A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[susywoosy]

Hi ladies, i havent read the whole thread as there are a lot of posts but just wanted to say that i was in this section about 18 months ago and despairing at the thought i might never have a child and so desperately wanting a family with dh.

After 2 m/c's at 7 and 10 weeks, i had almost given up hope. we tried one more time and it was 3rd time lucky. as u can c from my profile pic, i have a beautiful little girl. dont give up hope... it will happen, particularly if like me, tests showed no underlying issues. unfortunately it was just bad luck twice. gl all. i have my fingers crossed for u all xxx

 

[patiently]

wow! SUSYWOOSY thank you so much for your lovely encouraging words. You are proof that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Thanks for taking the time to come and give us all hope. I hope that one day we can all revisit here with our pictures of our babies and give other women the same encouragement that you have given us. Thanks again and your baby is gorgeous congratulations to you hun. Enjoy motherhood! xxx

 

[Madeline]

hi thurl, thks thats good news I hope I am more fertile this month so fertile that we all get a BFP Yeh it could b ovulation spotting I have read about that. Fingers crossed xx

thks patiently I definitely feel more relaxed about it now I am so glad i found this thread. If things don't calm down in the next couple of days I will definitely get to my GP to make sure everything is ok. good luck this month xx

hi suzywoosy Rebekah is beautiful xxx

good luck to everyone this month xx

Madeline xxx

 

[Nicki123]

Hi ladies, have been offline for a while, so much to catch up on. DH and I decided last Thursday to get away for the Bank Holiday weekend with some friends. It was such a good idea, we had a brilliant time, ate and drank too much but who cares! A little indulgence every now and then is good for the soul I reckon I'm already 8dpo, the last week flew by. Hoping this will be our month.

Patiently, hope you're doing ok... Was worried when I read your post. Any more of a clue what it was that made you so I'll? Take it easy for a while. Less than a week for you

Ayclobes congrats on the bfp! The start of a lucky June on this thread I hope. Fx for Soop, Thurl and everyone else x

Madeleine so sorry for your loss, hope your body is getting back to normal. I had erpcs after each mc so my AF was pretty normal each time so I can't really offer any advice. Sounds like some of the other ladies have had similar experiences though.

Lady, Lexi and Emme, hope you are all doing well with your beans and bumps

I'm sure I've missed some people but so much to catch up on... So hi to everyone else!x

 

[Neversaynever]

Man I'm so behind on threads sorry girlies

Emma...fantastic news

Aclyboes...congrats and sticky

Lexi...almost scan time...how's the doppler?

Lady...slow down woman!

Patiently...one way or another you'll get your answers soon enough chick

Madeleine...sorry for your loss...I know you from the 35+ ttc#1 thread. Just a little heads up...the girls in here have had two or more losses. You're MORE than welcome to stay and the chances are your next pregnancy will be fine..80% of pregnancies after a first loss are successful so keep going at it...we have all been there as the ladies are very supportive in here

Thurl...ovulation spotting sounds possible at that point...hoping you catch that egg

Soop...hope you got loads of rudies in

Bum...I've forgotten who else I was supposed to be mentioning

All ok with me...getting shit scared but not complaining in the slightest

XxX

 

[ayclobes]

Thank you! my tests seem to be getting darker, so that is very good! waiting on beta results today..ahhhhh

 

[Emmediva]

Lady, you are one busy bee, I bet you are in the nesting phase. Your lil baby is going to be so spoiled! I can already tell so cute!!

Ayclobes, any word on your betas?

Madeline, so sorry about your loss. My period after my miscarriage was not too heavy, it only lasted 4 full days with one day of spotting, after my chemical it lasted 3 full days with one day of spotting. Everyone is different. Good luck on this cycle, you are more fertile in the 3 months following a miscarriage.

Thurl, no idea about the spotting hun, as someone else said could it be related to ov?

Patiently, how are you feeling hun? Hope all is ok.

Susy, thank you for your encouragement. It is so good to see a happy ending is possible. Congratulations on your bundle of joy, she is adorable.

Nicki, 8dpo ooh good luck!!! When are you planning to test? Sending you lots of baby

NSN, you are getting so close to havin your baby!! Almost 3/4 of the way there! So exciting! Just picture your baby in your arms when ever you get scared

AFM, had a frightening experience yesterday, went to the restroom and had some spotting, I wouldn't hve noticed had I not been scrutinizing the toilet tissue, but it was there a hint of pink... Sigh... It was when I was trying to have a bowel movement so attributing it to that since my cervix is very fragile (I bleed with pap smears) but still scary experience. I haven't had anymore today thank God but still keeping my guard up. I'm taking Prometrium in the morning and at night just in case... Can't wait till July gets here, I need to know all is ok.

 

[BeachChica]

Hi girls!!! Well I am back from my vacation. I had an amazing time, but I did miss catching up up with you girls!!!! So its going to take me a while to catch up on the thread, did anyone get any BFP's since I left Mid-May??? Any births???

AFM - no European BFP for me The damn witch showed up a couple days ago so moving on to June now with everything crossed.

 

[Sooperhans]

Hi Emme! Pleased it's all going ok still and I bet your mum is so excited! I think when you've had losses then you need the extra support and so telling people before the 12 week point, esp family, can be beneficial. I'm sorry you've had spotting Hopefully as it was so light that it was just some irritation and nothing sinister

Lady, so exciting for you and not long to go! Make sure you start resting up a bit more and take care of yourself before the little lady arrives...really excited for you

Lexi, have you told many people about your pg out of interest? As you haven't been feeling well have you had trouble hiding it? Glad that you've been chilling hun and so close to 12 weeks! I agree, that's gone quickly, for us anyway! Xx I understand you getting the Doppler, as long as you don't overuse it and worry yourself. But you are sensible, I'm sure you will be fine with it

Patiently, I hope AF arrives and that you get ttc'ing very very soon. I hope you fall straight away, but just in case it's not immediately, at least you will be working towards your goal rather than waiting. Hopefully not too long for you though How are you feeling after your hospital trip?? Sounds nasty, hope you are better now *xx

Ayclobes that's great! Great news and I hope it's the start of many bfps this month! When will you get your beta results?

Hey Madeline and I'm sorry for your loss and that it's so recent for you, I hope you are bearing up ok Not long ago I had my 3rd AF following my last mc and it was quite weird, heavy and then not with a large clot. So what I'm saying is hopefully it's your body sorting itself out still, hopefully your balance will be restored and you will be closer to your next bfp as a result of it xx

Thurl how are you? Ov spotting does sound unusual...hopefully it's a good sign though and your body is getting extra ready for a June bfp?!

Nicki - good for you for getting away and enjoying yourself, I've been indulging too and enjoying it (kitchen incident, ahem lol). I wish you lots of luck for your June ttc'ing, come on June for all the ttc'ers!!!! Xx

Hi Never, I hope you aren't too scared, it's all going to be fine, you are so far along now, so excited for you! Take each day as it comes

Afm...lots of bd'ing taking place! Taking the relaxed approach so not temping but noting the cm, there's been lots more ewcm than last month. And my bbs are super tender already, as well as nausea...so my body's gearing up for something! Currently cd17 and said to dh I have a good feeling about this month, to which he said "oh god, don't go getting your hopes up"...shame we have to think like this all the time. I want my hunch to be correct this time please!! Wouldn't it be great to have conceived over jubilee weekend...we'll see xxx

 

[Neversaynever]

Welcome back Beach and drat to bringing the hag back with you

Emma...opening your bowels and having your pap yesterday will have irritated it..keep being positive chick

Madeleine...was meant to have said about cycles...my first AF after first loss (had ERPC) I spotted for 2 days and had 1 heavy day then spotted for 2 days. Same happened next AF...third AF I was in agony and it was heavy for 5 days solid, I would almost have thought it was a chemical it was that bad

everyone else

XxX

 

[Sooperhans]

Beach!!! Welcome back!!!! Missed you! Where was your fave place? I hope you had an amazing time but sorry about your AF arriving...come join the June ttc bunch!! You know about Lexi's bfp don't you? And then there's Emme and recently Ayclobes....more please!

 

[ayclobes]

I just made a collage of the test i've been taking since 6/2! ahhh! i'll put the link, and you guys can choose if you want to see it or not. https://i50.tinypic.com/2nswg39.jpg

 

[Sooperhans]

Ayclobes, looking good! I love seeing bfps

Soosywoosy, thank you for coming back with your news and many congratulations!!! Your lo looks gorgeous...always good to hear a success story xxx

 

[ayclobes]

Yes, i love seeing them too! my dh was wondering if my bfps were bfps b/c he thought i had gotten evaps or something before w/those tests but i never had! if i was not pregnant and i used them i got negs..thats how i knew this was true! yesss, so excited and it's been 6mo since we lost peanut :/ My u/s is july 2! ahhh!

 

[Nicki123]

Oh dear I said 8dpo earlier and I TOTALLY meant cd8. Doh! My head was still on holiday. Anyway cd8 has come around quickly. So no testing on the horizon but lots of

Welcome back Beach!! X

 

[thurl30]

Susywoosy thanks for posting, it’s so encouraging to hear stories like yours, and congratulations to you your little baby girl looks gorgeous xx

Nicki it’s good to hear you had a fab time away, I often find the last minute plans turn out to be the best ones, fingers crossed for you this month xx

Never good to hear all is going well for you, no much longer to go now xx

Ayclobes I had a look at your tests, it’s looking good hun fingers crossed for you xx

Emme I reckon you have just had a bit too much irritation in that area, just take a day at a time and try and keep calm, I have everything crossed that this one is your sticky one xx

Beach welcome back, how was your trip? Sorry to hear you brought the witch back with you though, it’s the start of a brand new cycle though so will keep my fingers crossed for you xx

Soop I really do have everything crossed for you this month, I said that same thing to my dh this month and he just ignored me so atleast yours responded! Good to hear you are relaxed about it, I really do think it makes a difference, sending lots of luck your way xx

to everyone I have missed

Afm I’m not too happy with my body to be honest, I’m technically on CD19 today, but it looks like I am unexpectedly on CD1!! Spotting got heavier and I have lots of cramps, it’s not like a normal af but it’s not far off it, and I guess after an 18 day cycle it probably isn’t going to be like a normal one, I don’t know what’s going on! I have ordered a pizza hut which is on it’s way, going to eat my sorrows away xx

 

[BeachChica]

Sooper - Barcelona was my fave for sure and of my cruise ports I would have to say Dubrovnik (Croatia) was my fave. It was all such an amazing trip and for the first time ever on vacation I actually lost track of time!!! You know you've had a great vacation when that happens!!! I didn't even watch the news while I was away! Yes I will join you now for June BFPs... come on June!!!! Glad you are relaxing this month and lots of CM is good!!!!

Thanks for the BFP's update!

I knew about Lexi before I left, so glad everything is going well, almost 12 weeks!!!!

Congrats to Emme and Ayclobes - so glad you girls finally got your BFPs!!!!

NSN and Lady - you're almost there!!!!!

How's everyone else doing?

 

[wookie130]

I'm sure Barcelona is gorgeous! Welcome back, Beach!

 

[Sooperhans]

Nicki, bless you it is all bloody confusing and I take that to show you really are relaxed, since you aren't obsessing about days. Keep the bd'ing up and I hope you catch your egg! Xx

Thurl, sorry for your weird cycle and I hope it all leads to a normal one where you can catch the egg too. Pizza sounds like a v good idea, I had a Pizza Express for lunch yday, mmmmmmm xx And yes, think our dhs must be getting immune to our hunches, although wouldn't it be lovely if it was all new and lovely still, sigh PALs does lead to worry though doesn't it. Still, we will all be on cloud 9 when we get our babies like Suzywoosy!!

Wookie, how are you?

Beach sounds like you had a fab time. So much to see in Barcalona and Croatia has always been on my list. Lots of luck for you this month

 

[Ladyfog]

Welcome Madeline - sorry for your loss. My losses were both a bit later than yours, but I would say that the earlier one was less painful and I bled much less. I guess it was more like a very heavy period in the end as although is MC'd at about 10 weeks, baby was only about 6weeks and I don't think the placenta grew that time so there was less to come out. Every miscarriage will be different, but if you're worried, speak to your GP or the hospital and you could have a scan. I hope you're doing OK

Good to see those lines getting darket Acy - how did the betas go?

Welcome back Beach! so glad you had a lovely time away and good luck for this month too

Thurl - sorry AF is being an unpredictable bitch

Good luck to everyone else trying for those June BFPs! Lots of sticky coming your way.

Emme, glad you seem less freaked out by the spotting this time, but it must be a scary thing to see! I'm sure everything is going great with your little bean I've only spotted once during my pregnancy and that was enough (a bit too much holiday BDing was my problem!!)

Hi everyone else - hope you're weeks are going well .

I'm having a busy week at work, trying to get everything done and handed over before my last day next Thurs. I can't believe I've got a week to go until I can have a rest - I'm really looking forward to it now! At the end of this week, in theory I'm full term and my little lady could turn up at any time. I have a MW appt this morning so I'll find out whether she's heading towards being engaged at all - I'm not sure so it'll be interesting to see what she says.