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6 months + since mc and no luck getting pregnant... Come join me in the wait!!
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Smiler79
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oh Kelly I am so sorry. it is s hard to move on when the bleeding is still there. hope that is it for you now xxxxxx sending big hugs.
I had an apt with a miscarriage counsellor on Tuesday. It was offered by epu and is one of the epu midwifes who is also a trained counsellor. I want sure what to expect but it was realy good. I have been offered a max of 6 sessions. the midwife herself had 3 miscarriages before having her two children so it is nice to see a therapist who does actually understand what it is like rather than having just done the training.
She gave me leaflets to read through including one to help me talk to my three year old and one for hubby. I had a quick read of one for hubby and then gave it him expecting him to not be interested. but he had a quick look at it and then put it in his work bag. this is a really big step for him and even if he reads it but never talks to me about it I will be happy.
By end of session I already felt that we probably will try again depsute my fears. HAve spoken to hubby and agreed to ntnp for next few months and then reassess. I am absolutely terrified but not ready to give up on chance of baby number 2 yet xxxxx
how is everyone else doing xxx
I had an apt with a miscarriage counsellor on Tuesday. It was offered by epu and is one of the epu midwifes who is also a trained counsellor. I want sure what to expect but it was realy good. I have been offered a max of 6 sessions. the midwife herself had 3 miscarriages before having her two children so it is nice to see a therapist who does actually understand what it is like rather than having just done the training.
She gave me leaflets to read through including one to help me talk to my three year old and one for hubby. I had a quick read of one for hubby and then gave it him expecting him to not be interested. but he had a quick look at it and then put it in his work bag. this is a really big step for him and even if he reads it but never talks to me about it I will be happy.
By end of session I already felt that we probably will try again depsute my fears. HAve spoken to hubby and agreed to ntnp for next few months and then reassess. I am absolutely terrified but not ready to give up on chance of baby number 2 yet xxxxx
how is everyone else doing xxx
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The bleeding is so hard to deal with Kelly but it'll be over soon and you'll have a fresh start. You need this to happen so you can get your rainbow.
Smiler I'm glad counselling went well. I never had it but my midwife had a miscarriage before her first baby so I feel like she knows what I'm going through and she gives me hope there will be a happy ending.
Smiler I'm glad counselling went well. I never had it but my midwife had a miscarriage before her first baby so I feel like she knows what I'm going through and she gives me hope there will be a happy ending.
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mrs kitty I have my 2nd loss due date coming up and theres a friend of my oh who is due the day after I was and although im really pleased for her I keep thinking that should be me too, focus on the positive stuff in your life and make plans of how you can help get your goals that's how ive always got over my mc by focusing on how much I want it, have a pamper day meet up with friends and have a wine in the night time whilst you can cause soon you wont be able to drink for 10 happy months xxx
smiler so glad your counselling went well im glad you are going to try again I feel like we are at the same stage we can do this for sure xx
anniebobs how are you feeling?
nat how are you?
smiler so glad your counselling went well im glad you are going to try again I feel like we are at the same stage we can do this for sure xx
anniebobs how are you feeling?
nat how are you?
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Hi Girls - I tested again this morning 13 days post iui, BFN. I am MAJOR pms and am grouchy and emotional. I just want AF so I can get on with it, I will be shocked if I don't get it by tomorrow. I don't even want to go in for my bloodwork tomorrow but I have to because the last time I thought I had my period and went in for bloodwork I had the ectopic. So, better safe than sorry!
Kelly - I know how awful it is to have bleeding like that, once you are past the next day or two and it slows down, you will start to feel better. I always find embracing the pain helps me to let it out and move on. Hugs to you xoxoxox
Mrskitty, my first loss due date would have been a week before mothers day in May. I went to the spa and got a facial. It really helps to pamper yourself. I was at the gym on Tuesday and there was a pregnant woman working out and that's when I started to have my mini meltdown, it just hurts and all we can do is accept the pain and know that we are going to feel bad and then we pick ourselves back up again and move on. Make some special plans for yourself, that will help xoxo
Smiler, so glad your counselling went well. I hope you can find some peace with your husband to give each other strength to move on and try again. You have a beautiful little girl, it can happen again. xo
How are you feeling these days, Anniebobs??
Kelly - I know how awful it is to have bleeding like that, once you are past the next day or two and it slows down, you will start to feel better. I always find embracing the pain helps me to let it out and move on. Hugs to you xoxoxox
Mrskitty, my first loss due date would have been a week before mothers day in May. I went to the spa and got a facial. It really helps to pamper yourself. I was at the gym on Tuesday and there was a pregnant woman working out and that's when I started to have my mini meltdown, it just hurts and all we can do is accept the pain and know that we are going to feel bad and then we pick ourselves back up again and move on. Make some special plans for yourself, that will help xoxo
Smiler, so glad your counselling went well. I hope you can find some peace with your husband to give each other strength to move on and try again. You have a beautiful little girl, it can happen again. xo
How are you feeling these days, Anniebobs??
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Mrs kitty the first due date was the hardest for me, luckily it was during the week and I wasn't working so I just let myself be down. I went for a run and had a nap while dd was out then just took her to the park. The second one was our wedding anniversary and I was pregnant so was easier to be happy. The third one is coming up but I'll have had my 20 week scan by then so all being well should be fine.
I'm good, I don't like to talk too much about my pregnancy in here because I know how hard it can be to hear. But just to give you all hope that there is a happy ending in sight... I felt baby move!! It started on Tuesday and I felt it again yesterday. Proper little rollovers and changes of position. I'm feeling very blessed right now.
I'm good, I don't like to talk too much about my pregnancy in here because I know how hard it can be to hear. But just to give you all hope that there is a happy ending in sight... I felt baby move!! It started on Tuesday and I felt it again yesterday. Proper little rollovers and changes of position. I'm feeling very blessed right now.
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I feel the same way in regards to talking about the pregnancy... I feel almost like I shouldn't be... Either way I am still here to cheer you all on and offer any support I can. I remember from the last thread that most of us came from I couldn't be on when I was still trying because it was just so difficult with every month of disappointment... Now I feel like crap kinda...
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Annie that's so incredible, huge pregnancy milestone!!! Amanda I want both of you to stay, of course we don't want you to leave! We are all in this together and I am so happy for you both. The rest of us will get there xoxo.
More spotting tonight and I am eating everything that isn't nailed to the counter. AF should be here right on target tomorrow!
More spotting tonight and I am eating everything that isn't nailed to the counter. AF should be here right on target tomorrow!
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My period rolled in right on time, I am disappointed but I knew the beginning of this week this wasn't the month. I am glad I dealt with it and am not completely crushed today. Of course now Im thinking great, am I infertile? Which is ridiculous I know but its because we have never had an issue getting pregnant on our own I really thought this would work. I have mixed emotions. I am looking forward to taking a break from the clinic this month and trying on our own.
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Thanks girls, I appreciate your support so much. I am really looking forward to getting away and clearing my head from all of this.
Honestly Kelly? Twice on the first try, and then with my ectopic it took us three months. This is why I'm shocked the IUI didnt work. I will hopefully get pregnant on my own quickly just makes me nervous about losing again.
Honestly Kelly? Twice on the first try, and then with my ectopic it took us three months. This is why I'm shocked the IUI didnt work. I will hopefully get pregnant on my own quickly just makes me nervous about losing again.
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Hi everyone, I know I am joining this thread super late, but I have been mia for a few months from this site.
DH and I have been trying for 4years before we finally got our bfp. I had to have surgeries first to remove endometriosis before it could happen. I m/c this past October and now it is month 8 with no luck.
Started to see a new doctor since my pain is back. He currently has me on birth control for the next three months to see if will help with my endometriosis and be able to get pregnant without having to do the surgery. Keeping my fingers crossed that this works. It is going to be a long 3 months for me, well technically 2 months and 3 weeks, lol.
DH and I have been trying for 4years before we finally got our bfp. I had to have surgeries first to remove endometriosis before it could happen. I m/c this past October and now it is month 8 with no luck.
Started to see a new doctor since my pain is back. He currently has me on birth control for the next three months to see if will help with my endometriosis and be able to get pregnant without having to do the surgery. Keeping my fingers crossed that this works. It is going to be a long 3 months for me, well technically 2 months and 3 weeks, lol.
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