Last night we went out to celebrate our engagement, and one of our friends had called ahead and ordered us a really expensive vintage bottle of Dom Perignon champagne... I had about 6 sips total (small, little ones, probably a total of 1/4 ounce or less) and felt HORRIBLE for it... poor fiance drank the rest of the bottle on his own (I say "poor" but he was having a pretty fun time last night). Today we went to celebrate a friend's birthday at a park, and again, they had a bottle of champagne for us to celebrate. Well, I really felt guilty after last night, so fiance drank all the champagne out of my cup - will be so much easier in 2 weeks when we announce lol. He also keeps saying it would be ok for me to have some as a toast at our wedding, but I told him I will do sparkling apple juice or something. I was pretty adamant about not drinking at all during pregnancy since I am a lightweight anyhow, and I know I did not drink even close to enough to do even a pinch of harm, but I still feel super-guilty about it.
However, that being said, that's my personal decision. I have friends who have had a beer a couple times over the course of their pregnancy (and I truly mean like, 2, over the course of the entire 9 months) and fiance's sister would have a glass of wine here and there. But for me, it's not something I feel comfortable doing.