A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[cupcake1981]

Sooop new cycle, new start! Really hope you get the bfp this month!!!

Sath hope you ovulate soon.

Have either of you used preseed b4? I used it for my 2nd bfp and got it first month post mc. Coincidence or maybe extra fertile after mc but lots of the ladies on another thread I am on regularly used it for the first time in their bfp cycle - has to be worth a try!! x

 

[Sooperhans]

Thanks cupcake xx fx'd for you too. Yes, I've got some pre seed, will use it again this cycle. Hope the slippery stuff proves lucky!

 

[cupcake1981]

Lol I'm in waiting for AF limbo for at least the next 3 weeks sadly no ttc for me.....no naughties at all in fact

 

[Sooperhans]

I hate the wait I hope it all settles down and you can go for it again v soon x

 

[cupcake1981]

Yeah it sucks, I always think you can't move on and feel normal til after that first (awful) AF! It's our first wedding anniversary 4th Dec, really hope I don't have it that week we want to go away to a nice hotel! x

 

[wookie130]

My last two BFP's were preseed/Clomid combos. Apparently it worked like a charm! LOL!

 

[cupcake1981]

I know a girl on a thread who took Clomid last cycle (she ovulates, took it to produce better eggs I believe), scan today showed triplets!

We're you prescribed clomid wookie? Think I might get some!!!

 

[wookie130]

Cupcake, I was prescribed Clomid, but I was not ovulating very well, and my progesterone was low. I was lucky that the lowest dose of Clomid seemed to work for me, without ever having to increase it. I do NOT recommend taking Clomid unless you have a diagnosed reason to do so...

 

[Nicki123]

Hi cupcake, I've heard lots about pressed but have never used it, maybe it's worth a whirl I'm still in pre-AF limbo too, did a pg test on monday which was still +, really hoping it returns to negative soon then it's the wait for AF.

Hey beach, hope you're feeling up o ttc this month but totally understandable if you need another month off.

Happy weekend ladies. X

 

[cupcake1981]

Hey nicki

I'm not brave enough to take a hpt, if it's still pos I'll be upset cos I know there's no baby there anymore and if it's neg that will upset me to....im just waiting this AF out as I'm not tracking ovulation or TTC this month anyway. Hope you're goes neg soon hun. Def get some preseed Hun, just don't use too much (like a tiny bit, less than the instructions say!).

Wookie I'm not really gonna take it although it's readily available in the Internet!!! My psychic told me years ago that I would have twins, I'll wait and see if I get them on my own

X

 

[wookie130]

I would never recommend that anyone order any prescription medication from over the internet...it's not safe, and the risks are high.

I'll pray that you get your twins soon!

 

[Neversaynever]

everyone

Sorry I haven't been around to support you...I just don't get a chance to post these days and only manage to update my own journal once a week or so

Welcome to the new ladies...sorry you found yourself here but as you can see...there are a few of us that finally got out rainbows..are cooking rainbows and still support when possible

Lots of love and

XxX

 

[Nicki123]

Hey cupcake - yeah taking pg tests after a mc is hard isn't it. But I got stung once not tracking a pg test back to neg and thinking I was pg again, but it was actually still + from the pg before. That was a real confusing mess! So now I'm always extra careful to watch that test go back to negative. Here's hoping AF arrives soon for both of us x

Will follow your advice re preseed x

 

[Nicki123]

Oh and hello NSN! Always so lovely to hear from the lady who started this whole thread off

 

[Neversaynever]

Was meant to say

Wookie...congrats on and naming her Hannah

Lexi...Emme...pink not long to go now

Lady...love to you and Elsa and have everything crossed for the op

Beach, Nicki, soop, thurl..

Also to the newbies too

Xxx

 

[cupcake1981]

Don't worry wookie I won't be taking it! I hardly take anything unless I really have to!

NSN lovely to see all you ladies with your rainbows now

Niki I got it on eBay, saved tracking it down in the shops x

 

[lexi374]

Hi ladies selfish post alert!!

Was gonna post a long message to everyone at the weekend and tell u about my scan tues, but had a text yest from my mum saying my dad has had a stroke and they had come to hospital via ambulance, and she didnt know whether to tell me or not!! And of course it wasnt our local hosp it was 1 20miles away!

I nearly had a stroke driving over there!

Was there til midnight yest because we had to come home and get his dialysis stuff and drive bk as they had no facilities there for it! Unbelievable.

Scan shows he had a bleed to the brain which has caused a stroke, think he might have had it during the night. Its affected his right side, his speech is not good and he is getting very cross and frustrated with us when we dont understand what he is saying, because he knows what hes trying to say and where he is etc but he cant get it out.

Its a waiting game now to see how he will recover, feel sorry for my poor mum she is under so much stress too. And im an emotional hormonal wreck too, trying not to cry about it cos i wont be able to stop!

Oh scan on tues showed happy hefty baby! Lol Already weighing around 4lb 10oz they say! About 70th percentile! Shes head down and placenta has moved enough to allow normal delivery. Didnt think after that id be seeing another hospital til xmas .......

I hope everyone else is having a better weekend than me xx

 

[wookie130]

Oh, Lexi. So sorry to hear this, but thank God he's alive...I hope he recovers soon, and can regain some normalcy.

Wonderful news on your little girl! Sounds like she'll be coming sooner than later!

 

[cupcake1981]

Lexi so sorry about your dad, I really hope he makes a full recovery in time to see his new granddaughter! Xx

 

[Sooperhans]

Lexi, hunny....shit I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. My FIL had a stroke 2 1/2 years ago, I'm sorry to say it's a slow road to recovery but it is so encouraging that your dad is even attempting to talk, I know it's very hard for him as it's not what he means to say but the fact he's trying is excellent. Did they thrombalise him do you know? It's a drug they give within the first few hours but if there was a bleed on the brain and they don't know exactly when he had it then perhaps not. I hope the scans show the bleed has stopped. Explain to him that if you break your arm you're looking at 6 weeks before it's better and although you can't see it, the brain will also take a while. But it's an amazing thing and does heal itself. Ask the hospital to arrange speech therapy and have a plan to keep seeing someone or a local group for when he leaves. It's the continuous and gradual help that will get him back on his feet.

One thing that was never explained to us and I wish someone had said was you can get stroke related epilepsy afterwards, so when it happened to my FIL, we were terrified when he had seizures some time afterwards. It is a small percentage but I wanted you to know.

He is in a good place and he will improve.....if you want any help at all then please give me a shout here or inbox me. I'm pleased your scan went well, please try not to worry too much xxxxxxx