40 and Preg new to this side..LONELY..

[herbie]

I cannot wait..whats your EDD? Mine, Jan 18th!

31st jan hun
how have you been feeling?

 

[herbie]

I cannot wait..whats your EDD? Mine, Jan 18th!

baby will be born 2 weeks early as i know i"ll have to be booked in for a c-section

 

[asibling4gi04]

so far so good surprisingly..I have to sched c section too..is that how they do it? two weeks earlier??? How are you feelng?

 

[Andypanda6570]

Congrats!!! xoxoxo

 

[ciarhwyfar]

They will often schedule a c-section a bit early so that they don't run into complications with natural labor. I expect that if you have to have one, they will schedule a couple of weeks before due date.

 

[herbie]

so far so good surprisingly..I have to sched c section too..is that how they do it? two weeks earlier??? How are you feelng?

they do here in England hun xxxx
feeling ok just shattered

 

[asibling4gi04]

Thanks ladies. Well as for me, sick..My daughter has yet another bout of strep throat and I THINK I caught something. Fever, sneezy, stuffy,, sore throat and LOTS of pressure in my runny nose..Cannot sleep at all ! Thank Goodness tomorrow is my first appointment! I probably need meds.. Hos is everyone else doing?

Why are you shattered sweetie???

 

[herbie]

Thanks ladies. Well as for me, sick..My daughter has yet another bout of strep throat and I THINK I caught something. Fever, sneezy, stuffy,, sore throat and LOTS of pressure in my runny nose..Cannot sleep at all ! Thank Goodness tomorrow is my first appointment! I probably need meds.. Hos is everyone else doing?

Why are you shattered sweetie???

running round after an 18 month old!!! lol
he"s such a terror!!! a typical boy

 

[Sherileigh]

Don't feel too lonely. As someone said, we are all from different situations. My household is non-traditional in most senses. I am 42, the OH is 35, and his male partner is 50. We also have my 21 year old (who lives in CA), an adopted gay teen, and a quasi-adopted 24 year old in college but who is likely to be back living with us by fall. Things are always interesting around here. I could use some peace and quiet every now and then though...

Can I ask what that means, your OH and his male partner? Or am I just dumb? Thanks

 

[ciarhwyfar]

Don't feel too lonely. As someone said, we are all from different situations. My household is non-traditional in most senses. I am 42, the OH is 35, and his male partner is 50. We also have my 21 year old (who lives in CA), an adopted gay teen, and a quasi-adopted 24 year old in college but who is likely to be back living with us by fall. Things are always interesting around here. I could use some peace and quiet every now and then though...

Can I ask what that means, your OH and his male partner? Or am I just dumb? Thanks

Yes, that means my OH and his male partner. Sorry, didn't mean to be vague.

 

[Storm1jet2]

Don't feel too lonely. As someone said, we are all from different situations. My household is non-traditional in most senses. I am 42, the OH is 35, and his male partner is 50. We also have my 21 year old (who lives in CA), an adopted gay teen, and a quasi-adopted 24 year old in college but who is likely to be back living with us by fall. Things are always interesting around here. I could use some peace and quiet every now and then though...

Can I ask what that means, your OH and his male partner? Or am I just dumb? Thanks

Yes, that means my OH and his male partner. Sorry, didn't mean to be vague.

I think she means she doesn't understand that your partner has an additional male partner - I guess for a lot of people that would be difficult to accept.

I gather from your posts that it works well for you - but wasn't it ever hard to adjust to or was that the deal before you and OH started out? Sorry for being nosey

 

[Sherileigh]

Didn't think I was being rude. Just asked a question. One would assume if someone was putting info out there, then it was ok to ask a question.
Thanks Storm1jet2, I didn't understand what it meant. I haven't read any other threads that she may have mentioned this. It's not a matter of not being able to accept it, I just didn't know if she meant that in a literal, he's his partner way, or what? I would never judge anyone on their family situations, everyone's family is made up differently. Just a question.

 

[asibling4gi04]

I love this thread for the openess and honesty..No room on here for close minded or judgemental..Hugs..How is everyone??

 

[asibling4gi04]

Sheril, thanks for clarifying that!

 

[Storm1jet2]

I'm good thanks! How are you?

 

[Sherileigh]

Asibling4gi04 I just have to repeat what everyone else has said, you and your daughter are gorgeous!! What a great picture!

 

[asibling4gi04]

Have a nasty cold..Its kicking my a** - Otherwise, I am okay..You?

 

[Storm1jet2]

Didn't think I was being rude. Just asked a question. One would assume if someone was putting info out there, then it was ok to ask a question.
Thanks Storm1jet2, I didn't understand what it meant. I haven't read any other threads that she may have mentioned this. It's not a matter of not being able to accept it, I just didn't know if she meant that in a literal, he's his partner way, or what? I would never judge anyone on their family situations, everyone's family is made up differently. Just a question.

I didn't think you were being rude at all - by difficult to accept I guess I meant not the first thing that springs to mind when reading the sentence initially

 

[asibling4gi04]

aww sheril thanks so so much!

 

[asibling4gi04]

Sheril p.s. You and your baby are soooo adorable..Love the avatar!