A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Bibliophile]

Hi, Canada. I'm so sorry that you're here. Miscarriages are so rough. After my first, we tried again pretty quickly. I think after my second, even if other circumstances hadn't changed, I would have had to wait a long time before I was ready to try again. Having a father who isn't supportive is absolutely horrible- I really hope this changes as it really makes a big difference. I really think that's a good portion of what is giving me the courage to try again.

 

[ttcmoon]

Beach-- congrats a wonderful!!! This is your rainbow

moon--sorry to find yourself here but you have a great group of ladies to offer support. My fist pregnancy was a Blighted ovum and I had a D&C and went on to have 3 more mc the found out I have a partial septate uterus had that fixed and had one more mc before I had my rainbow. I can happen. I think that in having all the mc I did not take him for granted and I believe eveything happens for a reason. God has his reasons for us going through what we go through whether it is to help out other ladies in our situation, for us to not take anything for granted, or to make us stornger. You will get your rainbow baby. Your right with the lost of innocence however I always had a feeling that it would take us a while to have a baby. However I thought it would take a while to get pregnant not that I could not keep the pregnancies. As hard as it is don't give up it will happen for all the ladies on here.

Brittney--kinda looks like an implantation dip fx for you

Nicki--fx for you for this cycle.

Mommy--did you do your IUI yet looks like O was yesterday maybe but maybe not ??

Dear Monro.I loved your story.You were so encouraging.I sometimes feel down and low but after talking to you ladies I am feeling far better.

Brittney - FX'ed for you

 

[ttcmoon]

Hi there. I am Kara and I have just suffered a miscarriage at 8 weeks in the past week. This is my 2nd mc in 7 years. I am 32-years-old and this miscarriage has really been physically and emotionally draining. I found out at my US that the baby was not progressing as should be and the heartbeat was not strong. They prescribed me ctyotec and I induced myself at home, went through so much pain, and I am still not in the clear. I had an US this morning and I may have tissue left or a blood clot. I am going through this alone as the father is not supportive. My greatest wish is to be a mother, but it is just not as easy as it seems. I did prove the fertility clinic in my city wrong as they told me I could not get pregnant naturally, but I did once I started acupuncture. Finding out I was pregnant was the most amazing feeling in the world. Now losing this baby as quickly as I have, has really put pain on my heart and I am too afraid to get pregnant again as I do not want to go through this mc experience again. I really want to move on and grieve, but all this medical intervention is not allowing me too
How long did it take for some of you to get past this stage?

Welcome dear!I am sorry for your losses.MC is really devastating and heart breaking.I know when you mean pregnancy as most amazing feeling.I always thank my angels for giving me the chance to feel the beginning of motherhood.You are in pain but I am sure the time will pass soon.
Did you ask about medical intervention?Cytotec and Misoprostol.With my last pregnancy I went in medical management way and found it easier to cope.

 

[Nicki123]

Hi Canada. So sorry you're going through a tough time.
I've never had to go through quite what you're enduring, as 4 of my mcs ended in erpcs/D&Cs which I bounced back from quickly and 2 were chemicals so just like heavy periods about a week or so late. It sounds tough, I hope it's over for you quickly.
Sometimes I was keen to ttc again immediately, on 2 occasions I did have a break though for testing etc and I have to say the break did me good each time. You will know what's right for you but we 're here to listen.

 

[BeachChica]

Ttcmoon - I just started taking Folgard 2.2 probably starting on pregnancy #4 or right after. I was originally on higher amounts of regular folic acid but my body wasn't really absorbing it that well. My RE had been at a RMC conference and talked to some other doctors about my case and they mentioned the success they were having with Folgard 2.2 with women with RMC. Maybe you could do some online research about it. Are you seeing an RE?

Canada - welcome to the thread and so sorry for your losses. Sorry your other half is not supportive Losses are definitely devastating! We have all been through it and are here to listen and provide support.

 

[Sooperhans]

Hi there ladies! I'm really really sorry to have disappeared off for a bit....I had a manic phase at work (still is a bit but hopefully over the worst) and was driving in and didn't have any phone time to catch up (I normally train), I had a bit of anaemia drama where when I was first put on iron I had the worst tummy cramps and thought it was some horrible early labour, so freaked out quite a bit over that. Stupid docs/midwife could have given me some stomach easing syrupy stuff to take alongside but nobody did until I was in agony! Anyway, that's levelling out now, so that's good. FIL also had some seizures and we ended up doing hospital/family visiting for a little while, again all settled down now. It's been a bit endless!

Anyway, I finish work in 2 weeks, absolutely cannot wait! We have been busy getting all the DIY and house prep done, it all feels quite surreal. I'm just looking forward to some downtime and preparing mentally and also not feeling so tired!

Ntat, CONGRATULATIONS on the arrival of Hugo!! He is gorgeous and looks so healthy, I hope you are both doing really well.

Monro, also congratulations to you and the arrival of Mason!! Loving both these boy names, I hope you are doing well as we'll and it's so amazing to see happy results after the waiting and trying.

Lexi, that's amazing about your oopsie news...love it!!! How are you doing?

Beach, great news and congratulations on expecting a little girl with brilliant scan results!

Soooo much to catch up on, hope all the new joiners are well, so sorry for your losses and you're in the right place for support and advice xxx

Hi to Nicki, mommy, wookie, never (hope you are your Preggo journey is going really well), kmp any news? your edd of the 16th was my bday!) plus anyone I have forgotten. Lots of love xxxx

 

[wookie130]

Soop! Hey, are you remaining , or do you know the sex? Sorry to hear you've had so many things going on, but I'm glad to hear your pregnancy is fine, and that you're quickly nearing the end!

 

[Sooperhans]

Hey Wook! We are and really curious! Yeah all good, babe is a wriggler, which is good as he/she say hi quite often Just niggles, my b12 is low as well as iron and my hip/back is sore and I'm booked in for physio. Can't wait to meet the lil one!! Still worry but all the signs are good

How are you and how's wee Hannah? xxx

 

[Nicki123]

Lovely to hear from you Soop, yay for not long left at work. Thanks for popping in

 

[Sooperhans]

Thanks Nicki, how are you? X

 

[Nicki123]

I'm good thanks Soop ... Life is pretty cool overall, getting a bit weary of ttc now though tbc, will keep ploughing on a bit longer. DH is wonderful though, we've been having good chats about it tonight and adoption came up again. We'll see how it goes this year x

 

[Sooperhans]

Oh sweetie, yes see how it goes and I so hope it all pays off with a rainbow for you just around the corner. With all your losses you must be exhausted. I'm sorry you have been through it all, I think either through TTC or adoption, you will be a mummy in the hopefully not too distant future and you'll be fab xxx

 

[Nicki123]

I think either through TTC or adoption, you will be a mummy in the hopefully not too distant future and you'll be fab xxx

I am in no doubt about that too. It will happen one way or another and that is what keeps me going! Thanks Soop x

 

[Sooperhans]

Xxxx

 

[wookie130]

Hey Wook! We are and really curious! Yeah all good, babe is a wriggler, which is good as he/she say hi quite often Just niggles, my b12 is low as well as iron and my hip/back is sore and I'm booked in for physio. Can't wait to meet the lil one!! Still worry but all the signs are good

How are you and how's wee Hannah? xxx

We are great! Hannah is now 6 months old, and doing very well! We have started feeding her some solids in the past few weeks, and it's been a hit.

I remember feeling that anxiety mixed with excitement toward the end of pregnancy. You just want to KNOW that everything is okay, and want to meet that little one you've wanted for so long!

 

[BeachChica]

Soop - it's so great to hear from you! Been wondering how you've been coming along with your pregnancy. Sorry you have been having a rough time, hope things settle down a bit for you now. Yeah for almost being done with work!!!

 

[Sooperhans]

Wow, Hannah on solids, crazy how time passes! Sounds like lots of fun, does she still have the many facial expressions? She is so cute. I agree with everything you said, def a bit of anxiety and plenty of excitement. I can't wait to meet the little he or she. We have names lined up now

Lovely to hear from you Beach, how's it going? Do you have many symptoms like nausea or tiredness? I hope you are feeling good after your scan. Yes, it'll just be good to wind down a bit now, once work is done, before the hectic times start!

 

[ttcmoon]

I'm good thanks Soop ... Life is pretty cool overall, getting a bit weary of ttc now though tbc, will keep ploughing on a bit longer. DH is wonderful though, we've been having good chats about it tonight and adoption came up again. We'll see how it goes this year x

Adoption is really a great option.Even we are thinking of adopting a sweet girl.But too many people are waiting in queue, the social worker told us it wont be before 2yrs.So we are planning to TTC for next 2 yrs till we get our baby.
I am so sorry dear you had to go through so many losses.But it is great to know that you and your DH are facing it together.You get your baby through adoption or thorugh ttc at the end you are going to be a mom.

 

[ttcmoon]

Ttcmoon - I just started taking Folgard 2.2 probably starting on pregnancy #4 or right after. I was originally on higher amounts of regular folic acid but my body wasn't really absorbing it that well. My RE had been at a RMC conference and talked to some other doctors about my case and they mentioned the success they were having with Folgard 2.2 with women with RMC. Maybe you could do some online research about it. Are you seeing an RE?

Canada - welcome to the thread and so sorry for your losses. Sorry your other half is not supportive Losses are definitely devastating! We have all been through it and are here to listen and provide support.

Thanks dear for sharing your experience,I would definitely ask my doctor about folgard.Currently I am taking one medicine called homocheck which is supposed to control homocysteine.
Here we do not have the concept of RE.But the one I am showing is an infertility consultant.And the clinic has good reputation.They do not specialise on RMC though.Not sure where I can find a RMC clinic in India

 

[BeachChica]

Soop - yes lots of tiredness and nausea. The nausea has eased some but I still don't feel great. Waiting for that 2nd tri energy I hear about to kick in!

Ttcmoon - it's good that you are at least seeing a specialist! Where are in India? I have some friends in Mumbai

Well I broke down the other day and bought an Angel Sounds fetal monitor. Does anyone have one? My next scan is not until 18 weeks so hopefully it will help ease some stress and not cause more.