46 BFPS and Counting -TTC Lucky Support Thread - newbies welcome!

[Trr]

So the suspense is over... I'm 12dpo. Took a FRER and it's a big freaking negative.

I was up most of the night with gas pain and bloating, like a crazy amount. It went away and then first thing when I woke up same thing and I woke up feeling like I could eat everything in my fridge.

My body seems to like messing with me, giving me all these promising symptoms then BFNs.

I'm having a glass of wine tonight with dinner.

Still a little faith left but maybe on to a November group

I don't know how some of you ladies do it. I'm 3 cycles in and I feel defeated. This place must be filled with strong ladies.

AF due Saturday, we will see if she shows.

 

[campn]

Tarr- I'm sorry hun! You could always get a BFP tomorrow! 13 DPO is when I found out with my son!

AFM- I'm really not having the best week at all, but I won't annoy you girls with it. Also, I'm on CD 9 but having lots of cramping now, I've no idea why? I ovulate on CD20 (sometimes a couple of days before/after) but now I'm having cramps... I never cramp this early.

How are you all!? Miss each one of you!

 

[beemeck]

Tarr- I'm sorry hun! You could always get a BFP tomorrow! 13 DPO is when I found out with my son!

AFM- I'm really not having the best week at all, but I won't annoy you girls with it. Also, I'm on CD 9 but having lots of cramping now, I've no idea why? I ovulate on CD20 (sometimes a couple of days before/after) but now I'm having cramps... I never cramp this early.

How are you all!? Miss each one of you!

was wondering where you were birthday buddy! I'm sorry you are having a bad week I hope next week is better and it consists of you O'ing early around the same time as me! I'm actually thinking I might O a little earlier too if my temps follow the same pattern as last month... they dropped earlier so I wonder if that makes a difference. ugh TTC makes me think too hard

 

[beemeck]

So the suspense is over... I'm 12dpo. Took a FRER and it's a big freaking negative.

I was up most of the night with gas pain and bloating, like a crazy amount. It went away and then first thing when I woke up same thing and I woke up feeling like I could eat everything in my fridge.

My body seems to like messing with me, giving me all these promising symptoms then BFNs.

I'm having a glass of wine tonight with dinner.

Still a little faith left but maybe on to a November group

I don't know how some of you ladies do it. I'm 3 cycles in and I feel defeated. This place must be filled with strong ladies.

AF due Saturday, we will see if she shows.

sorry TRR I def know that feeling. totally have your glass of wine and maybe just maybe you'll get a surprise BFP. I wonder too how I can experience so many symptoms in the TWW and then nothing. I never felt like I did before. I think it's totally psychosomatic

 

[wanna-b-mummy]

Hi ladies,

Sorry to all those that have greeted that bitch AF and good luck to those gearing up to test! I am so excited and looking forward to seeing lots more BFPs.

Bee - I sympathise! I tested at 9dpo on a digi, got a negative, so then tested with an OPK... WHY? I am just as insane. It's so hard to be relaxed about it. I admire those that are able to TTC and just sort of forget about it and not think about it!

CD3 for me, AF is horrible, and I have had constant nausea with it since about 9dpo! I hate that AF symptoms mimic pregnancy ones.
Also, me and DH have agreed that if anyone wants to visit during o time again, we are going to make an excuse. I know there isn't a reason for not getting a BFP, but I am convinced we DTD too early because the day we got a pos OPK, we had visitors and couldn't DTD, and at all a week after! We did BD every day up until the pos OPK but if I o'd a day or two after it, then I would only be relying on a BD 3 days previous. Either that or I didn't ovulate at all. I'm temping this month so will be able to tell! And will be BD every day a few days before o, during, and a few days after! I mean business!

 

[beemeck]

Hi ladies,

Sorry to all those that have greeted that bitch AF and good luck to those gearing up to test! I am so excited and looking forward to seeing lots more BFPs.

Bee - I sympathise! I tested at 9dpo on a digi, got a negative, so then tested with an OPK... WHY? I am just as insane. It's so hard to be relaxed about it. I admire those that are able to TTC and just sort of forget about it and not think about it!

CD3 for me, AF is horrible, and I have had constant nausea with it since about 9dpo! I hate that AF symptoms mimic pregnancy ones.
Also, me and DH have agreed that if anyone wants to visit during o time again, we are going to make an excuse. I know there isn't a reason for not getting a BFP, but I am convinced we DTD too early because the day we got a pos OPK, we had visitors and couldn't DTD, and at all a week after! We did BD every day up until the pos OPK but if I o'd 36 hours after it, then I would only be relying on a BD 3/4 days previous. Either that or I didn't ovulate at all. I'm temping this month so will be able to tell!

I know - I wish I could go back to our first month TTC. I was so relaxed! I took a pregnancy test early because we were leaving for our honeymoon and it said negative so I never thought about it again until I was nauseous on the day AF was due. That seems like a different person to me now!

SO has been upset because we are always traveling AROUND O time. never during O, but always close to it. I thought this month was our last trip, until I remembered we have to road trips (I was thinking flights) next month and one is the weekend of O (if this cycle isn't it for us) so if that happens we are going to cancel the trip. it's just not worth it. so I totally feel you.

 

[wanna-b-mummy]

I am with you! It's like because there is only one chance essentially once a month, it's silly to not completely make sure that each month you're in with the best chance. Because if you miss it, it's such a bloody long time to wait again. It's not like "Well if it doesn't happen Wednesday, there's always Saturday" So I am with you completely. I am making sure o time is completely clear from here on out...

 

[beemeck]

you said it perfectly!

 

[Trr]

According to the Internet (lol) after implantation bleeding it could take 4-5 days for anything to show up so I'm waiting it out (hopefully)

I got the spotting in 10dpo, and I'm 12dpo so I'm still early.

 

[ciz]

afternoon ladies. haven't been around much, dd is teething last couple big ones thank god but think she caught a cold or something on top cause she seemed to have passed on her lovely illness to myself so been wrapped up in bed past few days, but feeling more human now cant say the same for the OH lol his turn to be ill.

nothing really to report only cd6 only about 18 cd's to go before ov happens ****yawn****

 

[JLM73]

Joey! Welcome
Smille Sorry the wench came around...
Brit :dance CONGRATS!!!
Jgo FINALLY!! Can't wait to see your BFP this next cycle and sending the to you Express Mail!

 

[JLM73]

TrrThat's right- you aren't out yet!!

Campn Did you start anything new this cycle that might be causing the cramping?

 

[TTCBabyG2015]

Hi ladies!!! Hope all is well. Sorry to both that the witch got. I'm happy to see that those long cycles are done for you ladies so you can start fresh. FX for those waiting to test

Me: Is it weird to feel out before I've even started? This month has been nothing but stress and more stress and I just feel like that's not a good way to start a new cycle. Like campn I will not bore you with my troubles but, just needed to vent. I'm hoping I'm wrong and I can surprise OH with a BFP on his birthday at the end of the month. Ugh, back to being an adult and working...blah

 

[ajr1990]

nothing much from me.. flat temps.. period coming to an end.. weeks until ovulation. this is my 'relax' time of cycle, aka drink tons of coffee to keep up with my three sons lol
got blood work back and saw my urea(blood level) is high.. which could them explain why I am getting faint + on hpts.. high (blood) urea can cause protein in urine. I need to make an appointment to go in and see dr.

 

[ajr1990]

oh and day 3 (hormone) tests all came back pretty well I think.. I think they are all in line with being a 35 year old woman
Stimulating Hormone (FSH)
9.8
IU/L

Luteinizing Hormone (LH)
7.5
IU/L

Prolactin
21.6

Reproductive and Gonadal
Estradiol
139
pmol/L

 

[ajr1990]

ugh keep forgetting to post everything I mean to say. horrible at that. Anyhow, fasting glucose came back 5.2 which is not out of range, (above 5.6 is). I still think I need to talk to dr about taking a 1 or 2 hour test(where you drink the nasty orange drink) because I just feel blood work for glucose might not always be accurate as I eat very well and I don't eat sugar or carb-y food. In short, I eat like a diabetic except I eat to much protein for on. I have not had sugar(exact for things like apples) for over 6 years.

 

[raine87]

Haven't checked in recently so thought I would. Took a test this morning 12dpo and it was BFN. AF due Saturday. Getting frustrated.

 

[starryjune]

tooo early june!!!

??????????????

 

[junemomma09]

Well cramps starting to get more noticeable today. Had a sharp twinge pain on lower left side yesterday lasted a few minutes then started getting a sharp pain on lower right now just now. Pretty uncomfortable. I have a feeling AF is gearing up to show her ugly self. Just feeling really crampy.

 

[Conundrum]

FX for those waiting to test, it is not over until AF.

For those with AF here. Drink a huge glass of wine or three, kick back with some completely unhealthy foods, take way too hot of a bath and appreciate seeing your toes for a while longer, lol.

CD8 here, and hubby and I already started DTD as soon as the witch left. Still a week left to go but I will not miss a day of my window this month. Poor hubby