Hi gang,
Very long time since I've been on here but for some reason I was pulled back here with you all this morning ... Maybe I am remembering all the love and support I recieved from my first post and on.. and needing a lil today ..
It's been 4 (life changing) months since my daughter, Emma Gail was born sleeping... I was 19 weeks and 4 days along ....
I can NOT believe how different I am now ... and I must say, I do NOT like the new me ... I have tried all different forms and ways of "help" but honestly, I still don't feel any better. I have learned the beautiful art of "faking it" ... I wake up everyday and put on this smile just so I can function, trying to be a great mom to my kids, a loving fiancee, go to work and still trying to hang in there with college... I am overwhelmed!! Faking is very tiring ... But I have learned, I have to! Seems like everyone in my family and my lil corner of the world has just moved right along but here I sit, screaming from the inside!! I want my daughter back! I looked at the calendar this morning and realized I would have been 37 weeks along today!! I hate all the "would have's"... They seem to follow me every day thru out my daily drudge .. Instead of decorating my daughters plot at the cemetary, I should be doing the finishing touches on her nursery....
I go to the doctor tomorrow, to hear the most horrific words ... "No, you can't carry a baby to term" ... And, realistically I should be OK with that cuz God has blessed me with children already and I really thought we was finished adding to our family, but since Emma, I have had this "pull"... think it's just grief maybe and I just want HER but to hear the doctor tell me the game is over... I'm dreading my appointment ...
Words to all you new mother's that have unfortunately found you way here ...
This is an amazing place to fall ... So many compassionate, understanding people here... I am so very thankful for all the ones that have helped me thru this journey, the ones that have angels themselves... Just know, really know, there is no wrong way or right way to grieve... Do it YOUR way and take as much or as little time as you need... My one lesson I am still learning ...
Thanks for allowing me to ramble this morning
*My precious Emma .... Loved and missed more everyday... Never forgotten*
Very long time since I've been on here but for some reason I was pulled back here with you all this morning ... Maybe I am remembering all the love and support I recieved from my first post and on.. and needing a lil today ..
It's been 4 (life changing) months since my daughter, Emma Gail was born sleeping... I was 19 weeks and 4 days along ....
I can NOT believe how different I am now ... and I must say, I do NOT like the new me ... I have tried all different forms and ways of "help" but honestly, I still don't feel any better. I have learned the beautiful art of "faking it" ... I wake up everyday and put on this smile just so I can function, trying to be a great mom to my kids, a loving fiancee, go to work and still trying to hang in there with college... I am overwhelmed!! Faking is very tiring ... But I have learned, I have to! Seems like everyone in my family and my lil corner of the world has just moved right along but here I sit, screaming from the inside!! I want my daughter back! I looked at the calendar this morning and realized I would have been 37 weeks along today!! I hate all the "would have's"... They seem to follow me every day thru out my daily drudge .. Instead of decorating my daughters plot at the cemetary, I should be doing the finishing touches on her nursery....
I go to the doctor tomorrow, to hear the most horrific words ... "No, you can't carry a baby to term" ... And, realistically I should be OK with that cuz God has blessed me with children already and I really thought we was finished adding to our family, but since Emma, I have had this "pull"... think it's just grief maybe and I just want HER but to hear the doctor tell me the game is over... I'm dreading my appointment ...
Words to all you new mother's that have unfortunately found you way here ...
This is an amazing place to fall ... So many compassionate, understanding people here... I am so very thankful for all the ones that have helped me thru this journey, the ones that have angels themselves... Just know, really know, there is no wrong way or right way to grieve... Do it YOUR way and take as much or as little time as you need... My one lesson I am still learning ...
Thanks for allowing me to ramble this morning
*My precious Emma .... Loved and missed more everyday... Never forgotten*