I am upset and can't sleep
I don't know if I wrote it in this group or the PAL group, but at about 6 weeks pregnant I had to tell my sister I was pregnant before she started booking things for her wedding. The date she originally picked was only a few days before my due date. Anyways I only told her and her fiance. I had told her I was waiting extra long this time before telling everyone in our family because I had just recently gone through my 3rd miscarriage before getting pregnant with this baby.
Anyways for some reason they told her fiance's family I was pregnant. The fiance's aunt ended up telling my dad, aunt, and grandmother many weeks ago that I was pregnant and that I would be having the baby before my sister's wedding.
So someone I don't know told my family. My family has known this whole time. My sister neglected to tell me this and was even trying to give me ideas for a surprise pregnancy announcement for my dad.
So when I announced it and surprised my dad, he already knew so his response was lackluster of course. He was happy, but it wasn't a surprise; he had already known for so long.
I am so sad and angry that this was taken away from me by a complete stranger. And I am upset that my sister and her fiance would tell other people that I was pregnant especially someone that knows members of my family and who is apparently a huge blab mouth. I feel so betrayed.
My husband and I learned this all tonight. The fiance's attitude about it was like
oh well *shrug* and my sister didn't say a word. My husband and I were upset but didn't show it. But the whole car ride home after for us was miserable
It was supposed to be our news to share...