Darlin65
Married with a Munchkin
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Well we've always wanted one of each because we only want 2. I would just like to experience both. I don't think one gender is superior to the other or anything. Well I was a little bummed because I had a very vivid gender dream and it was a boy dream. I mentioned it elsewhere and basically got attacked because since I have had a mc they felt I shouldn't have a preference and should just be happy baby is healthy. It kind of floored me because I never said I wouldn't love a boy just as much it's just not what I've always had pictured in my mind. I even said that I loved this baby with my whole heart when I mentioned it kinda bummed me out a bit. It's not a permanent feeling it's just like an "oh, Darn" type of feeling. I guess I just didn't like being old how I should feel after my mc. That kinda got under my skin.