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[Phoenix82]

Jannah

You poor thing sweetie.
Oh needs to understand that you can't help keep an eye on it, with just 20% chance per month or 40% with smep you need a little lick.

It's hard not to spend all you time thinking about it, I'm going mad!!!!

My sticks have got a darker 2nd line again and I don't know if that means I tried to ovulate but it didn't happen or if there's a whole other reason it doesn't make sense (last pic I promise) advice would be REALLY useful

Xx

 

[Jannah K]

R these all fmu?
It seems like you may be peaking soon...can u test AM & PM and post pic day19?
Is it poss you have been bding wrong window as seems like u didn't o yet as of day18....

 

[Phoenix82]

Hey Jannah

Yeah their fertility sticks so 2 hormones so not quite like OPK

That's what I'm worried about, maybe I've been missing it!! If i do have later ovulation is my lp long enough? 28 day cycle roughly.
Annoyingly yo days stock has gone odd pic attached

I really appreciate your support xxxx

 

[Jannah K]

Why is there so much smear on day 19? Did u get +ve reading? False positive it maybe.
Btw without clomid thats how my sticks look never reach the peak hence the medicine but you got 28 cycles vs mine 35-60days long.I would say be until you next period 2-3times a week to cover your window. That's what I plan to do next month without clomid.
I had 4cycles on clomid. Ovulated in all according to opk and cd21 but no pregnancy....

On side note cd14 today. Been cramping & spotting since yday very light still no period. Just took pamprin as cramps are bad....don't have hopes of bfp so not even testing....

QUOTE=Phoenix82;32241981]Hey Jannah

Yeah their fertility sticks so 2 hormones so not quite like OPK

That's what I'm worried about, maybe I've been missing it!! If i do have later ovulation is my lp long enough? 28 day cycle roughly.
Annoyingly yo days stock has gone odd pic attached

I really appreciate your support xxxx[/QUOTE]

 

[Jannah K]

CD1 for me

Boo!

 

[Phoenix82]

Hey Jannah

My cd19 stick clear up after a bit if time (odd huh???)
I did an OPK and it now has 2 lines, so I'll test again tomorrow - I didn't test with OPKs this month as I'd hoped the monitor would help

My bloodwork will show if I ovulated this month (by day 21) if it's in the next few days it'll be mood anyway as my lp will be too short.

Sorry you got AF sweetie

 

[Phoenix82]

Hey ladies

So this morning cd20 I get a bloomin obvious ovulation line on my monitor sticks and the egg symbol on the actual monitor. So im super excited coz I may have just been missing the egg all these month but worried about my lp now (if it's not one thing it's another!!!)
28/29 day cycles and o around cd20/21 how can I get pregnant xx

 

[Rcp925]

Alright Phoenix! That's good news! I'm glad you've figured out you may be ovulating later in the cycle. And if your lp is on the shorter side there are some things I've read that can help make it longer. A B complex vitamin has been said to lengthen a luteal phase by several days. Keep us updated!

 

[Phoenix82]

Alright Phoenix! That's good news! I'm glad you've figured out you may be ovulating later in the cycle. And if your lp is on the shorter side there are some things I've read that can help make it longer. A B complex vitamin has been said to lengthen a luteal phase by several days. Keep us updated!

Thanks sweetie

I'm sure this month will be out due to the short lp but I've been taking pre conception vits but I might need some b complex separately, thank you xxx

 

[Nanninoo]

Hey girls how are you all missing our chats hope your all well
Jannah sorry af showed fingers crossed next month is your month sweetie
Phoenix good luck fingers crossed for you
Rcp how's the pregnancy going? How many weeks are you now?
Tatemp how are you doing?

Have my first scan tomorrow I'm super nervous due to previous mc's praying baby is ok x

 

[Phoenix82]

Hey girls how are you all missing our chats hope your all well :hugs
Jannah sorry af showed fingers crossed next month is your month sweetie
Phoenix good luck fingers crossed for you
Rcp how's the pregnancy going? How many weeks are you now?
Tatemp how are you doing?

Have my first scan tomorrow I'm super nervous due to previous mc's praying baby is ok x

Hey sweetie

Ohhhh good luck for tomorrow, let us know how it goes - exciting!!!! Xxxx

 

[Nanninoo]

Thanks Phoenix I will keep you all posted x

 

[Rcp925]

Hey ladies! I'm doing ok. Feel super sick every day, all day. It's really taking a toll on me. I'll be 7 weeks on Thursday. My first appointment is a week from today and I'm so nervous! Still haven't told our families, yet. We're going to see my family Easter weekend to tell them (which I'm a little nervous to do) and then we'll tell my husband's family that following week or weekend. I don't know why I'm nervous to tell my family. It'll be their first grandchild and so I don't know how they'll react. Haha! But I'm the youngest child (even though I'll soon be 30) so maybe that's why I'm nervous? Who knows. How did everything go nanninoo??

 

[Tatemp]

Hi girls,

Nanninoo how is it going, how was your appointment, I hoped it helped to but your mind a bit more at ease.

Rcp how exciting. I'm sure your family will be thrilled with the news.

Hi phoenix, I have a very short LP of 10 days. Other women have gotten pregnant with such a short LP. I tried the vitamin B, but it didn't do nothing for me.

Jannah how are you doing?

I am now CD 7 and starting the bd every other day routine. I don't think I'm going to conceive without any help, so I'm not stressing myself out anymore. I'll just try a few more months and go to the doctor end of May or June.

 

[Nanninoo]

Hey girls well what a day! This is long winded sorry....

So I saw my consultant and the fertility nurse at my hospital (the same ones I always see who prescribed me the Clomid and who checks my follicles)
Well...at first my nurse could only see a sac and so could I as the screen was turned to me and she kept asking when was my last af and when did I get a possitive pregnancy test.....I automatically thought something doesn't add up with what she can see and I automatically thought blighted ovum! my heart sank then my consultant wanted to have a look to double check as the nurse and myself couldn't see anything he moved about with the transvaginal scan and zoomed in and there it was right in the corner of the sac a yolk sac,fetal pole and next to it a flutter (heartbeat) I was quiet shocked and I think they were too as I think they thought it was empty! Then I asked how many weeks it was looking he said by his measurements 5+1 I was like what? I'm supposed to be 6+6 by LMP or 6+3 by ovulation so that concerned me a lot as when I've had mc's before they have always been dated behind and with my son he was dated in front so I don't know what to make of it all to be honest I'm not getting my hopes up it's best if I not do that way if anything happens I can be prepared! He also said he wants to re scan me a fortnights time to see how the pregnancy is going as he said he can't confirm it's a viable pregnancy as it's too early? Mistake me if I'm wrong but there's a heart beating away I would of thought that was viable enough so that annoyed me as well him saying that!! He's prescribed me my clexane injections (blood thinners) that I have started injecting already he gave me the same ones when I was pregnant with my son so I'm hoping they do the trick again but I can't help but think the worst my OH tells me to stop worrying and have faith but I'm very cautious! I thought the 2ww was bad enough but the next two weeks are going to be worse waiting for the next scan I'm hoping everything is fine and hoping my dates have caught up at least because I know exactly when I ovulated I also know when I got my 3+ on clear blue digi conception indicator at 5 weeks which was 10 days ago so how can I be only 5+1 now as that would only make me 3+6 when I got my 3+ on digi so that doesn't add up??? I'm not going to think about it too much and try and take my mind off it even though I know it will be hard but what will be will be I'm in gods hands now it's not the worst news don't get me wrong but it could of been better as my dates are completely off and I know with my past pregnancies when my dates were off I ended up micarrying so pray for me girls and hope for the best.....

Hope your all ok, miss you girls xxx

 

[Phoenix82]

Naninnoo

Oh huni that's just rubbish.

I'm so sorry that you are having these issues, the heartbeat is a good sign.
As long as it's the right speed I'm led to believe that's all good.

Keep us posted. I wish I could come and give you a big
Fingers crossed for you.
Xxxxx

 

[Nanninoo]

Thanks Phoenix I'm still sure his dates are off from what I researched the hb starts beating closer to 6 weeks and yesterday the hb was visible ahh I don't know I kid you not the first tri is just as stressful as TTC if not worse the worry is constantly there and it's soooo stressful! I have another 2 weeks to worry! How is your cycle going Phoenix x

 

[Phoenix82]

Thanks Phoenix I'm still sure his dates are off from what I researched the hb starts beating closer to 6 weeks and yesterday the hb was visible ahh I don't know I kid you not the first tri is just as stressful as TTC if not worse the worry is constantly there and it's soooo stressful! I have another 2 weeks to worry! How is your cycle going Phoenix x

Oh it's sooo unfair, we wait forever and a day to get there and it's not guaranteed then anyway!!!

I didn't realise this could happen until 2 other people I know have had something similar.

I thought at 5-6 weeks they could see a hb, but I'm not 100% sure.
If his dates were off and the hb was of the right sound I'd ignore them for now. I know it's easier said the done but try not to think about the what it's as you don't need any stress!!!

Big hugs - I wish I could fix it for you.

Nothing really to report from my side I'm cd23 and I got the egg symbol cd20&21 we bd both days so think it's done now, and as we had been trying before we've kind of given up. Too tired to try now. We will start bding again next cycle as with AF being due in 7 days my lp is so short it probably wouldn't work

I'm kind of tempted to give up completely but then I'd drive myself mad thinking about it all. Can't win xxx

 

[Phoenix82]

Tatemp I've read b6 helps but I take a pregnancy vitamin (it has most of the same things in it that a pre conception one does) it also has b6 at 1.4mg so that should be helping.

I'm so nervous as this is my first month I know we bd at the right time but worried coz I ovulate so late!

Do you know what cd you ovulate?

Xx

 

[Tatemp]

Phoenix I've tried B6 200mg. I normally ovulate on day 14 and have a luteal phase of 10 days.