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[DaretoDream]

love- we now have the same due date

 

[Love_Krystal]

Here are some of my scan picss! I had 57 LOL ...more on my facebook!

still a boy!
https://img.photobucket.com/albums/v637/krysykat77/HPT/20110314093036421.jpg

elbow on his knee, and potty shot
https://img.photobucket.com/albums/v637/krysykat77/HPT/20110314094235421.jpg

face shot
https://img.photobucket.com/albums/v637/krysykat77/HPT/20110314094105093.jpg

little feet
https://img.photobucket.com/albums/v637/krysykat77/HPT/20110314094056750.jpg

thumb sucker
https://img.photobucket.com/albums/v637/krysykat77/HPT/20110314093916156.jpg

leg over his head
https://img.photobucket.com/albums/v637/krysykat77/HPT/20110314093907093.jpg

 

[ProudMommy26]

Love- Really love the pictures. He definitely is a boy lol. Awww

 

[emily86]

my scan today girlies! eeek!

 

[ProudMommy26]

my scan today girlies! eeek!

Hope it goes well hun. Let us know how it went

 

[ClaireMuir123]

Good luck emily! xxx

 

[SamiraNChris]

Congrats Krystal!!!!! Ive changed you on the front too!!! Yayyy!

And congrats Sequeena too! You must be over the moon!!!!!! Wooooop!

Good luck to everyone with scans today!!!!! I wish i could see my baba again!!! Hope all goes well for you all!

I watched OBEM this morning before work! Bad idea! All bawled up! I thought the ex druggie and his GF were lovely! So nice to see that love gets people through anything no matter what her parents think! And he turned his life around for her and the baby

 

[emily86]

I had a dream last night that me and OH were in mothercare buying baskets of pink stuff.....
weird - maybe its a sign
will update you all when I get home later x

 

[firerabbit666]

Great pics love_krystal & good luck at the scan emily86, hope you get to find out what team your on!

Just booked my gender scan for 2nd April!! 80% is not good enough for me I need to know lol x

 

[sequeena]

I thought OBEM was awful, spent an hour ranting at the tv

 

[SamiraNChris]

good luck emily! im guessing boy dreams are usually opposite the outcome hehe!

ahh did ya sequeena? how come? xx

 

[TaNasha]

I had my 20 week scan this morning and got some bad news.

Baby has a cleft lip an dit might be open through to the jaw. They want to send me for an amnio to rule out any chromosonal abnormalities. I dont know what to think.

I am scared of the amnio and even more scared of what teh outcome might be. They said i had until 23 weeks tod ecide if i want to terminat the pregnancy?? I would never do that just for a haaslip, but if there;s anything else more serious wrong Im not so sure anymore.

I have googled cleft lip and the images are quite disturbing. I have been crying non stop.

I keep wondering if it was something that i might have done.

I have cancelled my trip to SA as they amnio will need to happen ASAP because it needs to be done before 22 weeks.

I dont know what to think. I already love this baby so much

 

[sequeena]

When lo is born they can repair the cleft lip. I've never had an amnio but a friend of mine did and she says it doesn't hurt. Not sure if they numb your belly or what

 

[SamiraNChris]

I had my 20 week scan this morning and got some bad news.

Baby has a cleft lip an dit might be open through to the jaw. They want to send me for an amnio to rule out any chromosonal abnormalities. I dont know what to think.

I am scared of the amnio and even more scared of what teh outcome might be. They said i had until 23 weeks tod ecide if i want to terminat the pregnancy?? I would never do that just for a haaslip, but if there;s anything else more serious wrong Im not so sure anymore.

I have googled cleft lip and the images are quite disturbing. I have been crying non stop.

I keep wondering if it was something that i might have done.

I have cancelled my trip to SA as they amnio will need to happen ASAP because it needs to be done before 22 weeks.

I dont know what to think. I already love this baby so much

my goodness hunni im so sorry!! try not to google anymore as pics on there will show worst case scenarios!

its nothing you have done these things happen unfortunately but you will love your LO no matter what and thats all that matters! please be strong and try not to think the worst. All you can do now is have the tests and pray for the best outcome - and we all will too! i personally do not think you should terminate for a cleft lip but i would be in the same stuck feeling as you if there were other problems too. I think you should wait and not think the worst and then once you haev results you can then think of next steps!

lots of xxxxxxx

 

[SamiraNChris]

ps as sequeena said cleft lips can be fixed once baba is born XX

 

[TaNasha]

thanks girls. im not so much worried about the lip, but scared its open all teh way through the jaw.

My downs test came back 1:5000, would anything esle not have been picked up together with this?

Me and DH are both young and healthy, i dont understand

 

[DaretoDream]

my scan today girlies! eeek!

Good luck love! Hope your dream holds some meaning for you! i know mine did the morning i tested and got my bfp- it was the FIRST time i had ever had a dream that i got one, and then i woke up and tested and there it was!!! Hoping that whatever it is- it's healthy and what you want, and that you enjoy every second of it.

I had my 20 week scan this morning and got some bad news.

Baby has a cleft lip an dit might be open through to the jaw. They want to send me for an amnio to rule out any chromosonal abnormalities. I dont know what to think.

I am scared of the amnio and even more scared of what teh outcome might be. They said i had until 23 weeks tod ecide if i want to terminat the pregnancy?? I would never do that just for a haaslip, but if there;s anything else more serious wrong Im not so sure anymore.

I have googled cleft lip and the images are quite disturbing. I have been crying non stop.

I keep wondering if it was something that i might have done.

I have cancelled my trip to SA as they amnio will need to happen ASAP because it needs to be done before 22 weeks.

I dont know what to think. I already love this baby so much

Love, Cleft Lips are genetic problems- inherited from family members. My uncle was born with one, and they fixed him up real good- but yes, he needed several surgeries because it went through into his palette and he grew a mustache when he could to hide the scar. you'd NEVER know now.

But because it is genetic i am also worried about it- as there is a good chance my child could have the same condition. And it IS serious, and and tricky and we've discussed it though because i knew about the condition. It's scary, and horrible and all of that but it CAN be fixed. And you will still have a wonderful baby afterwards. It's a hard decision.

The amnio scares me, because i knew a girl who has TWO belly buttons because she got poked while in her mom's belly by the needle. The amnio can also make some of the fluid drain.

So research it before you do it- it scares the crap out of me. But, whatever you DO decide- i'll back you 100 % Hang in there- there are options for you. remember that.

 

[Love_Krystal]

Aw tanasha I will be praying for you and baby girl! Cleft lips can be fixed even some bad ones, I've known plentyy of people and surgery has come a lonnnngg way! But hey dr's can be wrong too! Sometimes the u/s technology is too good and they see things and think there is a problem when there is not! Can they send you to a specialist for a more in depth u/s? Do they do triple AFP screen there? That's a blood test they do here instead of nuchal test at 20 weeks to determine if baby is at risk for any genetic stuff? I turned the test down bc it doesn't matter to me, & we don't believe in termination anyhow... ESP since dr's can be wrong! But it would be good if it's offered there! I imagine the thought of amnio is scary! Here they send u to a specialist first for in depth u/s etc Do you have any of those options?

Hang in there and don't google too much and scare yourself! This is your baby and you love her... You can cross bridges together as you get to them!

 

[ProudMommy26]

I had my 20 week scan this morning and got some bad news.

Baby has a cleft lip an dit might be open through to the jaw. They want to send me for an amnio to rule out any chromosonal abnormalities. I dont know what to think.

I am scared of the amnio and even more scared of what teh outcome might be. They said i had until 23 weeks tod ecide if i want to terminat the pregnancy?? I would never do that just for a haaslip, but if there;s anything else more serious wrong Im not so sure anymore.

I have googled cleft lip and the images are quite disturbing. I have been crying non stop.

I keep wondering if it was something that i might have done.

I have cancelled my trip to SA as they amnio will need to happen ASAP because it needs to be done before 22 weeks.

I dont know what to think. I already love this baby so much

Hi hun, really sorry to hear this. My friends baby was born with a cleft lip and he had to have an operation when he was a few months old. He is now nearly 4 years old, and you can't tell he had one. The operation had fixed it for him. Really hope everything is ok with your beautiful baby. Much love x

 

[TTCNumbertwo]

TaNasha, I'm so sorry to hear what you are going through!!! A good friend of mine had an amnio a few weeks ago and she said it wasn't that bad. Plus, it will stop your mind wandering if you know what you're dealing with. Just like all the other girls said- plastic surgeons are miracle workers these days, they can fix a cleft lip, even a very bad one!!! I hope its nothing more severe than that, I'll keep you in my prayers!