A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[lexi374]

Good luck soop! x

 

[Nicki123]

Thanks everyone.

Beach I had the tissue from my 3rd mc tested and it was normal. If this one does go wrong I want to get the tissue tested again. I was looking over my notes yesterday and I got a heartbeat in two of the previous pgs but on both occasions the baby was measuring quite a bit smaller than expected. I just can't believe there is no explanation if the baby is chromosomally normal.

Re the heartbeat, I guess they just couldn't tell a heartbeat because it wasn't clear enough on an abdominal scan. My own fault I guess for refusing an internal scan but I had no idea it would cause so many problems. Lesson learned, must get over my fear of internal scans.

I have to be honest and say I'm feeling very pessimistic about it all. DH is trying to keep positive for both of us. I can't, it's a defence mechanism I suppose, to avoid me being too disappointed if it does end badly. I just hope we get through the holiday. We are away with my friends and all their babies...I think one of them is pregnant too...oh joy.

Soop - still crossing my fingers for a bfp for you.

I prob won't log on again now til I'm back, have so much to do before we go and our flight is v early in the morning, so have a good week everyone x

 

[wookie130]

Nicki, I really feel for you and what you're experiencing. Best of luck.

 

[Nicki123]

Thanks wookie. Just checking in again to say I'm feeling much brighter now. Had a chat with some of the girls I'm going on holiday with and I'm looking forward to it now. One of the girls is going to teach me to crochet while we're away (I was inspired by coco!) so that will be great for keeping me occupied. They also pointed out that Its not going to be a mega boozy holiday cus they are up at all hours with their kids so I wont feel too left out on that front.

Thanks for all your support ladies, whatever happens I will be fine off to pack now, back in a week x

 

[BeachChica]

Nicki- with these types of things we can't change the outcome so just have a fabulous time on vacation and try to get your mind off of things while you're away. Did you have any more spotting today?

Soop- I have everything crossed for you!! (B&B needs a smilie like that!!!)

 

[Sooperhans]

Thanks Beach!! I have a double pack of tests....just waiting a little bit to take them. No AF still, CD35! Usually 32 day cycle..........

Oh I remember you asked for holiday pics - put a couple in here

 

[Sooperhans]

Oh and Lexi, how are you getting on? Hope you are feeling well. Any bumpy pics?

Wookie, same for you - hoping you are well!

 

[BeachChica]

Soop- Fabulous vacation pics!!! I love seeing mountains and water together!!! When are you testing next?

 

[ayclobes]

Nicki - with this baby--our lil man, i spotted for 1 1/2 - 2wks at 6wks and my MW had me come in to check my HcG and it kept going up..then at 7w, i went in to check the hb and it was great! I hope things work out for the best for you!!

On another note, we have narrowed it down to 2 names for lil man--- Preston or Drew, dh isnt sure about Parker b/c its so popular right now!

 

[wookie130]

Soop, I am doing well, thanks! I'll be 16 weeks along tomorrow, and my next appointment is this upcoming Wednesday. Having that fetal doppler to reassure my DH and I has been such a blessing! If all continues to go well, we'll find out the gender on November 1st.

 

[ayclobes]

Soop, I am doing well, thanks! I'll be 16 weeks along tomorrow, and my next appointment is this upcoming Wednesday. Having that fetal doppler to reassure my DH and I has been such a blessing! If all continues to go well, we'll find out the gender on November 1st.

16 weeks already! wow! it seems to be flying by for you! i'm a little over 4wks ahead of you

 

[wookie130]

It IS flying! Well...it wasn't, until after I hit the 12 week mark. After the first tri wraps up, the weeks just start ticking away!

 

[Sooperhans]

That's great it's going quickly for you Wookie :thumbsup:

Sigh.....ok well another bfn this morning...still no af. I don't know what's going on this month! Will be cd37 tomo.....don't know what to do about taking the progesterone. Usually it doesnt stop af, so may give it a few more days x

 

[lexi374]

Soop i was told it could/would delay AF.... although i think if you are going to bleed you prob still will. Do you know how many dpo you are? x

 

[Sooperhans]

I've always bled - when af was due the prog wouldn't stop it. 16dpo today x

 

[ayclobes]

Soop - sounds like you're having an extra long cycle to me..do you feel like you are pregnant? i know its hard to answer the question. When we conceived this lil man, i knew at 4-6dpo w/o taking tests and that was b/c i NEVER had symptoms af was going to show...and all of a sudden i started getting symptoms of being pregnant. i'd still continue the progesterone, and if you're gonna bleed...you will.

 

[Sooperhans]

Ayc not 100% about either way....sore boobs, dizzy, cold symptoms, bit nauseas, breathless, and last Mon I got a small amount of pink....don't feel like I'm about to come on af at all.....v confused today x

 

[thurl30]

Hi everyone :wave:

I haven't been around for a bit and now I have loads to catch up on Just wanted to quickly pop by and say hello, will try and catch up soon although I can't stick around tonight.

Soop fingers crossed this turns out to be your bfp x

 

[Sooperhans]

Thanks Thurl - who knows! Hope you are well and speak soon xx

 

[Sooperhans]

Oh and also been getting tweaking like pain, esp on my left side. On and off x