Wife and went to first appt other day...all very normal. The main problem right now is she is coming off effexor (anti anxiety). I think she's doing incredibly well...sure we've had our down time but she's really been way more likely to "make up" after a bad stretch which is very unlike her. I have encouraged her to exercise on our elliptical lightly (something we didn't do at all last time)...I really feel like it's helping a ton. She's like a different person after working out. I've done my absolute best to walk the line of making her feel beautiful and loved and not going overboard and crowding her. I find it hard to walk this line though. I want her to enjoy her pregnancy this time...and it has been a lot better so far. We haven't been sexual yet, as she fears it. I respect that and know she's not all that comfortable physically right now. About when did that change for you? We have another drs appt in 2 weeks as this one was fairly early. She's mentioned it as a milestone for not having the fear. I think she also fears that I'm only "interested" because I want to make up for lack of intimacy last time. We are closer emotionally than we've ever been...having gone through the lowest time in our relationship in early December. Anyone have any tips or insight on making her feel beautiful and wanted? Is it OK to push physically a little but definitely not cross a line?I'm not a hound dog and would never make her feel shitty about it. Like if you had to turn your partner away, would you resent them for trying if they respected your wishes? Also anyone with any experience with coming off effexor or another anxiety meds? I think sheshe's knocking it out of the park but want to hear anyone else's experiences