42+ pregnant?

[fandabby]

Try not to worry, I know that's easier said than done but I'm sure it will just be the cysts as you had a scan after bleeding and all is well try to rest if you can and put your feet up. Think positive I know how hard it is I truely do but so many pregnancies have bleeding and go on to be entirely successful as was mine. That's a good idea about contacting the epu direct, that's what I did when I had my bleed and they got me in for a scan, and all was just fine. Enjoy tomorrow hunni. Am here if you need me. Becks xxxxxx

Thank you Becks, I didn't sleep much, cramping and worrying. I went toilet few times and went into deep red bleeding when wiping and little on pad. Through this morning dark brown. Still feel pressure and cramping on left so it must be those cysts. My eldest caught me crying this morning, bless him he's 7 today. He put his arm around me and said 'there there mummy, it's okay the baby will be fine. Just relax, come on deep breathes, it will be okay you know, baby's okay, you just need to be calm and stay relaxed'. Couldnt believe it, how grown up was that. Made me cry even more.

Got a breather before more people come. Was hoping to have everyone round this morning and last minute a handful said this afternoon, so turning into an all day event. Got an hour and bit to ourselves now, yes on my bed feet up relaxing.

When you bled at 9 weeks did they tell you where it came from? I'm 8 weeks tomorrow. Counting the days!

Take care dear and thanks again. Give your rainbow prince a squeeze. Xx

 

[Oasis717]

Oh bless his heart it's amazing how grown up and supportive they can be! That would definitely of made me cry more too but what a lovely thing to say. I honestly thought the worst when I saw what started as brown blood at 9 weeks, as both losses last year started out that way I thought it was all over but was so shocked and overjoyed to see all ok on the scan, they thought my bleed came from an orgasm, we weren't bd due to the losses but was under the misconception that orgasmes were ok and in fact they are actually worse as they make the womb contract! So that was it, we abstained altogether after. They confirmed on the scan there was no bleeding around baby. With my loss in September last year (didn't have a scan with the first loss as had no previous problems for years) it showed bleeding around the sac. Am glad you can rest for a bit. Someone told me once on here that no matter how we worry it won't change the outcome, what will be will be no matter what so I decided to remain positive after that. It is hard though. Losses change everything. I think if you can put your mind at rest with the epu next week it will be a big help for you. At least you know you have cysts and that's what's wrong so try to focus on that. Gave Brooklyn a hug for you xxxxx.

 

[Melindawntsbb]

Try not to worry, I know that's easier said than done but I'm sure it will just be the cysts as you had a scan after bleeding and all is well try to rest if you can and put your feet up. Think positive I know how hard it is I truely do but so many pregnancies have bleeding and go on to be entirely successful as was mine. That's a good idea about contacting the epu direct, that's what I did when I had my bleed and they got me in for a scan, and all was just fine. Enjoy tomorrow hunni. Am here if you need me. Becks xxxxxx

Thank you Becks, I didn't sleep much, cramping and worrying. I went toilet few times and went into deep red bleeding when wiping and little on pad. Through this morning dark brown. Still feel pressure and cramping on left so it must be those cysts. My eldest caught me crying this morning, bless him he's 7 today. He put his arm around me and said 'there there mummy, it's okay the baby will be fine. Just relax, come on deep breathes, it will be okay you know, baby's okay, you just need to be calm and stay relaxed'. Couldnt believe it, how grown up was that. Made me cry even more.

Got a breather before more people come. Was hoping to have everyone round this morning and last minute a handful said this afternoon, so turning into an all day event. Got an hour and bit to ourselves now, yes on my bed feet up relaxing.

When you bled at 9 weeks did they tell you where it came from? I'm 8 weeks tomorrow. Counting the days!

Take care dear and thanks again. Give your rainbow prince a squeeze. Xx

So sorry you are having to go through that. Been there myself. Prayers everything will be ok with baby. I know I hated to go to the bathroom. I'd worry about every little drop of blood. Stay positive.

My husband left for Japan yesterday and I didn't ovulate before he left . Feeling like I might be today. Hope some survive and find the egg.

 

[LLbean]

fandabby the words from your son made me cry....sooo sweet!

 

[Samsfan]

Hi ladies... I hope I can join in your board. I find it inspiring! I have gone through 3 ivf cycles... All of them failed. I will be 40 this year, however the doctor tells me that my reserve is that of someone who is 41 or 42. He said I have a 5 percent chance of getting pregnant. It feels like it's never going to happen. I'm taking a break right now. I'm on DHEA and will attempt another try at IVF in February. My AMH is .50..Almost none existent... My FSH is normal in the 6 range... Glad to hear that some have been successful

 

[Wish4another1]

Hi samsfan - my last amh was .38 so I totally understand - but we decided no IVF... So I am praying for a miracle - I'm taking fertilaid, DHEA, and CQ10
Welcome to the thread!!

 

[Katie Potatie]

fandabby, I'm only jumping in on this thread to let you know one of my dear friends started in the midst of what we thought was a m/c during a visit with her when she was 12 weeks along. She started having cramping like AF, followed by bleeding that she had to put pads on for. It lasted the whole weekend of our visit and we were all practically mourning her loss. But everything ended up absolutely fine and she carried to term. It was so scary for her, but unfortunately, bleeding and cramps can happen and scare the living daylights out of you, but know it can be perfectly normal and ok! Wishing you all the best!

 

[Kat S]

Hi, guys. I know I disappeared after October. Sorry about that. We stopped seeing the Fertility Specialist. They said there wasn't anything further they could do for us unless we wanted to do IVF. I continued the acupuncture for a few months, but recently stopped that, too. We are still trying at home via syringe/home inseminations (DH has ejaculatory issues) but have had no luck yet.

This month marks a year ago that my baby's heart stopped beating at around 6 wks. The 15th is the estimated date of death. I found out on the 21st. Just sad right now. A year later and still no baby.

I've decided to start taking CoQ10 again. Can't hurt.

Congrats on your pregnancy, Fandabby!

Congrats on your beautiful baby, HappyPregnant!

 

[fandabby]

Kat S - sorry to hear you have been struggling. Sending you hugs to mark your year on. Hard time for you but am sure you will get through it. Wishing you every success becoming pregnant.

You know if you still struggle with not catching with all the supplements, may be you need some divine intervention. Google Mia Angel Fertility Spells and see what you think. She has helped lots of couples who are unable to conceive.

I have mentioned her in this thread too; https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/trying-conceive-over-35/2074645-42-3-trying-4-a-8.html

Just a thought... Good luck with your journey.

Hi Katie - thanks for the information. I had another scan today and babe is still there fluttering away so I think I am one of the bleeding mammas. How are you doing with your TTC?

Samsfan and wish4another1 - good luck with your supplements. Hope you get your dream BFPs sooner than later. Drink plenty of water to ensure you're hydrated.

Melindawntsbb - have you had your positive for ovulation yet? Hope so and you never know those swimmers can hang around for a week. Keep us posted dear.

Hi Becks, hope you and your family are still in dream land. Mine are so excited to be having another babes joining us in the summer.

Take care everyone..

 

[Wish4another1]

fandabby
I am so happy to hear that your baby is still fluttering away!! I was worried cause I hadn't seen you post in a little bit (at least where I was looking)


AFM for the first time in 10 months I think I actually know when I ovulated... and me n the hubby at the right time - I guess I have my 5% chance this month!! (the dr % not mine)

 

[LLbean]

going to order one now!

 

[Oasis717]

Fandabby how are you feeling hunni how is everything? Xx.

 

[fandabby]

fandabby
I am so happy to hear that your baby is still fluttering away!! I was worried cause I hadn't seen you post in a little bit (at least where I was looking)


AFM for the first time in 10 months I think I actually know when I ovulated... and me n the hubby at the right time - I guess I have my 5% chance this month!! (the dr % not mine)

Thanks Wish4another1.

Great news that you may have pinpointed ovulation and getting your timing bang on sotospeak. Hope you have some good news for us in a couple of weeks.

One of my friends had her first at age 42, took her I think about a year to conceive but she did it. Us older ladies still have it in us we just have to be patient.

Wishing you a successful BFP at the end of your 2WW. Lots of magical coming your way.

Keep us updated with your progress.

 

[Samsfan]

Wish4another- I'm wishing you the best of luck!!!!!!! I hope for your BFP so soon.

I also think I got the timing right this month, but I am not as hopeful based on what I've gone through and all the predictions by the FS.

 

[fandabby]

Fandabby how are you feeling hunni how is everything? Xx.

Hi, well bleeding stopped and went to brown Monday/Tuesday. All clear up until this morning. Crampy again with bright red bleed. I've taken things easy all week so dont know why bleeding has come back. Nothing I can do since they cant see where blood is coming from. Nightmare. I usually go swimming wed, thur, fri morning for 30 minutes but haven't for ages now cause of on off bleeding. Thinking maybe I need to cancel swim membership as not getting to swim!

I caught babe on doppler briefly last night so babe alive and hoping it has nothing to do with pregnancy directly.

Hard to forget about it since it's there if you know what I mean. So much for a breezy pregnancy. My heart sank and thoughts of oh no not again. Dropping lil ones at school/pre school then feet up for me again until I need to pick them up. Nothing getting done at home, oh dear.

Thanks for asking and hope it's still happy days your end.

 

[Oasis717]

I'm so sorry you are still having this bleeding but catching baby on the Doppler is fantastic and must be so comforting, they know the bleeding is no where near baby so I know how hard it must be to relax but you sound like you are taking it easy and doing everything you can. Thinking of you xxxx

 

[Melindawntsbb]

Fan baby I hear for you. You must be so scarred but baby is doing fine. Stay positive.

Hubby got home yesterday and I didn't ovulate while he was gone. Temp was up a little this morning so maybe I ovulated just not sure yet. What a long cycle this month. I have read the egg isn't as good if you ovulate late. Past it expiration date in other words. What have you all heard/read?

 

[fandabby]

Fan baby I hear for you. You must be so scarred but baby is doing fine. Stay positive.

Hubby got home yesterday and I didn't ovulate while he was gone. Temp was up a little this morning so maybe I ovulated just not sure yet. What a long cycle this month. I have read the egg isn't as good if you ovulate late. Past it expiration date in other words. What have you all heard/read?

Hiya, I'm not sure but when I used my persona for contraception after first born, I noticed I was ovulating different times each month and had a strict 31 day cycle. My range was from day 11through day 21 and it was a different day each month, well weird. When we decided to try we caught but can't remember what ovulation day it was.

Dont panick, fingers crossed something is cooking during you 2ww

 

[Melindawntsbb]

Fan baby I hear for you. You must be so scarred but baby is doing fine. Stay positive.

Hubby got home yesterday and I didn't ovulate while he was gone. Temp was up a little this morning so maybe I ovulated just not sure yet. What a long cycle this month. I have read the egg isn't as good if you ovulate late. Past it expiration date in other words. What have you all heard/read?

Crazy cycle this month. Day 30 and still haven't ovulated.
Don't know if we should even try if egg is this old

 

[Happypregnant]

Hi ladies... I hope I can join in your board. I find it inspiring! I have gone through 3 ivf cycles... All of them failed. I will be 40 this year, however the doctor tells me that my reserve is that of someone who is 41 or 42. He said I have a 5 percent chance of getting pregnant. It feels like it's never going to happen. I'm taking a break right now. I'm on DHEA and will attempt another try at IVF in February. My AMH is .50..Almost none existent... My FSH is normal in the 6 range... Glad to hear that some have been successful

Hi, please have a read at this. If you have had 3 failed IVF's, this doctor can help you. He specializes in failure to conceive and miscarriages... This is the doctor that treated me after several miscarriages. My baby is now 2 months old.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ar...th-miracle-son-suffering-20-miscarriages.html