8 months almost and still not feeling right

[Numero_uno]

Sorry if this is tmi!

My lo is nearly 8 months and I still can't have sex properly, and it still feels uncomfortable during sex once we finally manage to do it a little bit, I am not sore after at all. Do you think its worth a trip to docs? I had a lot of internal stiches.

 

[DJJ]

Yes go see your Dr.

 

[Lulabelle27]

I would definitely go and see your doctor to make sure everything is as it should be.

Also worth a mention is I remember our first time after LO and I was really tense and couldn't relax (actually couldn't wait to finish) and this made it more uncomfortable I think, as the next time I was more relaxed and fine good luck

 

[Numero_uno]

I'm going to try dtd a few more times and relax more and not think about it as much and then go and see a dr if things stil aren't right. I might even dtd after a few drinks as that's going to relax me more.

 

[ParisJeTadore]

Wouldn't hurt to see your Dr

Also, sex was very uncomfortable for me for months and month's until I realized I wasn't using enough lube. Try using LOTS and see if that helps. A combination of that and getting my dh to go reeeally slow eventually, after several goes of it, made it so much better.