6w6d scan - no hb or fetal poles seen. Advice?

[Julia35]

Hoping your scan went well!!

 

[_jellybean_]

How are you?

 

[pandi77]

Hope your scan goes well tomorrow

 

[28329]

Hope today goes well for you

 

[MrsMoose]

Hi ladies.

Sadly it's not meant to be (again) The consultant said the sacs were collapsing, and there was a fetal pole in one sac but no hb, and only a bit of 'tissue' in the other sac. I'm scheduled for an ERPC next week Tuesday, and he'd like to do genetic testing on the 'products of conception' - God I hate those words. I'm just wondering what on earth he'll find - if it's nothing, then is it just bad luck? And if it's something, do we carry on trying? I don't think I've got any more strength to go through this again...

I'm devastated. 5th time unlucky. Not one but two potential little babies who will never come to be. I'm so numb right now. I haven't cried, because I feel like if I opened those floodgates they would never close. And to top it all off, my husband's best friend's wife went into labour last night and we'll be getting news of their new arrival any minute now. This could not be a worse day.

Thank you again for all of your support, I truly appreciate it.

Carmen. xx

 

[mandy19]

I'm so sorry, life is just so cruel at times.

 

[bther]

 

[_jellybean_]

I'm so sorry wish I had words of comfort.

 

[28329]

I am so sorry. Words really are not enough.

 

[jtyler612]

I am so so sorry! My heart is broken for you

 

[pandi77]

So sorry hun

 

[MrsMoose]

thank you ladies

 

[dan-o]

Oh no, I'm so sorry to read your sad update xxx

 

[Rainbow2103]

Sorry xx