A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[lexi374]

Hi girls

Ntat have posted in your journal but big congratulations on the birth of Hugo!

Beach yay! 12 weeks! Love the scan pic so pleased for you!

Hi to everyone else x

 

[mommylov]

Hi girls! Just popping in to say hi!

Crazy week for me this week. Turned 33 on the 17th (yikes!) hope its my lucky year!

Beach... 12 weeks woo hoo!!!!!!!!

Hope everyone is well!

 

[ttcmoon]

Hi Girls,

May I join?
I hope all of you are doing great Just wanted to say hi.
Anyone of you got diagnosed with elevated homocystiene levels?I am taking homocheck for the same.with PCOS,homocystiene,hypothyroid (under control) I am miscarriage prone but still keeping my fingers crossed.Just had my IUI 2 in this cycle and I will be testing on 23rd.Fx'ed for myself and everybody else.

 

[Bibliophile]

Sorry to see you here, Moon, but welcome. FX for your IUI!

Nothing here. BFN on Wednesday and huge temp drop this morning (even after my thermometer had an error and I had to retake it after being up for a few minutes) so just waiting for AF to show Saturday.

 

[ttcmoon]

Dear Bibliophile,Thanks for the warm welcome.I am sorry for your losses.From your ticker looks like you are on 13DPO and this BFN could be an early one.Please remember you are not out until AF shows her ugly face.
Is this a medicated cycle or natural one?FX'ed for you!

 

[Bibliophile]

It's natural. We've only been technically trying this time around since July. We were NTNP for a while, but I was coming off depo, so I wasn't having cycles and then we had to wait a few months for our own reasons. But I'm out for sure. With my others, I knew long before I could test- my early symptoms are really obvious. But it's ok, I'm not really in a hurry (most days).

 

[ttcmoon]

I am just depressed and this LTTC is consuming all my thoughts.We are trying since Feb this year after my blighted ovum and had 3 clomid cycles and some natural break cycles.
I just had my 2nd IUI this month but not so hopeful.I had 4 good follicles,good linin and hubby had OK type count.
Still as you said, I know my early symptoms, and they are missing in this cycle.No sore breasts,no frequent trips to washroom.These have been my earliest symptoms both the times.I just hope I were as innocent as my first pregnancy.The journey seems scary

Please keep us updated.

 

[Bibliophile]

The lost innocence sucks, doesn't it? For a long time, I kept hoping we'd have an "oops" so I didn't have to deal with all the waiting and stress that comes after you've had a loss. Luckily I was too responsible to let that happen, but it might have been easier in some ways.
Sorry this cycle is being rough on you.

 

[ttcmoon]

Bibilophile,True.Lost innocence really sucks.But once lost it is gone.We would be scared always,even with healthy pregnancy..and no oops for us.Not sure why God is being so cruel.I have seen people always nagging with morning sickness and complaining about sleep because of thier baby.And see here I am dying to get my first one.It really sucks.
I need to go to office in sometime.This cycle is hard.I just hope my all anticipations are wrong and I get a BFP.
What kind of M/C's you had previously?I can see you had 2.What do you do?

 

[BeachChica]

Hi Girls,

May I join?
I hope all of you are doing great Just wanted to say hi.
Anyone of you got diagnosed with elevated homocystiene levels?I am taking homocheck for the same.with PCOS,homocystiene,hypothyroid (under control) I am miscarriage prone but still keeping my fingers crossed.Just had my IUI 2 in this cycle and I will be testing on 23rd.Fx'ed for myself and everybody else.

Ttcmoon - welcome to the thread and so sorry for your losses. I have been diagnosed with high homecysteine levels. Although my RE doesn't believe this contributed to my 6 MCs I am taking Folgard 2.2 for it. Please feel free to let me know if you have any questions.

 

[Bibliophile]

Moon, I haven't done anything about them yet. I had a bunch of testing done after the first & they found nothing. Then I divorced my ex and so had a nearly 5 year break between those and now. We'll be doing further testing after another m/c or possibly in January. Just using OPKs and temping to track things but nothing otherwise.

 

[ttcmoon]

Hi Girls,

May I join?
I hope all of you are doing great Just wanted to say hi.
Anyone of you got diagnosed with elevated homocystiene levels?I am taking homocheck for the same.with PCOS,homocystiene,hypothyroid (under control) I am miscarriage prone but still keeping my fingers crossed.Just had my IUI 2 in this cycle and I will be testing on 23rd.Fx'ed for myself and everybody else.

Ttcmoon - welcome to the thread and so sorry for your losses. I have been diagnosed with high homecysteine levels. Although my RE doesn't believe this contributed to my 6 MCs I am taking Folgard 2.2 for it. Please feel free to let me know if you have any questions.

My RE believes the same too.Too glad to see you are baking your number 1 now I hope everything goes very well this time.Have you been taking this one during your last pregnancies as well?Or just started.Did folgard control your homocystiene levels?
I am so sorry you had to go through so much.My all wishes are with you

 

[monro84]

Beach-- congrats a wonderful!!! This is your rainbow

moon--sorry to find yourself here but you have a great group of ladies to offer support. My fist pregnancy was a Blighted ovum and I had a D&C and went on to have 3 more mc the found out I have a partial septate uterus had that fixed and had one more mc before I had my rainbow. I can happen. I think that in having all the mc I did not take him for granted and I believe eveything happens for a reason. God has his reasons for us going through what we go through whether it is to help out other ladies in our situation, for us to not take anything for granted, or to make us stornger. You will get your rainbow baby. Your right with the lost of innocence however I always had a feeling that it would take us a while to have a baby. However I thought it would take a while to get pregnant not that I could not keep the pregnancies. As hard as it is don't give up it will happen for all the ladies on here.

Brittney--kinda looks like an implantation dip fx for you

Nicki--fx for you for this cycle.

Mommy--did you do your IUI yet looks like O was yesterday maybe but maybe not ??

 

[Bibliophile]

Brittney--kinda looks like an implantation dip fx for you

Yesterday's dip? Or the one from earlier? Because I'm officially confused as of this morning! Lol. It went way back up today. But I was crazy PMS cranky last night, so I'm still pretty doubtful.

 

[mommylov]

Mommy--did you do your IUI yet looks like O was yesterday maybe but maybe not ??

Hey hun! No not yet We went in for a CD12 scan yesterday and I wasnt as far along adn my RE had hoped. He said that he thinks that I may be closer come this weekend so Im going in on Sunday morning for another scan to see where I am at. Depending on whats going on, I may get a trigger and then the next two days an IUI or if I O on my own (which I normally do) then just an IUI and no trigger.

 

[monro84]

brittney--yesterdays b/c it went below the cover line fx it is for you. do you know the longest you went after O before af showed?

Mommy--Can you dtd during a IUI would that hurt your chances or increase them? I always thought it would be so cool to know what overy I am Oing from and how may eggs I could release. GL and FX you catch the eggy.

 

[Bibliophile]

My cycles are 28 days & I've been having O on day 13 or 14. Never had a cycle longer than 28 unless I was pregnant or coming off a miscarriage. Pretty sure AF will show tomorrow, though. I can feel it.

 

[Nicki123]

Ooo interesting what Monro is saying about your chart Biblio... And no AF yet huh? I'm going to cross my fingers in case that helps.

Hi Monro! Lovely to see you!

Welcome ttcmoon. Ltttc is damn hard so sorry for your losses, I hope it happens for you VERY soon.

Hi Mommy - looking fwd to the folli scan on Sunday.

Happy weekend everyone.

 

[Bibliophile]

No AF but brown CM and the weird feeling I get that I *swear* is my lining breaking down. So as intriguing as that dip is.... It's not happening.

 

[Canada80]

Hi there. I am Kara and I have just suffered a miscarriage at 8 weeks in the past week. This is my 2nd mc in 7 years. I am 32-years-old and this miscarriage has really been physically and emotionally draining. I found out at my US that the baby was not progressing as should be and the heartbeat was not strong. They prescribed me ctyotec and I induced myself at home, went through so much pain, and I am still not in the clear. I had an US this morning and I may have tissue left or a blood clot. I am going through this alone as the father is not supportive. My greatest wish is to be a mother, but it is just not as easy as it seems. I did prove the fertility clinic in my city wrong as they told me I could not get pregnant naturally, but I did once I started acupuncture. Finding out I was pregnant was the most amazing feeling in the world. Now losing this baby as quickly as I have, has really put pain on my heart and I am too afraid to get pregnant again as I do not want to go through this mc experience again. I really want to move on and grieve, but all this medical intervention is not allowing me too
How long did it take for some of you to get past this stage?