Timing wise it did take a while to design them which i guess ca be frustrating, price wise though they really werent to expensive to order i think for 50 of each plus 140 envelope stickers was only $50 i figure if i bought 50 invitations to write on i would end up paying near the same. I dont think when i say i am a control freak it really covers how much of a control freak i am but surprisingly i am actually letting my sister do majority of the planning i just like to be involved in the invitation process plus i have so much time on my hands atm with not working so it gave me something to do. Thats nice that your mum is wanting to help organise it, do you think she will let your MOH help out at all?