A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Ladyfog]

I'm so pleased Emme! Just take each stage at a time and you'll be looking at the end of your 1st tri, just like Lexi!

Patiently, hope AF turns up soon - must be frustrating, but you're time to start TTC is almost here!

Soop and AYC, good luck this month!

Hope everyone is having a good BH weekend. Looks like it's going to be a lovely sunny day today! Mum and Dad are coming today to help tidy up our garden so I'm pleased it's not raining!

I've been on hols since Thursday as I'm starting to use my annual leave before my mat leave starts in a couple of weeks - no more 5 day working weeks for me now! In fact I only have 6 and a half days left in the office - Ahh! I've had a lazy few days and had a lovely day with DH yesterday with a bit of and a lovely meal out later . Making the most of our free time before chaos hits in a few weeks time!

 

[patiently]

Lady glad to see you and your OH enjoying your free time. 6 days left at the office...super jealous right now lol...

Lexi happy 10 weeks!!! Whooo hooo! Nearly in the second trimester. So excited for you x

Soop hope you caught the egg lovely lady. GL and dust this month!

AFM got sore bbs yesterday and some intense cramping and got so excited. I think AF might be on her way but if she is it means i havent ovulated this cycle...aww well. Come on Body!! We can do it. I really do hope we all get June BFP's ! with sticky babies, really feeling like im missing out. Hope everyone enjoys their BH xx

 

[thurl30]

Hi everyone

Hope you're all ok?

I haven't been online for ages, had a mad week at work and been on a bit of a downer the last week or so, but I'm back up there now

I will try and catch up on everything I have missed, congrats Emme I saw your post about your scan, that's such fab news xx

Lexi really pleased to hear all is going well for you still xx

to everyone, c'mon June bring some BFP's xx

 

[patiently]

AF must be on her way...sore bbs, and AF cramping, low and dull heavy aches argh...Street party today and the weather is crappy, hope it gets a bit better, cant be dancing in the rain. Hope everyone has a fabulotastic day xx

 

[wookie130]

Patiently, yay for AF coming!!!!!!!!!! You've almost got the green light, lady!

Sooper...fingers majorly crossed for you!

Ladyfog...it won't be long until that little girl is keeping you up at night!

 

[Sooperhans]

Thank you lovely Wookie, Patiently, Lady and everyone! Happy Jubilee weekend! We're about to head to our town where there is music and a tea party, hoping it won't get rained off. Well we've been mainly bd'ing and having a laugh with it, so hopefully June will be the month! Patiently has AF arrived? Maybe that date we weren't sure about on FF was ov? Hope so!

Thurl, ah hope you are ok hun and it's nice to have you back, shout if we can help in any way

How is everyone? Lexi 10 weeks, arghhh so exciting!!! Xxx

 

[ayclobes]

Hey ladies! my first cycle on injectibles w/o the trigger shot..and wouldn't you know it....i'm pregnant! i've been testing with wonfo's since 8dpo and only been getting darker faint + tests! i got frer's..and that has been faint too! ahhhhh! i'm due on valentine's day!

 

[wookie130]

Ayclobes...HUGE CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!! My first baby (now an angel) was due on Valentine's Day! If I'm pregnant this cycle, baby #3 would be due February 16th! If you've been getting + hpts since 8 dpo, I'd say you have a very early implanter on your hands, which is awesome, and ideal in most cases!

Good for you!!!!!!!!! Yay!

 

[ayclobes]

at 8dpo, they were super faint, been getting darker since! i didnt test with a frer until my line on the wondfo was getting stronger!

 

[patiently]

Ayclobes congrats hun!! im so excited for you. Valentines day is such a wonderful due date! wishing you a h&h 9 months hun.

Wookie hope you are also pregnant this cycle. I think June is going to be very rewarding in the BFP department! Good luck and to you

Soop hope you enjoy yourself today, the sun is out so much better setting than yesterday! Hope all your fun bd sessions have paid off and your relaxed attitude will give you your bfp this cycle.

AFM still got sore bbs and cramping so if i o'd when ff said then i'd be 6dpo only 8 days to go until AF whoop! Im so nervous to try again and i put so much hope into getting pregnant right away again im scared that i will be disappointed. Hopefully not. Wishing all those in the tww GL and hope in a few days time you will all get sticky bfp. xx

 

[patiently]

Just noticed that AF will arrive on my ttc start date! talk about coincidence!

 

[lexi374]

Ayclobes big congrats hun!

Woohooo lets hope you are the first of many this month!

I hope everyone is having a nice weekend, at least its a bit brighter today, what a disgusting day yesterday was, but i guess thats good old blighty for ya!

Ive just been chilling, nothing exciting. Ordered a doppler off ebay even though dh thinks it will just cause more stress! x

 

[Emmediva]

Lady, yay for time off!!! So jealous of you! Glad you had a good time with your hub.

Sooper, rooting for you hon!!

Patiently, you still have a chance this cycle if you're only 6dpo, sending lots of positive thoughts your way.

Ayclobes, yay!!! Congrats! Lots of sticky baby to you!!

Lexi, happy 10weeks!!! Two more weeks till you are at the second trimester!! Yay! I can understand why your OH would think it would be stressful, but on the other side... the Doppler may give you more peace of mind, just hearing your lil ones heartbeat will be so reassuring!

hi to everyone else.

AFM, all's been ok, crossing my fingers it continues going ok. I told my mom on Saturday, she is so happy!! Haven't told anyone else, think I'll wait till I'm closer to the second trimester, fingers tightly crossed.

 

[Ladyfog]

Big congrats Ayc - really hope this is a sticky baby for you

Lexi, I didn't get a doppler as I was worried that if I couldn't find a heartbeat it would cause me more stress than reassurance - but that's just me! NSN has used one though so you could ask for her advice about how she found it - I think it helped her more than worried her overall

Emme, so glad you told your mum Emme - I told my mum, dad and sister at about 6 weeks, but didn't really tell anyone else until later. You'll know when it feels right to tell people and there's no hurry hun

Patiently - good lucl this month, but you can start TTC properly next month so even if it's not you're month this month it cold be next time!

Good luck and lots of sticky to everyone else!!

AFM, had a busy weekend sorting out the garden - it's been hard work and I keep forgetting that I'm having a baby in about 4 weeks so have probably done a bit too much but I'm not very good at keeping still! It's looking so smart now and we just need to sow some grass seed tomorrow - I can't wait to be out there this summer will my little lady in her pram

 

[ayclobes]

Thanks ladies! i feel good about this one! my tests have gotten darker each day. I started testing on 6/1 and they've gotten much darker. I get my betas done tomorrow!

 

[Madeline]

hi ladies

i had my first mc 4 weeks ago, i was 5.5wks. Sorry to step in this way but I was wondering if you could give me some advice from your experiences. When I had the mc was told it would be like a heavy period. The first night of the mc was painful and the bleeding went on for 7 days but was not what I would consider heavy at all. However this month I am day 4 and the bleeding is definitely heavy and still going. Is it normal for the the cycle following a mc to be heavy?

thanks in advance, sorry for your losses and I really hope you will all succeed soon xxxxx

Madeline xxx

 

[thurl30]

everyone

I hope everyone is enjoying the bank holiday weekend

Hi Madeline, so sorry to hear about your loss, I did have a fairly heavy period after my last miscarriage, then I went for 60 days without a period, so I'm probably not a great example, however I think it is pretty normal to have a heavier period than normal after a mc, I have heard of some people bleeding for 10 days. If you're concerned about it though speak to your GP and they will check that everything is ok, welcome to the group, it's a good supportive place to be when you're going through this xx

Soop how's you doing? xx

Patiently not long now until you start TTC again I know how you feel about pinning hopes, when I started TTC for the first time after my break in Feb I put all my hope in to getting pregnant straight away again, and it hasn't happened yet, I did feel really disappointed over the last few weeks, but I do feel much better now. All I can say is try not to put too much pressure on yourself, I feel better this cycle because I'm not testing with any OPK's, or temping or anything and I’m having a what will be will be relax cycle, wishing you lots of luck xx

Ayclobes – Congratulations, that is lovely news, fingers crossed this is your sticky one xx

Lady not long for you now, so exciting xx

to everyone I have missed xx

Afm, I'm on CD17 and last night and this morning I have had some spotting, it's not much really but I don't want to go to the loo again because I hate seeing it, I don't usually spot half way through my cycle, has anyone else had this? Is it normal? I tried googling it but just got a load of scares you know what the internet can be like xx

 

[Madeline]

hi Thurl30 thks so much I feel relieved to know that its normal. Thks I would luv to join the group. BTW d u think the spotting could be implantation bleeding?

Good luck to everyone this month, I have my fingers crossed for us all. I am CD4 and hoping this is the month.

Madeline xxx

 

[patiently]

Welcome madeline, i am so sorry for your loss. i remember that my first period after my mc was very heavy and lasted about 9 days too...so think its normal, but like thurl said if you're concerned speak to your gp. Also if you have to change your pad more than once in an hour i'd say see your gp too. I hope that the bleeding stops soon and isnt too stressful for you. GL hun hope you have a sticky bfp soon.

Thurl im loving your relaxed approach, i think this is so helpful when ttc. I know with myself its always been the times where i give up and think i'll just see what happens that we get our bfp. So hope this will be your cycle. GL hun to you. I dont know about mid cycle spotting hun so cant really help there but i hope someone else on here can give you more information.

Ayclobes good luck with your betas today hun, seems like the lines are getting darker which can only be a positive thing right? GL and sticky dust to you

Emme yay for telling your mum, not you have more support and glad to see all is ok. xxx

Lady not too long to go. Woman you should be resting!!! lol...but its ok im sure you just want to prepare yourself best as you can for your little lady. How are you feeling about the delivery?

Lexi i think the doppler will give you reassurance so think its a good thing. Your nearly in 2nd trimester its gone so quickly yay!!!

AFM ended up in a&e again yesterday! huff...had the most intense cramping and was doubled over, i was vomitting sorry tmi, and fainted twice too. As soon as i got to the hospital after half an hour, all the pain ceased and it was like it never happened. I dont know what happened, but now im so worried, i was scared that i was having another ectopic because of the accident we had when the condom broke, etc. Im just taking it easy today and hopefully it was just pre AF cramps though im not bleeding or anything. Has anyone had extreme cramping at 7 dpo?? any insight will be helpful. Thanks

 

[thurl30]

Hi Madeline, it's good your cycle has started so soon aswell, this is positive I have heard you are much more fertile in the first cycle straight after a mc so good luck to you xx I don't think it is implantation bleeding because I would think it's too early, I'm on CD18 not 17 I got it wrong, but still too early I think, I did read some info online about ovulation bleeding though, I don't know it's just really unusual for me, will have to wait and see I guess xx

Patiently I'm sorry to hear what happened to you, please take it easy you have been through so much I do get alot of severe cramping throughout my cycle, I can't say whether it's 7dpo because I never know when I ovulate, but sometimes it is really bad and makes me feel sick although I never actually am sick, can't hormones make you feel sick? If your body is preparing for AF then maybe it has something to do with hormones, sorry I can't really help xx