33yr ttc#2 - buddies needed!!!

Jessy, your tattooist is an amazing artist and worth every single penny looking at your tattoo.

Kim and Citrus, go for it! There isn't any such thing as too late for a tattoo. I started at 14 DIY which was obviously rather silly but I was a reckless teenager without a fear of stabbing myself clearly as I also did all my piercings... I wouldn't do this these days of course! I have about fifteen but would love more at some point, when I can justify the money.

Citrus, did you see your temp dip? Usually, after a positive OPK when you see your temp dip followed by it going back up this is when you ovulated (usually when it dipped I think), but three days of higher temps usually confirms ov. You may see dark OPKs more than a single test or even longer than a day, but usually they start to lighten up which would usually signal ov should happen within a few days (is isn't more than three days after I think, unless you don't ov and you see another peak in lh later on, but this is why temping is important, to clarify this).
I don't feel I'm being clear, I know what I'm on about in my mind. In a nutshell if you ovulate, you should do so within three days max of a positive OPK, but temps will show if you have by going up. You should see a noticeable shift. I will post a photo of my chart, the neatest chart I can find so you can see what I mean.
I think I had a chemical on the chart I'm posting, which is why my lp was slightly longer. I also ovulated the day of my positive OPK (CD12), but if I remember correctly I wasn't sure if the day before this my OPKs were positive, they looked it at first but when they properly dried they didn't look quite as dark. I remember on. CD12 it was positive with my fmu which is unusual for me, and most people I think, but they started to lighten up later in the day
 

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Hmm, I am having such a nightmare with temping this month! I took my yep this morning but then fell back asleep and now I can't remember whether it was 36.1 or 36.3!!! I'm so rubbish, I just remember thinking it hadn't risen. Never mind! I will take an opk with smu I guess and see what it says. Thanks for your help cupcake.

How's everyone else today? Having a relaxing Sunday I hope?
 
Perhaps enter it in the middle of both?
Are you using the IC version of OPKs? I think you are? My memory is rubbish. Anyway, if you have plenty then I would do another mid afternoon and evening too, so you have less chance of missing anything, or confirming they are definitely becoming lighter
 
Hmm, another positive. I bet I o tues as usual. Although it was definitely positive yesterday wasn't it? So would tues be too late to o? Perhaps I will o tomorrow? I thought (correct me if I'm wrong) that by the time you actually o the strips are negative? I'm using cheapies but bought them in a shop so only have 3 left. I will just do them daily I think. Even if I o tues, last nights BD should be reasonable timing so not sure we will BD again. Think we might be out of energy for this month!!!
 
Jessy I love your tattoo it's beautiful!! I have a back one down my back and always wanted more or this one re working just haven't ever gotten round to it!

Citrus I think that you usually o 12 to 48 hours after the first positive opk and doesn't matter as much how long it's positive for but that it was. I'm starting temping too but I forgot this morning so not going to be able to use temps to help me decide when I o'd

I did have a large amount of ewcm last night so we dtd just in case and I used a soft cup. Going to take another opk later as only have 2 left! Would have done it earlier but dd came into our bed at 6am and promptly vommed on me!!! Now she's been having awful diarrhoea and she's feeling really rubbish and clingy so not had a chance yet.

Cupcake your so good at temping your chart looks so good!
 
Yesterday at top and today's a temp bottom. It's dried even darker than that!
 

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Definitely positive again, I reckon you'll o today or tomorrow so your bd last night will be perfect and probably also good for shelttes without making it too hard to conceive
 
You can ov on the day of your positive OPK or after it, I take the darkest test as the first positive usually. I have had a positive OPK where the line is as dark as the control line before, then the following day the line turns darker than the control line, so I take the darkest as the first proper positive as this seems more logical since it's detecting the peak of your lh surge. I may be wrong, I don't know, but this is what I do and it seems accurate for me personally, since my lp usually stays quite stable.
The maximum time between positive OPK and ov, if you ov, isn't meant to be more than three days, although it's usually sooner than this.

Ladders I hope your daughter is better soon! Poor little love.
Lol you should see my chart for March, it went nuts. I think it's because I started my B complex to try to balance hormones, it's the only thing I did differently to any other cycle.
My sleep isn't the best, but it's consistently rubbish so I'm hoping this means consistent temps to a degree
 
I feel slightly out of sync with everyone as i am on cd8 and have no idea when i o haha. Will use one of those cb digis tomorrow and bd tomorrow night aswell. Not sure i can be arsed tonight and i am pretty sure it is far too early anyway.

Citrus. When did you bd, last night and will you do it again this fw?
 
We BD last night at about 11 or 12 I guess. I don't think we will be doing it again to be honest. It's becoming a bit forced and if we get a bfn we will have to go again next month so I don't want it to become too much of a chore. Hopefully the timing will work out ok if I o tomorrow or even tues would be fine. If it's tomorrow it's o-4 and o-2 and if it's tues it's o-5 and o-3. If it's neither of those days then who knows what's going on!!
 
Ha ha jessy I love that, I very often think early that day i can't be arsed! Glad it's not just me

Citrus I know what you mean and feeling like it's getting forced and is ok if you know this cycle will definitely work but if have to go through it again in a few weeks its feels forced quicker and quicker.

Thanks cupcake she seems to have brightened up but not eaten anything which is not like here. She's running around in a babygrow and looks so cute she's not worn on for ages as she's over 2 now
 
Wow who would have thought cycle day 16!!! So relived to see that smiley face!!!!!!
 

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Ladders - :happydance: for your smiley face! If your daughter isn't eating don't worry, it's probably the best thing to do providing she's drinking. If she does feel hungry then bananas, white rice, dry white toast (white because it has less fibre therefore won't encourage going to the toilet more) are all good for keeping her settled.

Citrus do you mean you or your OH feel like this? Feeling it's forced? Or a chore.

Jessy I don't think you are out of sync, we are all only a short distance apart I think.

I can't remember if I said but CD10, have dtd on days 7, 9 & today and have had ewcm for three days and plenty of it which is a huge improvement. I don't know if it's hormones balancing out, more hydrated or both but it's good anyway
 
Fantastic news ladders. So if today is positive does that mean you will o today or tomorrow? If so will you try bding again tonight?

Was that afternoon wee you used for that test? I have no idea whether to use morning or afternoon wee cause it says on the box first pee after longest sleep?

My OH is doing my head in today. He is back from training for 2 weeks and already after 2 days mildly wishing he would go back down south!

Quite excited to get back into the swing of it all just hope i get a positive this week and time it right so at least we are in with a chance. I guess thats what we all want! Haha.

Hope your little girl is feeling better soon.
 
Cupcake I think both of us feeling the pressure. I think we've done enough to have a shot this month and give myself the idea that I've given getting a girl a go (if we don't conceive this month I will probably give up with that plan!)

Yay ladders! That should hopefully mean we are tww buddies. Cupcake have you had anything on an opk yet? And jessy keep us posted (about the opks I mean, not the annoying husband although you can - I've got one of those too!)

Kim, daisies, anni and everyone else, how are you all doing today?
 
Doesn't look like I'm getting any either so we will be exact tww buddies citrus! I tried and failed to secure a last bd

Jessy I got my positive this afternoon but I didn't test first thing so don't know if would have been positive then. My app says I'll ovulate tomorrow so I'll stick with that as not temping yet so no idea really
 
Oh Ladders, what happened with the BD attempt? Do you feel positive this cycle?

Citrus, I think you have too. I hope you do conceive a little girl! I have a photo I should upload, and will do in a minute :)

Daisies, Anni and Kim I hope you are all ok!

I used OPKs yesterday but they weren't worth posting. Today's were there but faint until this evening when out of the blue a positive showed. Wasn't expecting this as usually I would have had an almost positive in the afternoon, but this may be due to me drinking loads and then I had a nap late this afternoon so my urine was more concentrated this evening. Anyway, I'm sure you don't want to know about the concentration of my pee anymore...
First is with fmu which I don't expect to see anything but do sometimes anyway, then lunchtime, then around 3:30pm ish and then about half an hour ago
 

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Yayyyy! For all the positive opk's ladies! I hope you all have had plenty of bd! Good luck ladies!

I'm well today thanks for asking, Happycupcake and citrus. I've been busy today with dh and the kids so no time to really read and reply right now so I'll be back on a little later today. I hope you're all having a great Sunday!
 
Hello all, just reading to catch up on everyone. DS and I are both sick, so that has been a chore- we just got better not a week ago! We also have a hobby farm, and yesterday tried to do a bunch of spring cleaning in the barn. We are getting 7 new chicks this week!

Jessy, your tattoo is amazing. I had lavender roses in my wedding bouquet so that is what your tattoo reminds me of.

Yay to all the positive OPKs, ladies! Good luck getting your BDing in!!!
 
Yeah cupcake that looks positive to me! Have you tested again this morning? Is this usual time for o? Funny how we have all synced up lol.

Actually managed to get a bd in last night so if I o today then we did o -3 o-2 and 0-1 so I'm pleased with that and don't think I'll attempt tonight, I actually think i might have got a positive in the morning so could be a bit late by tonight and no point pushing it if not necessary

Duster sorry you've been sick, my dd not well at the moment and really hoping it doesn't spread to is especially as dh on a course this week so really can't miss it. Ah I love you have a little farm of always wanted something like that
 

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