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[DaretoDream]

Timing wise it did take a while to design them which i guess ca be frustrating, price wise though they really werent to expensive to order i think for 50 of each plus 140 envelope stickers was only $50 i figure if i bought 50 invitations to write on i would end up paying near the same. I dont think when i say i am a control freak it really covers how much of a control freak i am but surprisingly i am actually letting my sister do majority of the planning i just like to be involved in the invitation process plus i have so much time on my hands atm with not working so it gave me something to do. Thats nice that your mum is wanting to help organise it, do you think she will let your MOH help out at all?

I would love to help organize but she doesn't want me to have a part of it. Normal moms- if you hear they are doing something like this it's GOOD-- but my mom doing it is NOT good. It's very bad. She wants it to be 'her show' and somehow make it all about her. I gave her a list of 20 people. I had to leave friends off because she doesn't like those particular people- AND she made a big deal about some of the ones on the list, saying their invitations 'might get lost on the way' and i put only 3 people from DH's side, and she pretty much made it sound like she's not inviting them because she doesn't like them. She won't try for anyone else's sake, it's about her. Always was like that. And the sad thing is she has no idea she's like that- or rather, doesn't think there is anything wrong with it.

It's MY shower, and she will undoubtedly find a way to make the shower about her. She doesn't even like showers, hates them, tries to avoid them completely, that's not someone you want running your shower is it. OH and she hates babies too. Sooooooo I'm nervous to be honest. I don't know how it's going to go.

 

[BattyNora]

Hope everyone who has scans today has a lovely time seeing babs.

I've been having a hard time recently, even though I'm a happy bunny! Ive been having quite a few panic attacks and trying to deal with them.

 

[Love_Krystal]

Welp he is def still a boy! And a big one ! 13 oz! They moved my due date to July 31st!!! Yay!

 

[sequeena]

Had my scan. Amniotic Fluid Indix - 10cm. Normal!!!! Up yours medical world I am superwoman at growing babies!!

 

[Love_Krystal]

Yay sequeena!!! I am soo happy for you!

 

[TaNasha]

Yay Sequeena!!

I have my scan tomorrow, I cant wait! And then I am off to sunny South Africa for 10 days! woohoo!

 

[sequeena]

Thank yoooooouuuuuuu

 

[CharlieKeys]

ahh congrats Sequeena So that means it's increasing?

 

[sequeena]

Yup! It's increased 7cm in 7 days

 

[CharlieKeys]

I bet you're feeling relieved then! but 7cm in a week - that seems like loads!

 

[sequeena]

I bet you're feeling relieved then! but 7cm in a week - that seems like loads!

I know it's absolutely mental!! All I can say is drinking water really does work

 

[firerabbit666]

That's amazing news sequeena!!

 

[natalie85]

sequeena thats awesome!!!! Congratulations supermum!!!!

Battynora.. are u ok?

I would love a baby shower but would end up being me organising it!! my MOH is about to drop, my head bridesmaid is miles away and other bridesmaid i dont think would have time!!! *sighs* i dont even know where to begin organising one and what you do in them?!?

 

[natalie85]

Welp he is def still a boy! And a big one ! 13 oz! They moved my due date to July 31st!!! Yay!

congratulations!! how far did they move you forward?

 

[natalie85]

Mamas and papas sale on maternity clothing and baby clothing thurs 17th March!!!!!

 

[CharlieKeys]

When I had my Baby shower... I organised it! (my friends are useless!) I just went to my local indian and had dinner with them and bless them - they all bought the baby loads of gifts And then just went to the pub after... I stuck to diet coke lol

 

[natalie85]

ahhh thats cool!! our friends are all over the place so not sure where we would do it all etc!!!

 

[Mum2miller]

Sequeena thats such fantastic news!! you must be over the moon. does that mean that there is no leaking aswell?

 

[sequeena]

Sequeena thats such fantastic news!! you must be over the moon. does that mean that there is no leaking aswell?

They didn't check me internally so I'm not sure. The hospital I went to is really small, I'm not sure why they even built it as they have no gynaecologists, specialists or anyone like that. It's just a 'general' hospital really.

I should find out in Cardiff next week. They were the ones to give me an internal last week

I never thought I'd say this but I hope next week is the last of the scans. It is so lovely seeing my boy each week but it's so emotionally draining having to go through the motions of 'is he alive? Has the fluid finally drained and his heart stopped beating?' each week.

 

[TTCNumbertwo]

Congrats Sequeena, you must be so relieved!!! Love_Krystal, I'm glad to hear you have a big bubba too- my scan at 19+2 had baby measuring 13oz- how many weeks are you??? As for baby showers, I'm sure I won't have one because I had a very big baby shower with my first and its not customary around here to have big showers for second babies, but I have a group of friends who will probably throw me a little something (we usually do something small for second and third babies). Anyhow, they are so much fun, and so helpful as I didn't have to buy much at all for the baby! Anyhow, I'm finally half-way, woo hoo!!!