:*~*:._.:*~*:The Baby Dancers.:*~*:._.:*~*:(18 BFP so far)

[nic18]

yeah i will, right now i just feel like an idiot i never thought i'd say this but i really hope i've not caught the egg this month

 

[LizzieJane]

You aren't an idiot hun I hope you manage to sort things out xx

 

[NDTaber9211]

How long have you guys been trying? TTC is hard on the guy too. Maybe he's feeling like he is failing or something? I don't know. I hope you guys work things out.

 

[nic18]

a year hun ! which makes it even worse. just wish he was better at communicating

 

[NDTaber9211]

I bet he is feeling down about himself and running away from the issue. Most men seem to take it personally when their gal doesn't get pregnant. It's like a hit to their manhood. It's only been 4 months for me and my husband has already broken down thinking it's his fault.

I really hope everything works out

 

[Tizy]

Hey Nic, really sorry things not working out as planned and sorry he's being an idiot. Hope things smooth out when you've spoken properly.

It's easy to lose communication with each other from time to time, hopefully once I you've chatted he'll see how much it means to you.

Big hugs xxx

 

[nic18]

thanks girls you are amazing

i wouldn't want him ttc if thats what he really wants, but i think it was a bit rude not to speak to me about it! i hope hes not feeling like this is his fault !

 

[BLACKBEAUTY27]

Hey Ladies - Hope everyone is doing well.. sorry i have been mia lately but ive been going thru a lot and now have the time to advise everyone how im doing .. soooo

Everyone knows last week i got BFP and went to doc for them to confirm preggies - unfortunately last night i expereienced an early miscarriage - yes again - : ( am i handling this well ? not really but in a few days i will be ok - i just wanted to keep everyone in the loop to advise since i havent been on here in a while --

but im sure things will work out for me - just have to have some patience - i was at work yesterday afternoon and went to the washroom to pee and when i wiped i noticed some spotting on the tissue from my recent docs appt she said i get any spotting to come in quickly - went to see doc and she said its normal to spot during early preg but because i had the same issue my last pregnancy i knew something was up - so she put me on bedrest for the remainder of the day and later in the day the bleeding got heavier and was cramping so rushed to emergency hospital and there they confirmed i was having a miscarriage and my hcg was 35 when it should of been in the thousands - well there u have it guys im feeling extra down but not letting it affect life - will just have to move on and try again -- i have been escalated to a specialist to find out why i am miscarrying for the last pregnancies and what can do to prevent it ..

BB

 

[NDTaber9211]

Hey Ladies - Hope everyone is doing well.. sorry i have been mia lately but ive been going thru a lot and now have the time to advise everyone how im doing .. soooo

Everyone knows last week i got BFP and went to doc for them to confirm preggies - unfortunately last night i expereienced an early miscarriage - yes again - : ( am i handling this well ? not really but in a few days i will be ok - i just wanted to keep everyone in the loop to advise since i havent been on here in a while --

but im sure things will work out for me - just have to have some patience - i was at work yesterday afternoon and went to the washroom to pee and when i wiped i noticed some spotting on the tissue from my recent docs appt she said i get any spotting to come in quickly - went to see doc and she said its normal to spot during early preg but because i had the same issue my last pregnancy i knew something was up - so she put me on bedrest for the remainder of the day and later in the day the bleeding got heavier and was cramping so rushed to emergency hospital and there they confirmed i was having a miscarriage and my hcg was 35 when it should of been in the thousands - well there u have it guys im feeling extra down but not letting it affect life - will just have to move on and try again -- i have been escalated to a specialist to find out why i am miscarrying for the last pregnancies and what can do to prevent it ..

BB

Oh BB I am so sorry

 

[nic18]

BB so sorry xx

 

[LizzieJane]

I am so so sorry hun I hope you get a specialist appointment soon.

 

[BLACKBEAUTY27]

thanks guys - they wanted me to wait until my third miscarry to be escalated but because i am not handling this well i got escalated .. this is tough but keeping my head up - whatever doesnt kill u makes u stronger and thats truth

BB

 

[BLACKBEAUTY27]

my appointment is tuesday with the specialist

 

[nic18]

good luck BB

 

[LizzieJane]

that's good news hun, not long to wait

 

[Jadey121]

So sorry bb. Big hugs xoxox

 

[Lisasmith]

BB I am so sorry honey

Nic, he handled that really badly! Hope you can sort it out together

 

[ProudArmyWife]

So sorry for your loss BB

 

[CaptainMummy]

BB so sorry about your loss xx

 

[Tizy]

BB oh Hun, so gutted to hear your news. Glad your getting escalated straight away. Sending you lots of strength. Big hugs Xx