6 months + since mc and no luck getting pregnant... Come join me in the wait!!

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

nat could it be ib? I had that with my last pregnancy, im so sorry yoy are feeling solow ttc is the most difficult and heart wrenching thing at time but you are strong its not over till the witch is here xx

 

[Nataliek]

Thanks, Kelly. I thought that this morning and I did have it with my son but it was brown, this is red. At this point I don't think I should let myself get my hopes at all you know?

Yes, Mrskitty, AF due on Friday or maybe even Sat. I have a feeling the hormones messed with my cycle a bit. I was on fsh and the ovidrel to induce ovulation. Who the heck knows! lol. I am really looking forward to getting the next work week and a half over with so I can go on vacation and just relax and not think about anything.

Thanks Anniebobs, it just sucks. That pretty much sums the whole situation up but Mrs. Kitty is right, I will move on from this and I will try again. Just so ready for it to be over.

I don't know what I would do without you girls xoxo

 

[kelly1973]

this is all so difficult we will get our rainbows....
afm still getting positive opks think I should go to docs hope there isn't retained tissue just want to move on and start again arrrrrh

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

me too, me thinks your all brilliant xxxx

 

[kelly1973]

wanted to share a link ive been taking vit d as my midwife thought I should thought you ladies might want to read up about it and the good it does ive been feeling tons better since taking it

https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/trying-to-conceive/2191303-ttc-vitamins-especially-vit-d.html

 

[Nataliek]

Oh really? That's interesting re vitamin D, maybe I'll try it. Considering acupuncture for the next round.

Kelly I would definitely see your doctor about that, I do remember having positive OPKs during my miscarriage but not after. Are you still bleeding at all?

I agree Mrskitty, we are tough cookies and will get through this together!!

 

[kelly1973]

I started bleeding again two days ago so guessing this is af I will test today see whats happening as its 4 weeks today if its still positive ill pop to doctors, I had acupuncture on my back last time and I think I got pregnant a lot quicker im thinking of doing it again as soon as my body gets back to normal,i also had sports massage

 

[MrsKitty]

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[MrsKitty]

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[Nataliek]

I have heard from alot of people that have sworn acupuncture helped them. When we try again with IUI in July, I am going to try it. We have gotten pregnant on our own twice in the past 8 months, I am really shocked IUI didn't work for us but I honestly think I didn't ovulate until almost 72 hours after I got the ovidrel shot. Which would make the timing off and the IUI should have been done on the Saturday morning and not the Friday. My husband and I had a long chat last night and while were both disappointed, we agreed to keep on trucking until December! We will talk about moving on at that time if nothing happens. Hopefully it won't come to that and I will get pregnant in the nexy 6 months.

I took a FRER this morning and was stark negative, I would either be 12 days post iui or 11 days post iui. I will be shocked if I am pregnant come my bloodwork on Friday. I feel better today because I dealt with the grief yesterday so...onto the next month girls!! Let's really try and lift each other up over the next few cycles, really encourage each other to keep going. I think we need it.

Mrskitty, when you are due to O this cycle?

Kelly, AF is a great sign!! Fresh new cycle coming your way!!!

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Smiler79]

I would love to try acupuncture too even though I am not a fan of needles but like you miss kitty we can't afford . I have been out of work since August and my job seekers payments stopped in May so I now have no mooney coming in and hubby pays for everything. I know if I asked him and hear the research he would probably agree to it but I don't want to stretch further our already extremely stretched finances

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Nataliek]

It is hard feeling like you're in Limbo all the time, Mrskitty. I think you are doing awesome coping with everything, very smart that you have a plan in place to see a specialist. Finances are always going to be an ongoing juggling act, all you can do is lean on one another for support, that's what a marriage is right? I think investing in creating your family will be money well spent, I know that's how we feel!



Smiler, How much does acupuncture cost in the UK?

 

[kelly1973]

I think its about 30.00 a session,i had it done when I had my back done I wonder if there are places that do fertility acupuncture if there is such a thing.
oh is now taking vit d lol
well preggo tests are now negative but I still have positive opks I wish I knew why

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

mine too miss kitty that's why I shove it in his hand before his tea in the morning make him have super sperm lol

 

[Anniebobs]

Kelly you can get a second lh surge around AF, that could be why you're still getting opks. That's one of the reasons opks as hpts don't work. Sounds like your body is just getting back to normal now which is a great sign.