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[pink_phoenix]

Thanks for the list wunna. Gonna start packing bits soon. And love the ziplock bag idea

 

[SmartieMeUp]

Thanks ladies for the love for ruby, I think she's enjoying all the attention. Sulking abit as I've banned her from our bed as she weed on it but she's getting cuddles to make up for it, seems a bit more herself today and she's only had 2 tablets so fingers crossed she will be ok xx

Smartie: I have no idea how to answer hun but I can't imagine a sweep would do u any harm. And I'd prob go of what consultant said, I thought they had final say really.
Also wouldnt pay too much attention to the size estimate, they can be a long way out. I'd be suprised if little one is much bigger than DD1.

Wunna: again I wouldn't pay much attention to measurements, I got a funny look at my glucose blood test at just short of 28 weeks as I was measuring 30 but my scan the other day the MW said baby was just "average" for 30 weeks.

I know the cervix needs to be ripened a little for it to work. I had one at 40+1 which failed and 40+3 while in labour which was successful. She's expecting me to have my birthing plan at the go-ahead before I even get to speak to my consultant. I'd much rather the sweep at 38-39 and if it fails go in for ELC at 40w if I haven't already given birth by then. I don't see what difference an induction would have being at 40+3 than 39w

 

[pink_phoenix]

I don't really get a lot of their logic if I'm honest I just try my very hardest not to argue, needs a bit of work tho, I'm crap at it haha!

Finnaly got another pic, been trying to upload it for days but kept saying too large....just had a brainwave and screen shot it off FB haha

 

[WunnaBubba2]

Pink, you look wonderful!!!!!!!! I love your bump and that top! I want one

 

[MileyMamma]

Latest bump pic from me!

 

[Sarah1508]

Hey ladies so much to catch up on but hard to do atm as we are staying at my mums for a bit as our house is being fitted with new heating and my mum doesn't have wifi so having to use crappy mobile signal
Hope everyone is doing well it's getting so so close to June!!

Little update on me the sharp pains ive been getting and constant bad achy feeling is due to my muscles in my back and tummy tearing everytime in being sick , and because of the hyperemesis im sick several times on a daily basis so I'm giving my muscles no chance to heal before I go tearing them again
On the plus side I haven't collapsed again and even though I still get dizy spells sometimes I dont feel as poorly anymore plus kian is back to nursery do I get the mornings to rest.. Aka go back to bed
Something to look foward to is im due my growth scan this week actually but the sonographer was fully booked so it should be early next week now, can't wait to see bubba again Also had a bit of crappy news that because of certain medication I have to take I won't be able to breastfeed but at least ive found out now and not last minute and heavily pregnant and overly emotional so I have a bit of time to get over it and also get prepared with bottles etc

 

[pink_phoenix]

Aww thanks wunna. It's a dress I ordered and thought would be nice for after baby came and I'd had chance to lose a little baby weight but managed to get it on over my bump so was quite impressed x

Aww Sarah I hope the pain doesn't last much longer and glad ur not collapsing

 

[WunnaBubba2]

After I typed I wasn't sure if it was a dress or top Regardless it's very pretty.

Nice bump Mileymamma!

Sarah, glad to hear that you are getting a bit more rest. Hopefully the last bit of pregnancy won't be too hard on you. Sorry about breast feeding though but agreed that finding out sooner rather than later helps deal with it

 

[mdscpa]

31 Weeks Bump:

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18 and 31 Weeks Bump Comparison:

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26 and 31 Weeks Bare bump Comparison (front pictures were a little bit out of focus ):

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Baby's Growing Hands: 8 - 31 Weeks


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[SmartieMeUp]

I'm so frustrated, a number of things are playing at me:
OH
1 - Last month I paid for him to go trampolining with his workmates. He wasted his wage within a week of getting it. Said he couldn't afford to go with them and their responses were "whipped" so it made me feel I have to pay for him.
2 - Asked me while I was at my family's last week if I could give him some money to watch FF7 with his workmates (blown his wage in first week). I said no because it isn't fair.

He's out doing the fun stuff with mates while he can't be bothered to do anything with me and much rather do it with others.

This one sounds poxy but doesn't feel it. I get the nose up if I want to challenge OH to a game of scrabble or whatever on FB/flash games, he'll happily play with one of his mates on FB.

I went in a huff about it all today as I brought up the fact that he would much rather do things with others than myself. I completely ignored him afterwards, fell asleep on settee, then went to bed 15 mins after DD got back from nursery. Guess what? He didn't even play a game on the PC the entire time I was in bed! Usually the second DD is in bed, he's straight on his game, when I'm downstairs.

Also, doesn't have time to watch anything with me after watching what he wants to watch in bed. Phone comes out and he rolls onto his belly.

If I bring anything up then I'm supposedly calling out for an argument.

Birth + after
At first I wanted it to be me and OH in delivery room. Now I'm considering going at it alone.
I don't want any visitors in hospital or afterwards, especially from IL's as they never even bother to come round and see us on a normal day. My family have visited my house more times than them doing a 70 mile trip. They're around the corner, literally. Plus, I want(ed) it to be the 3 of us to make it special for DD. Now I know OH will have something to say about that. My family already know the plan.

 

[pink_phoenix]

Oh smartie I total get the feeling with the OH. I must admit I'd be pretty peed off with him too!
My OH has had quite a few ear bashings and all for good reasons. I really don't think they understand what it's like to be pregnant. Men just get an easy ride and still complain!
Mine bitches like a right diva! Told him more than once to pack up and do one if he doesn't like getting told off, soon shuts him up ha!

 

[WunnaBubba2]

Men Sorry for your frustrations with OH Smartie
I hope he gets his act together real soon!!

 

[SmartieMeUp]

He ended up borrowing the money from his mum to go to the cinema. If he can't get his act together then I will make him "whipped" so he can man the fuck up and tell his workmates that he's a dick for wasting all of his wage in less than a week. If I tell him to pack him stuff he would do it with no second thoughts because he would go straight to his mums with no responsibilities and a whole lot of money to blow and borrow. He just likes to buy things which aren't real - subscriptions to streamers on Twitch.tv, things to buy for his game which is for show and no enhancement etc. Goes to the shop buys crap - cans of pop and sweets.

When I was in hospital the midwives were like "not even a full moon tonight and so many births" and he goes "not yet, a few more pay cheques please" as if it'll make a difference to him. It's me who's left to buy things for baby. He's bought 6 bottles, 2 babygrow sets and a pair of 6-9m Ralph Lauren pram trainers from work. It's nice of him to spend £20 on a pair of trainers which won't be worn for some time but pretty sure there are more important things to buy which are needed well before then.

 

[Sarah1508]

Agree with the other ladies about your oh smartie he needs a kick up the bum! Haha hope yous manage to sort things soon

So I was due a growth scan this week and after patiently waiting ALL week today Friday comes so I phoned the midwife just now and she said I have a scan but not at home because they where all done on Tuesday..... So I have to fly away to get it done and I HAVE to do it on Monday.... Oh also I have to sort out the travel myself (it is paid for btw haha sort out as in phone hospital to get forums so I get the flight for free) but it means I have to go pick up the forums in the hospital here which is 45 mins away and I have to sort everything else out by the end of the day... And it's 2pm now and as yous know I'm not in the best of health.... I also need to book an escort to go with me as Im not well enough to travel on my own, the escort will have to be my oh as my mum has already had too much time off with taking me to hospital when ive been unwell but oh works on a fishing boat so I can't get intouch with him till he comes home at 5:30 and then he's going to have to rush to tell his boss who won't be too happy as they are busy atm... Also there is kian we have absolutely no one to look after him on that day so he will have to come too but the nhs is so tight here despite our circumstances I am almoast 100% sure they won't pay for him to go which means me and oh are expected to find over £200 for a flight in the space of two days now... Which is impossible!! I am so so angry at the midwife for putting me in this stress yet again I mean the scans are tight here atm because there are lots of women pregnant and the sonographer only comes up every few weeks but the fact is from 3 months pregnant they have known that I will need these very important growth scans so all of the dates should have been sorted in advance so I could get scans here as I would say someone who has been in poor health in pregnancy should have priority ... I'm even more annoyed as I know that at least a handful of the women who did get a scan here in Tuesday they where 12 week scans and as my mum actually works with their mums and is friends with them she knows that they are healthy and not haveing any problems and that none of them have kids already that they would possibly need to find childcare for etc but yet they get first slot here for a scan and me who's so weak some days it's a struggle to get out of bed! And I've been on and off bed rest throught this pregnancy and in and out of hospital but yet I get told last minute that I have to go away because the scans have already been and I have to sort out everything myself......

 

[SmartieMeUp]

Oh dear, Sarah Where are they expecting you to fly to? It isn't nice that you're having to drag your DS around with you, especially when everything is hospital based. Is there no comparison sites to find a cheaper flight or alternative transport, even if it means an extra hour of travelling? Or a friend to look after DS or pay a days worth in a nursery as it'll work out much cheaper than a flight? It's awful that they're messing you around like this and flying in 1st and 3rd trimester isn't a safe option as it is, that's without additional complications!

 

[WunnaBubba2]

Ah what is happening? It seems that 3rd tri is really whipping our butts but not with the pregnancies rather other people who is incompetent, ass holes or selfish people!

I hope you can get something sorted in the little time you have Sarah

 

[pink_phoenix]

Ruby wanted to drop in and wish everyone a lovely weekend xx
Hope all you fabulous ladies are well xx

 

[mdscpa]

Morning Ruby

 

[WunnaBubba2]

That is one adorable pup!!

 

[WunnaBubba2]

30 WEEKS BUMP
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