7dpo symptoms

[Afamilygal]

you betcha! you are adorable.
April huh? I sure hope so! FX for us both. extreme gas and exhaustion... sounds dreamy- isnt that ridiculous?! see what we are reduced to? dreams of farting...

so you can predict genders- AWESOME. I wonder if you are right about your friend- I hope you are right, mostly cause I want you to be able to predict mine but also 5 boys sounds hectic.. yikes!

thanks for the words on the drugs, you are totally right! dont know why I would even worry about that. it wasnt until I saw it typed out that I realised how silly I was being. Its like I HAVE to find something to worry about. What a downer!

"fold it back in" HA! I tried!! Its like a rubber band, it just bounces back out!! but if I lie still I can get used to it. the things we do to get pg huh? bonkers...

I only just saw your ticker and realized you are on cd5, sorry! time is moving at a snails pace!! egads, my own ovulation seems years away! BAH!!

 

[EMandPATRICK]

Is it stupid that I day dream about the baby polls and wagers, little kicks in my stomach, having my husband talk to my belly, cravings, frequent urination...I gotta say that the only thing I'm not looking forward to is hemorrhoids.

When you become pregnant, I will take a guess on the sex of the baby (or babies..hehe). It might be kind of hard because I don't know you or your husband, but I'll try

You couldn't be more correct about time moving at a snails pace. I'm already ready to start peeing on things. Do you have OPKs ready? I'm really hoping you start ovulating earlier than expected. It bums me out that you will be testing for ovulation around the time I'll be testing for HCG. But..as long as you ovulate, I'll be happy for you!

 

[Afamilygal]

yeah, I wish we were Ov'ing at the same time too. Its much more fun to have someone in the 2ww with you but I can still be there for you and I LOVE ss so anytime you want to talk about why this or that, Im your girl.

I cant wait for all the pg stuff too. (minus the hemorroids- good call) Whenever pregnant women complain about their pg 'problems' like gas I want to kick them.
A few months ago my friend and I were in her car with her 2 kids in the back and all she could do was complain about how bad they had been all day and I turned to her and told her that even though I got that she was overwhelmed, that I would do anything to have 2 healthy kids in the back of my car. She was embaressed- I didnt mean to even say it, it just came out bu Im glad I did. She is the most negative person I know and I kind of snapped.
WHOOOPS.

 

[Afamilygal]

I meant to ask- when do you start testing OPKs?

 

[EMandPATRICK]

Last month was my first time using OPKs, and I believe I started at day 9 of my cycle. So I'm assuming that I will start around the same day.

I tend to have opinions when it comes to my friends and their kids. It's weird. I really don't know how to explain it. Have you ever sat down with your DH and discussed how you were going to raise your future kids?? Like whether or not you will spoil them, college fund, first car, punishing etc? We have been doing that lately-and it stems from how we watch our friends treat their kids. I'm sure that we will change our outlooks, but I find it kind of soothing to talk about it. It gets me excited to think that one day those talks will matter.

I don't think that what you said was wrong. Some people need to hear that they should be grateful for what they have. God, I would give anything to have a healthy, happy child. Anything.

So Laine, do you ever wonder whether or not you will be a good mother? I'm sure I will be in my own mind.. but that first time I saw a positive on a pregnancy test, I was so excited..then scared. I started asking myself whether or not I really have what it takes to be a Mom. Then something else will make me excited again, such as picking out a theme for a nursery, or folding little onesies before bed. I'm also really scared about child birth. I'm not looking forward to that pain- I have to keep reminding myself women do it all the time. I am the child of HELLP syndrome. My mom was very sick with me, severe pre-eclampsia..I was born 4lbs 3oz, and we had to stay in the hospital for over a week. One of my sisters had it as well, 2 years ago. Both of them had to have a c-section, which personally I would rather. I'm wondering if I tell my doctor this as soon as I get a BFP, if I can opt for a c-section. I've heard of women doing that.. is that possible?? Or am I just being a wussy?

 

[Afamilygal]

You know, I think if every women were being truthful, they would admit that they have moments of fear and doubt. I think its a good thing to think about what kind of mother you will be and not just assume that everything will be hunky dory, after all everyone makes mistakes... Being a good parent is hard work, it requires a lot of thought, determination, and patience.

There are no guarantees in life about anything but you can promise yourself that you will try your hardest, and do your very best. The only thing that really matters is loving your child unconditionally.
and I know you will do that. I dont know you aside from this forum but you are clearly a good and caring woman and I believe that you will a great mother too.

When I got my pregnancy test, I did the exact same thing. the first feeling was "YAY!" then it was "holy cow." I was really scared and remember wondering what I would be like as a mother. Its scary stuff and we question ourselves because it really matters. Its a serious thing that requires serious thought.
thing is, I know that I am going to make mistakes but I will always try my best, and do what I believe it best for my children and my family.

I know that I want a baby and I will do whatever it takes and that I will always try to remember to be grateful no matter how hard it gets. I cant imagine ever forgetting what this feels like but I know that it will be part of our pasts. the important is to look forward right? We have a lot of love to give!

I cant believe how little you were! 4lbs- thats SO teeny tiny, that must have been really hard for your mother. I dont know much about HELLP, what is it?

Im sure you can opt for a c-section but I have heard that it can be really rough on you (recovery wise) so just have a honest discussion with your doctor about the pros and cons.
I used to be so afraid of pain (and I still am) but I think Im less afraid of it now, I trust that my body can handle a lot. and also- remember that women are designed to give birth so theres all these hormones and stuff flying around that help us physically as well as mentally/ emotionally cope with the pain and stress of child birth.
It seems far away right now, but I think that when the time comes you can do it, you can do anything you put your mind to.
and at the end of the day, you will be holding your child, and nothing else will matter.

BUT whatever your decision, no one will judge you (not anyone who matters!)

 

[Afamilygal]

I think I have decided that I really want to proceed with medical help getting pregnant. I have been through a lot but I have this feeling that this is only the beginning so I kind of want to get on with it and feel like we are moving forward.
I dont want to risk the endo getting worse. Im stage 3 and if it gets to stage 4, I might need a hysterectomy.

I cant bear that. I know that my husband is afraid but I dont think we should not something because we are afraid. there are risks, but there are risks no matter what.
now I just have to get him to see it from my perspective. I hope the Dr will tell us that he still wants us to proceed as planned, I think if DH hears it from the dr then he will be more inclined to do it.
wish me luck!!

 

[EMandPATRICK]

Well the way I see it, is I already have had an abdominal surgery (appendix), so I can somewhat understand the recovery time, although I know it takes a few weeks longer with a c-section. But when it comes down to it, I'll be sure to ask!

Thank you for not making me feel so different. Sometimes I feel like a worry-wart, or a bitch because of how I think sometimes.. but it's nice that I can bounce my thoughts off of you, keeps me sane.

I just copied this from a website that explains what HELLP is : HELLP syndrome is a life-threatening pregnancy complication usually considered to be a variant of preeclampsia. Both conditions usually occur during the later stages of pregnancy, or sometimes after childbirth.

HELLP syndrome was named by Dr. Louis Weinstein in 1982 after its characteristics:

H (hemolysis, which is the breaking down of red blood cells),
EL (elevated liver enzymes) and
LP (low platelet count).

A suspicion of HELLP syndrome can be frustrating to the physician when all requirements for its certain diagnosis are not apparent. In some patients who are developing HELLP syndrome the primary preeclampsia indicators of high blood pressure and protein in the urine may not be present, and its symptoms can be mistaken for gastritis, flu, acute hepatitis, gall bladder disease, or other conditions. While some of these other conditions may also be present, there is no evidence they are related.

Early diagnosis is critical because the morbidity and mortality rates associated with the syndrome have been reported to be as high as 25%. As a result, patient awareness of HELLP syndrome, and how it relates to preeclampsia, is helpful to ensure optimal and timely medical care for mother and baby.


I am on board with you, after thinking about it a bit.. I think jumping right to medical help to conceive is they way to go. I don't like the possible outcome of the endo coming back. I think you have waited and been through enough, time for a little help. I think your husband will understand once the doctor agrees, and I honestly think that your doctor will want to assist rather than seeing if it happens naturally, because of the risk alone. Tomorrow is the day!! I think you said your appointment is at 3 something...because of the time difference, it will be around 5pm in NY. I don't know if you will be on tomorrow before or after, but in case I don't hear from you before the removal.. GOOD LUCK!!! I'll be here when it's over, or if you have any gross stories you want to share

 

[Sashamunna]

Hi Emily & Laine!

Sorry for the disappearing act! It's the super long holiday here and just gotten back to work! Just an update that I will be going in for my HSG test tomorrow to see if my fallopian tubes are blocked and my DH will be going in for his SA.. Keeping fingers crossed that my tubes are clear!

Hope all of us ovulate at the same time and have BFP at the same time! Hugs!

 

[EMandPATRICK]

Hi Emily & Laine!

Sorry for the disappearing act! It's the super long holiday here and just gotten back to work! Just an update that I will be going in for my HSG test tomorrow to see if my fallopian tubes are blocked and my DH will be going in for his SA.. Keeping fingers crossed that my tubes are clear!

Hope all of us ovulate at the same time and have BFP at the same time! Hugs!

Yay! Good luck!!! Try not to be nervous..and think good thoughts. I hope both results are normal!!! Let us know when you find out the results!!!!

 

[Afamilygal]

Hi Emily & Laine!

Sorry for the disappearing act! It's the super long holiday here and just gotten back to work! Just an update that I will be going in for my HSG test tomorrow to see if my fallopian tubes are blocked and my DH will be going in for his SA.. Keeping fingers crossed that my tubes are clear!

Hope all of us ovulate at the same time and have BFP at the same time! Hugs!

Sasha- GL on your HSG! If I could recommend something- try taking some motrin or advil before you go. It can be a little crampy and I think that will help. Hope all goes well and your tunes are free and clear!

 

[Afamilygal]

Well the way I see it, is I already have had an abdominal surgery (appendix), so I can somewhat understand the recovery time, although I know it takes a few weeks longer with a c-section. But when it comes down to it, I'll be sure to ask!

Thank you for not making me feel so different. Sometimes I feel like a worry-wart, or a bitch because of how I think sometimes.. but it's nice that I can bounce my thoughts off of you, keeps me sane.

I just copied this from a website that explains what HELLP is : HELLP syndrome is a life-threatening pregnancy complication usually considered to be a variant of preeclampsia. Both conditions usually occur during the later stages of pregnancy, or sometimes after childbirth.

HELLP syndrome was named by Dr. Louis Weinstein in 1982 after its characteristics:

H (hemolysis, which is the breaking down of red blood cells),
EL (elevated liver enzymes) and
LP (low platelet count).

A suspicion of HELLP syndrome can be frustrating to the physician when all requirements for its certain diagnosis are not apparent. In some patients who are developing HELLP syndrome the primary preeclampsia indicators of high blood pressure and protein in the urine may not be present, and its symptoms can be mistaken for gastritis, flu, acute hepatitis, gall bladder disease, or other conditions. While some of these other conditions may also be present, there is no evidence they are related.

Early diagnosis is critical because the morbidity and mortality rates associated with the syndrome have been reported to be as high as 25%. As a result, patient awareness of HELLP syndrome, and how it relates to preeclampsia, is helpful to ensure optimal and timely medical care for mother and baby.


I am on board with you, after thinking about it a bit.. I think jumping right to medical help to conceive is they way to go. I don't like the possible outcome of the endo coming back. I think you have waited and been through enough, time for a little help. I think your husband will understand once the doctor agrees, and I honestly think that your doctor will want to assist rather than seeing if it happens naturally, because of the risk alone. Tomorrow is the day!! I think you said your appointment is at 3 something...because of the time difference, it will be around 5pm in NY. I don't know if you will be on tomorrow before or after, but in case I don't hear from you before the removal.. GOOD LUCK!!! I'll be here when it's over, or if you have any gross stories you want to share

Hiya toots!
Wow, HELLP sounds so scary! Is there anyway to test or do something that might help prevent it? I just tried to read up on it and I read on a thread that if take vitamin E and baby aspirin before getting pg that it can help?? (that might be total ka-ka but its worth researching) I read it on this thread.
scary stuff, sorry love. but nowadays it sounds like they might be able to detect it soon and help it right?

so yep! today is the DAY! I am so freaking excited! both to get this F*$&ing balloon out and also to FINALLY set a plan! YIPPEE!!
Its at 3, you are correctomundo. only a couple of hours away! Ill try to log on after if I can and give you the dets. DH and I are going to come home and go on a long walk and then go and see a movie. I cant WAIT! I feel like Rupunzel (minus the super long hair) being let out of her castle.

I hope the Dr can confirm what he has been saying up til now and not be swayed my what DH wants... I am just going to have to be firm about how I feel.
I understand where DH is coming from, but ultimately this is MY body still right? I think I should have the ultimate say. (isnt that terrible? DH would pitch a fit if he could hear that) but its true. Its not his uterus/disease in question...
I think now that we are able to infertility help from our insurance (they pay 75% of up to 6 cycles of IUI/ovulation induction- YEAH!) that will help a bit.

we shall see.... so whats new with you this morning?

 

[EMandPATRICK]

Well the way I see it, is I already have had an abdominal surgery (appendix), so I can somewhat understand the recovery time, although I know it takes a few weeks longer with a c-section. But when it comes down to it, I'll be sure to ask!

Thank you for not making me feel so different. Sometimes I feel like a worry-wart, or a bitch because of how I think sometimes.. but it's nice that I can bounce my thoughts off of you, keeps me sane.

I just copied this from a website that explains what HELLP is : HELLP syndrome is a life-threatening pregnancy complication usually considered to be a variant of preeclampsia. Both conditions usually occur during the later stages of pregnancy, or sometimes after childbirth.

HELLP syndrome was named by Dr. Louis Weinstein in 1982 after its characteristics:

H (hemolysis, which is the breaking down of red blood cells),
EL (elevated liver enzymes) and
LP (low platelet count).

A suspicion of HELLP syndrome can be frustrating to the physician when all requirements for its certain diagnosis are not apparent. In some patients who are developing HELLP syndrome the primary preeclampsia indicators of high blood pressure and protein in the urine may not be present, and its symptoms can be mistaken for gastritis, flu, acute hepatitis, gall bladder disease, or other conditions. While some of these other conditions may also be present, there is no evidence they are related.

Early diagnosis is critical because the morbidity and mortality rates associated with the syndrome have been reported to be as high as 25%. As a result, patient awareness of HELLP syndrome, and how it relates to preeclampsia, is helpful to ensure optimal and timely medical care for mother and baby.


I am on board with you, after thinking about it a bit.. I think jumping right to medical help to conceive is they way to go. I don't like the possible outcome of the endo coming back. I think you have waited and been through enough, time for a little help. I think your husband will understand once the doctor agrees, and I honestly think that your doctor will want to assist rather than seeing if it happens naturally, because of the risk alone. Tomorrow is the day!! I think you said your appointment is at 3 something...because of the time difference, it will be around 5pm in NY. I don't know if you will be on tomorrow before or after, but in case I don't hear from you before the removal.. GOOD LUCK!!! I'll be here when it's over, or if you have any gross stories you want to share

Hiya toots!
Wow, HELLP sounds so scary! Is there anyway to test or do something that might help prevent it? I just tried to read up on it and I read on a thread that if take vitamin E and baby aspirin before getting pg that it can help?? (that might be total ka-ka but its worth researching) I read it on this thread.
scary stuff, sorry love. but nowadays it sounds like they might be able to detect it soon and help it right?

so yep! today is the DAY! I am so freaking excited! both to get this F*$&ing balloon out and also to FINALLY set a plan! YIPPEE!!
Its at 3, you are correctomundo. only a couple of hours away! Ill try to log on after if I can and give you the dets. DH and I are going to come home and go on a long walk and then go and see a movie. I cant WAIT! I feel like Rupunzel (minus the super long hair) being let out of her castle.

I hope the Dr can confirm what he has been saying up til now and not be swayed my what DH wants... I am just going to have to be firm about how I feel.
I understand where DH is coming from, but ultimately this is MY body still right? I think I should have the ultimate say. (isnt that terrible? DH would pitch a fit if he could hear that) but its true. Its not his uterus/disease in question...
I think now that we are able to infertility help from our insurance (they pay 75% of up to 6 cycles of IUI/ovulation induction- YEAH!) that will help a bit.

we shall see.... so whats new with you this morning?

I have read about that too, and the only thing I don't take right now is the baby aspirin. Maybe I should. It is really scary, and personally I don't think they know enough about it yet. They asked my mom to write to the organization once a year about me and her. So it's almost like they are still running a test.

Ultimately it is your body... but it always will be! It is so nice that you two are going for a long walk and a date to the movies. That is so cute , and although you two have probably talked a lot with regards to your game plan, this will give you a chance to discuss it after speaking with the doctor.

Unfortunately I have a cold right now, the weather up here has been crazy!!! Cold then warm, then cold again. SOOO... I could be better!

So while cuddling with the DH last night, more baby commercials came on than ever before, and there were so many topics regarding babies on our regular shows!!! I told him to put a baby in my belly this month, and he said he would try...but then he said that he feels so much pressure because last month when the test came out negative- he felt like he let me down. I honestly didn't think it was possible for him to feel the same way I felt about it. Kinda sad when I think about it. I don't want him feeling like that.. ever.


If you can't sign on tonight, it's perfectly understandable... you can always fill me in tomorrow!

 

[Afamilygal]

I know how he feels- I feel like I let my husband down every month too. thing is, I know that is totally unreasonable. SO you must help him to see that too. We are all doing our very best and thats ALL that matters. on the subject of it not happening one month, my mom said "maybe its just meant to be you two for a little longer... enjoy it while you can"
so... however annoying that is, its also true...

but listen- if you two are trying, then the only thing preventing it is the baby gods- thats who you guys should blame... I do!

sorry about your cold.. remember to drink lots of fluids!

 

[EMandPATRICK]

I know how he feels- I feel like I let my husband down every month too. thing is, I know that is totally unreasonable. SO you must help him to see that too. We are all doing our very best and thats ALL that matters. on the subject of it not happening one month, my mom said "maybe its just meant to be you two for a little longer... enjoy it while you can"
so... however annoying that is, its also true...

but listen- if you two are trying, then the only thing preventing it is the baby gods- thats who you guys should blame... I do!

sorry about your cold.. remember to drink lots of fluids!

You are absolutely correct...and so is your mom. It's just meant that we enjoy it being just us for a little longer. We both have to goal of having kids.. and we should stop to think more about how much fun it is to BD and get excited about TTC.

EEEkkk I'm just so excited to have my first ultrasound, or second... to see the heartbeat of what we created. Or see the little bean suck his/her thumb. Then the anticipation of finding out whether we will be having a little girl or a little boy. I can't wait!!! Do you ever wonder how a baby is actually created? How does it happen that a tiny sperm and egg can produce a baby.. that has 10 fingers and 10 toes. How can every woman (almost) and man (again..almost) have that ability?I know some scientific stuff about it, but after the sperm meets the egg, how does it work to produce the cells? And how does it form in the stages to create such a miracle??

 

[Afamilygal]

SCIENCE LESSON!!! ok! so, it all starts off as one cell that once fertilized in the fallopian tubes within hours of a 24 hour window of ovulation when the sperm meets the egg, after approx 24 hours after fertilization, the cell then begins to divide and multiply (mitosis). every 8 hours or so, it goes from one, to two, to four, to eight and by the time it is 12-15 cells (about 3 and half to 4 ish days) it has made its way through the tubes down to the uterus where it buries itself in the lining so that it can receive the nutrients and blood flow it needs to continue developing. CRAZY.
Its a beautiful process and I am astonished that all that happens and there are so many people who can do it. mental. I love reproduction, its so fascinating...

but you know what I dont get? what the hell happens in between the time it reaches the uterus to when it starts the attachment phase (around day 6ish) theres a big old gap- what the happening in that time? anyone know?

 

[EMandPATRICK]

SCIENCE LESSON!!! ok! so, it all starts off as one cell that once fertilized in the fallopian tubes within hours of a 24 hour window of ovulation when the sperm meets the egg, after approx 24 hours after fertilization, the cell then begins to divide and multiply (mitosis). every 8 hours or so, it goes from one, to two, to four, to eight and by the time it is 12-15 cells (about 3 and half to 4 ish days) it has made its way through the tubes down to the uterus where it buries itself in the lining so that it can receive the nutrients and blood flow it needs to continue developing. CRAZY.
Its a beautiful process and I am astonished that all that happens and there are so many people who can do it. mental. I love reproduction, its so fascinating...

but you know what I dont get? what the hell happens in between the time it reaches the uterus to when it starts the attachment phase (around day 6ish) theres a big old gap- what the happening in that time? anyone know?

THANK YOU! Excellent question!!! I hope someone that reads this knows the answer. But I'm going to look it up just in case.

It's 4:48pm here.. you are probably at the doctors already, and I hope everything is going as planned. I hope you have fun on date night with the hubby. Let me know how everything went when you sign on next! I'm interested to see what route your doctor recommends as the next step. Fingers crossed you walk out with at least a prescription to regulate your ovulation.

 

[Afamilygal]

hello! Cant talk long but got the balloon out- YAY!!! its feels wonderful to have it out. SO much better.
The doctor said it was up to us but thought a good comprise for us was Clomid trying naturally for 2 months and then move onto IUI and injections if we have to. to be honest, I dont know yet how I feel about it... but once Ive had more time to think Ill be back on- probably manana.
Hope you have a great evening- Im off for my walk!!!

 

[EMandPATRICK]

Awesome! Congratulations!!!! I'm glad you are feeling better. That might be a great compromise. Clomid might do the trick Have fun tonight, and I'll talk to you tomorrow!!!

 

[Sashamunna]

Hi Emily & Laine!

Sorry for the disappearing act! It's the super long holiday here and just gotten back to work! Just an update that I will be going in for my HSG test tomorrow to see if my fallopian tubes are blocked and my DH will be going in for his SA.. Keeping fingers crossed that my tubes are clear!

Hope all of us ovulate at the same time and have BFP at the same time! Hugs!

Sasha- GL on your HSG! If I could recommend something- try taking some motrin or advil before you go. It can be a little crampy and I think that will help. Hope all goes well and your tunes are free and clear!

Hi Laine!

I guess I will not be able to do the test today, it's CD11 and imagine that I'm ovuating (says my +opk)! I usually 'O' on CD18 while on clomid, now i'm free from clomid and i 'O' on CD11! I am calling my OB to see if i should reschedule till next cycle (if i dont get preggy )

Thanks!
Christine