- 2015 JUNE BUGS - Join Us!

[weewdy]

Been a sad day on here today. Just goes to show we never know what might happen and that silly trivial things dont matter.

Sending my love to the 3 who have experienced losses in the last few days xx

 

[pb921124]

Im so so sorry, Africanqueen. My heart goes out to you and your DH. I know there are no words right now that can help with how devastated you must feel. All I can do is send tons of hugs your way. What a sad morning indeed.

 

[Beadette]

I miscarried our precious beans on Wed, It was after our 4th IVF cycle and after losing both tubes and 2 babies previously. This was our very last try at being parents. We are utterly devastated. x

I'm so sorry. Heartbreaking x

 

[raelynn]

I'm so sorry to hear about the early losses ladies! I've been there and it is such a heartbreaking time. I pray you all get through this.

I'm a little worried myself since I got my 2nd beta back today and it didn't quite double. My nurse said the numbers were still good but I'm still a bit worried. First beta was 167 at 14dpo and today's was 289 at 16dpo. I go in for another on Monday and just hope for good numbers then and not bad news.

 

[zaycain]

AfricanQueen,

I am so so sorry about your loss. My heart aches for you. Big hugs and prayers for wisdom are sent your way.


Nicole,

I'll send prayers your way as well.

 

[kit603]

Africaqueen and sass827 - I'm so sorry to hear about your losses Sass... I think ovulation after MC varies for everyone. My cycles took quite a while to go back to normal after previous MCs but I have PCOS so they're not too regular to begin with. I also know other people who've had normal cycles and got pregnant again straight away afterwards t's really hard to say

Nikoru0111 - I'm sorry to hear about your bleeding, keeping everything crossed that you get good news at your appointment

Shilo - Congratulations on your scan

I've been feeling a bit more relaxed the last couple of days - I've not had any more spotting, but I've still had the cramps. I had a scare on Wednesday when my test line went lighter, but it must have been a fluke as it was dark again on Thursday I've got 5 more days till my early scan so just trying to keep distracted as much as possible... hope it passes quickly.

 

[Nikoru0111]

Thanks for the support everyone! You are lovely ladies!

I'm so happy for you shilo that your scan went well. I nearly cried a little reading it though. I should have stayed away.

My bleeding is now this morning pretty slow, haven't bled hardly anything overnight really just a bit of brown blood when I wipe. Cramping isnt so bad and I've had worse period pain for sure. My husband is in denial, he thinks everything will be fine still. He looked up online and apparently 1 in 4 have bleeding so he said he wasn't too worried. He still took care of me though because I was crying my eyes out. I guess I'll get checked on Tuesday due to the long weekend here. It's not like I want to get checked and have them finally say I miscarried so I'm happy to wait. I don't want to get my hopes back up either though. Don't know what to think right now.

 

[NDH]

Oh Sass and Africaqueen I am blubbering my eyes out for you

Sass I know many women who ovulated 14 days after their loss (or thereabouts) and got pregnant without a cycle in between.

Congrats to the new bfps and shilos scan.

 

[Nikoru0111]

My sister told me to stop tracking things and finding out early. If you don't know it can't harm you apparently. She is pretty insensitive. Especially since she has a healthy 8 month old. We were always quite close but basically she's saying it's because I worry to much. Just feel so sad. I think my mum will be quite insensitive too. She'll probably tell me it's my fault for worrying too. Husband still doesn't think it's over but i've got cramping pain now and my boobs aren't sore at all anymore. Think it's the end of the line for me. I wish we could find a way to easily tell what is going on. At the moment I just can't imagine going through it again. I don't even want to try again and my husband keeps saying "ah we can try again and we'll keep trying until we have a baby" but I just keep thinking I don't want that baby I wanted THIS baby.

 

[coucou11]

Aww Nik

Don't worry about what anyone says and most of all remember that this has nothing to do with anything you did - absolutely nothing! No amount of stress, worrying, thinking about things, overanalyzing, love, or heartache can make a little bean stay or go. And remember it still could all be ok! Cramps are totally normally as are disappearing and reappearing symptoms.

You might want to just tell your sis (and your mom) to keep any advice / opinions to themselves right now, that all you want is some support and love in this difficult time. Don't think about other babies yet, just think about taking care of you.

 

[Nikoru0111]

You might want to just tell your sis (and your mom) to keep any advice / opinions to themselves right now, that all you want is some support and love in this difficult time. Don't think about other babies yet, just think about taking care of you.

I don't think they mean to be harsh. I know they love me loads and want the best for me but I think she show tough love sometimes. Maybe they just don't know what to say since it's so early and I guess they think I'll get over it quickly.

I have to wait until Friday to be seen. The hospital doesn't want to see me until then unless I get severe bleeding or pain which I don't exactly have right now. It's just awful waiting to be told that you've miscarried. But I do want to check at least that everything has gone I guess. Just going to be even more heartbreaking handing over lots of money to the guys that have just told my little bean has gone. Pregnancy and I guess miscarriage is not covered under national insurance in Japan so until you get a heartbeat and manage to register your pregnancy you have to pay for everything yourself. Maybe we'll order some takeaway tonight. I want to indulge a little, like comfort eating I guess. Just don't know what to think or feel right now. I don't want to get my hopes up for nothing.

 

[preg_pilot]

Shilo - ooh, a heartbeat. can´t wait to hear one myself Congrats 2 weeks to go now for your next appointment

Snufkin - Worry will always be there I hope you get a scan soon.

pb921124 - Fx for you too

africaqueen - I am so sorry for your loss

Radiance - so sorry about Stephen

starsunshine - congratulations

raelynn - I hope things turn out well

kit - I hope things turn out for the best

Nikoru - I hope you feel better soon.
It´s easier said than done to not keep track of your symptoms... Every little twinge and change is so big when you´re trying...
I hope your appointment goes well...


I´ve been POAS every morning now... even yesterday evening too... it just doesn´t feel real yet.
I haven´t told anybody but DH, and you lovely girls here. Not knowing how far along I might be makes the reality of it farther away...
Midwife calls me on Monday... hopefully I´ll get an early dating scan...

 

[smoore]

Hello, everyone!

I'm very cautiously joining this group! I just found out Wednesday that I'm expecting and will be due in June 2015.

The reason I'm cautious is my first pregnancy, my son Connor, was stillborn around 30 weeks on 3/7/13, so this is kind of scary!

I'm under the care of a specialist due to also struggling with infertility after losing Connor. They ran blood work once already and it looked great! I get blood work again Tuesday. They said probably three rounds of that and then an early ultrasound.

I think DH and I are just really nervous this time around. I have only told one close friend. We have discussed telling my parents very soon.

 

[sengland]

Oh my goodness ladies!

Sass and Africaqueen-I am so sorry. Sending hugs and positive thoughts your way. My heart is broken for you.

Nikoru- things could still be ok, I'm praying that it is!

Shilo- I am so glad you got good news at your scan! Yay!

Welcome new bumps

Afm, I am now super nervous after reading all this. I haven't had any bleeding but I had some backaches this morning so I am limiting my activity because I'm scared. My friend had a m/c about in jan '13 (and now has a healthy happy 10 month old) and was really reassuring me yesterday, but then my mom told me an experience she had (not going to repeat it because there is no sense scaring anyone else) and now I'm so worried about m/c even though so far I really have no reason to worry.

Is it the second trimester yet?

I am hoping for much better news from everyone going forward!!!!

 

[Heather.1987]

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[Snufkin]

I'll try my best for good news: OH has promised to organise me his granny's blood pressure monitor, so I'll stop worrying about it for now. I'm having slight cramps, but I'm 100% sure they're growing pains, so that's good, too. I also can't finish a normal portion of food and always feel a bit nauseous if I'm too hungry and just after eating. So all good signs everything is going well...

Also, when I ask my 2 year old "where's the baby?" she points at my belly and shouts "there it is!"

 

[kissesandhugs]

This pregnancy is already pretty different. I was sick from the bfp pretty much and absolutely nothing now. Which is good but not reassuring, iykwim. Just a waiting game...per usual

 

[SarahTabor]

Found out on Monday that we're expecting our 3rd miracle baby 😍 ♡
Doctor has said my due date is 15th June 2015 😊
Xxx

 

[NDH]

Hello, everyone!

I'm very cautiously joining this group! I just found out Wednesday that I'm expecting and will be due in June 2015.

The reason I'm cautious is my first pregnancy, my son Connor, was stillborn around 30 weeks on 3/7/13, so this is kind of scary!

I'm under the care of a specialist due to also struggling with infertility after losing Connor. They ran blood work once already and it looked great! I get blood work again Tuesday. They said probably three rounds of that and then an early ultrasound.

I think DH and I are just really nervous this time around. I have only told one close friend. We have discussed telling my parents very soon.

Congratulations! I dont blame you for being apprehensive with your history. Do you know why he was stillborn? I can't even imagine the agony of a stillbirth and I am in awe of everyone who can suffer such unimaginable loss and find the strength to just keep going.

Wishing you a smooth pregnancy with a healthy baby at the end of the journey

I'll try my best for good news: OH has promised to organise me his granny's blood pressure monitor, so I'll stop worrying about it for now. I'm having slight cramps, but I'm 100% sure they're growing pains, so that's good, too. I also can't finish a normal portion of food and always feel a bit nauseous if I'm too hungry and just after eating. So all good signs everything is going well...

Also, when I ask my 2 year old "where's the baby?" she points at my belly and shouts "there it is!"

Aww thats adorable. I've not told my kids yet cause Im afraid they'll tell my mom there's a baby in mommy's tummy and we want to keep it a secdetf a little while longer. Not from worry, just because we've always told right away and want to enjoy being the only ones to know for a while.

Found out on Monday that we're expecting our 3rd miracle baby 😍 ♡
Doctor has said my due date is 15th June 2015 😊
Xxx

Congrats due date buddy

 

[Snufkin]

I know...I realised that after telling her...I hope she doesn't blab to her granny and granddad! we're planning to tell them as soon as we've moved out (staying with them while we sell our place), so hopefully won't be too long!