6 months + since mc and no luck getting pregnant... Come join me in the wait!!

[Calitronagrl]

Thank you Mrskitty. I have read quite a bit about clomid last year and it seemed to have great results. Fingers crossed that you get your BFP soon. My next step after the pill is to take something that is similar to clomid, but the doctor hasn't yet told me what it was called. He is hoping that my endometriosis will get under control with the pill and I will get pregnant on my own without additional help. So we shall see what happens.

 

[Nataliek]

Mrskitty I am so excited for you to have a plan! I think its a great plan of action for you and since you have been pregnant on your own you I really believe you will be successful either with the cycle monitoring or with IVF. So happy you are moving forward. You are most fertile one/two days before ovulation, if you BD as you planned you will have the timing perfectly. That is my expert medical opinion lol.

Welcome Calitronagrl! This is an amazing thread with wonderfully supportive women, I hope we can help you along the way. I know what you mean about being impatient, we had a forced 3 month hiatus as I received medication to treat an ectopic pregnancy and it felt like forever but, before I knew it, I was back on track!

I had a nice weekend with my family, we just hung out and bbq'd! Was exactly what I needed . I am wrapped up in work and getting ready for vacation this week, I can't wait to get away.

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

Hi Calitronagr sorry we all have to meet this way on this thread but the ladies on here are great and so supportive.
Nat glad you had a chilled weekend where are you going on vacation? it will do you no end of good im sure.
Mrskitty fab news on the plan I can see some serious bfp coming on this thread

 

[Calitronagrl]

Thank you everyone! I know the wait is really good for DH and I, but yes I am a bit impatient, lol. And MrsKitty, that is what I was thinking. For the time that I am forced to wait, I figured I would get back on track with exercising and eating healthier and just overall try to get baby ready. It should make the time go by fast and help me stay positive.

 

[kelly1973]

yes good idea to focus on something it helps me

 

[Calitronagrl]

So before me getting on the pill, I had signed up for college classes to get my masters, which will definitely keep me busy for the next few months. I also signed up to volunteer at a local hospital to gather experience for my upcoming degree. I finally got the call today to find out when/where I will be volunteering. Turns out they are going to have me work in the Labor and Delivery department and it will be long term. I know I will be fine, but I just found it kinda ironic after all that has happened.

 

[Smiler79]

Welcome to calitronagrl. Hope we can be a support to you.

As for me I have had two job interviews this week. One on mon I didn't get but got very good feedback and was probably a relief as it was full time and I wasn't feeling comfortable about the prospect of putting Imogen into nursery full time.

The interview yesterday went well I think and I should hear by end of week. It is a zero hr as and when contract which may be good for me at moment as I have been out of work for almost a yr and since these two miscarriages I have been finding it difficult to be away from Imogen too much so this would ease me back I to work gently.

As for ttc Kelly. Hubby and I have agreed to ntnp for a coule of months while we still come to terms with the losses and then we will reassess things if still not pregnant. I am not expecting it to happen quickly though. We had been trying for 3 months when I had my first miscarriage in 2009. It then took 6 months to fall pregnant woth Imogen. Then in September last yr I fell pregnant on the pil but miscarried and it then took us 6 months to fall pregnant again only to miscarry that baby too. So I am telling myself that I should expect it to take at least 6 months this time too.

Miss kitty and Natalie glad you both have a plan of action. I hate having in control in the ttc game xxxxxxx

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

sounds like your going to be very busy calitronagrl maybe its a sign xx
I hope you get the job smiler I work from home so am quite lucky in that respect even though its very hard juggling Daniel and work heres what I do www.cannychicken.co.uk if any of you are on facebook you can add me be great to see pics of you guys etc im Kelly latuskie and my timeline is pics of my Daniel xx

 

[MrsKitty]

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[amanda111308]

Breathing a sigh of relief. I have made it to 12 weeks scan is in 4 days, will post some pics and maybe you guys can have a guess at the gender. We aren't finding out until the birth but it would be fun

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

mrs kitty lol was that you ha ha add me on my personel if you like Kelly latuskie
Amanda fab news defo wana see pics x

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Mrs W 11]

Hi ladies, please can I join you? I had a mmc at 12 weeks in January and am now on cycle 7 and at 6 months of ttc post loss with no luck.

I'm feeling so low and looking for new support groups xx

 

[kelly1973]

mrs kitty yeah no one knows bout us too regards facebook hush hush for sure exciting times I wish I was joining you on the waiting game im still bleeding 6 weeks after my dand c
mrs w 11 sorry we have to meet in such horrid circumstances but this thread is great there are pregnant ladies too but we feel that it gives us all hope and its such a supportive group welcome xxx

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

no going to the docs on Monday just feel I cant move forward until it stops
hope nat is having a lovely break

 

[Calitronagrl]

Congrats Amanda on week 12! Can't wait to see your scans. Kelly, I agree with MrsKitty, that does seem a very long time to still be bleeding. I hope the doctor finds out a way to make it stop. Mrs. W welcome to the group. I am so sorry for your loss.