]

Apologies in advance but I need to vent this!!!

I've got what appears to be the signs of ovulation happening with the monitor and sticks (no o symbol but I'm still in my first month of using my monitor). But last month cd12 I had diareah at lunchtime and I have the same again today - cd12!!! So I'm assuming this is just before o (I could be wrong).

And today I've rushed home to bd mid afternoon before being out and unable to bd again until Monday and the oh has a "headache" (the most crucial time if I ovulate in the next day or 2!!!!!!!) I may as well write this month off, bloody men - I'm livid with him.
I know he can't help the headache but I'm sure he could mange 15 mins (tmi I know but if we need to just get it done it is possible, god knows I've felt terrible some months but still done it).

Especially as we are out with his Dad for dinner and he's go karting tomorrow ( I'm sure he'll manage those 2 things)!!!

I'm soooooo disappointed :growl mad:

 

[Jannah K]

Aww phoenix
I know how u feel. I was ready two years ago and finally got OH on same page to start trying...but I had same prob last 4mos!!...just this mos we bd enough but I feel nothing 7dpo today...don't wanna go next month as I may not o without med and oh may be too busy when needed for *15min*...
Don't stress over it...easy said than done...but try to relax so if u guys bd one time around o..it will do the miracle baby...it may happen this time coz you least expect it...putting pressure on OH may mean not performing well ...
Take good care & try to enjoy weekend

 

[Phoenix82]

Thanks Jannah

I know, my oh finally agreed and got in the right mindset after 5 years of me wanting babies.

Now it's not happening and this month he's ruined it by going to bed and saying no way!! I don't think we will get there this month as it's better to bd before o and I've got a feeling I'll o any day now because of the sticks and the poorly tummy and it being cd12!.

I just want to kill him right now - mental I know but I can't help it.
I have to wait another month now before we can start trying again and all I want to do is cry and say I'm not coming tonight or tomorrow because you can't be that ill of you can still do those things. How childish am I???
At least I won't have the 2ww this month.

Oh hun, no symptoms doesn't matter - you could still be preggo - fingers crossed xx
When are you testing?