A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[NewToAllThis]

Wanted to share a couple of the professional pics of Hugo (some of you asked if I was sharing). Hope you don't mind.

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[poppygirl05]

Hi. I have had 3 mc. Currently 27dpo

 

[ttcmoon]

Welcome Espero.

Any news DS?

I am so sorry for you poppygirl.Its heart breaking to have losses.

 

[ttcmoon]

NewtoAll - Hugo is so very cute.I just loved him lots of love to him.

 

[DSemcho]

Wanted to share a couple of the professional pics of Hugo (some of you asked if I was sharing). Hope you don't mind.

Spoiler

https://i1073.photobucket.com/albums/w388/sarahhibbert/DSC_8429_zpsef955642.jpg

https://i1073.photobucket.com/albums/w388/sarahhibbert/DSC_8512_zps24f87d70.jpg

https://i1073.photobucket.com/albums/w388/sarahhibbert/DSC_8522_zpsaa301855.jpg

Aww he's adorable!!!

Welcome Espero.

Any news DS?

I am so sorry for you poppygirl.Its heart breaking to have losses.

No news yet. Found out FertilAid can make you miss your menses for the first 2 - 3 months. So I'm gonna go ahead and call it as out for October. I just wish I could get November started already. Fertility Appointment tomorrow morning (YAY! ). Maybe they can do something to get it started. My temp today was 98.2 so I'm sure I'm not preggers. =/ Bummer.

 

[Nicki123]

Hugo is beautiful New!

DS I've heard others complain that fertilaid really knocked their cycle out. Hope the fertility appointment goes well.

Sorry for your losses poppygirl

Afm, 8dpo, will start peeing on the opks soon...

 

[DSemcho]

Yeah. It's just a consult visit, how much it costs determines what route we take. We're either gonna start fertility treatment or we're gonna stop trying in Feb

 

[Bibliophile]

Sorry, DS.

Hi, Poppygirl. Sorry to see you here but welcome.

Hugo's so cute!

 

[ttcmoon]

I am sorry DS.

All the best Nicki for PAOS.We are eager to get the good news soon.

 

[DSemcho]

Well we had our appointment today. Unfortunately it didn't go to well... With all the tests, medications, the exam and the price of IVF it's about $4500 and DH said he doesn't want to spend that kinda money on a gamble. So... I guess we're gonna give it until January. But he did say he wants to look into adoption. Which is awesome cause a few months ago he didn't want to at all. I don't even know where to get started with adoption.

 

[Nicki123]

Hey DS. Sorry about the price tag, eek!

I've just started looking into adoption too I'm really excited about it. I am sure it works very differently in every country but here you tend to start by contacting the local authority and going to information meetings. It takes a while so def worth you doing your research and making enquiries now. In the uk they like you to stop ttc before you start going down the adoption route properly but it doesn't hurt to start getting in touch with people now. Good luck in getting your bfp soon and if not good luck with adoption x

 

[Bibliophile]

Sorry the appointment didn't go well. But I'm glad your DH is on board with other options now.

 

[DSemcho]

Hey DS. Sorry about the price tag, eek!

I've just started looking into adoption too I'm really excited about it. I am sure it works very differently in every country but here you tend to start by contacting the local authority and going to information meetings. It takes a while so def worth you doing your research and making enquiries now. In the uk they like you to stop ttc before you start going down the adoption route properly but it doesn't hurt to start getting in touch with people now. Good luck in getting your bfp soon and if not good luck with adoption x

I honestly don't know where to start. We're a military family stationed overseas so I really am clueless. We have no one local to call.

Sorry the appointment didn't go well. But I'm glad your DH is on board with other options now.

Thanks

 

[Bibliophile]

There's got to be some kind of military department that could at least give you an idea of who to talk to.

 

[DSemcho]

Idk. Honestly I think it's gonna be hard for us to adopt because we'll move every two to four years.

 

[Bibliophile]

Maybe. If you're not insistent on a baby, it might not take that long.

 

[DSemcho]

We're good with NB - 4/5. We'd prefer Caucasian non-disabled. The disabled part is mainly we don't know if we could handle that, and Caucasian is because if we get a NB we might not tell the child until it's older.

Waiting for AF. Having twinges and a good amount of lotiony cm. Temp was 98.3 today. AF 7 - 8 days late.

 

[marrymelodies]

Thanks for the post

 

[DSemcho]

Boobs starting to hurt. Come on AF or BFP!

 

[ttcmoon]

DS - We are also thinking of adoption.Here in India it takes almost 2yrs to get a baby.We too prefer an Indian baby as we are not going to tell her about adoption.I wanted a male child whereas hubby is more inclined towards girl child.But male children are not available for adoption in our centre.We need to go through Govt. procedures and take only from the state we reside in.We are staying in a rented home currently, but cases with better financial background and own home are given more preference.And now we got keys of our new apartment and planning to shift by Jan.So I will be submitting my appointment in Jan.
IVF is costly and we too are wondering whether we really wish to go for an IVF.The cost you mentioned is pretty reasonable.I heard from others costing it around 12K or so.

Nicki - Best of luck for your journey.

AFM - Hi Girls,

Just wanted to update you I tested today and got BFN.This time we did back to back IUI's but no success again.I wanted to get pregnant before my due date (my 2nd mc was in dec last yr).But seems like its just not happening.I wonder whether I would be able to concieve before Dec even!
Don't know why it is not happening.Recurrent MC's along with infertility just taking my life away.I can't help but to think over same matter and cry.Last month I had 4 follicles and 3 this time, linin of 1cm.Looks like its my fate
Sorry for the vent dears.A very selfish post.Thanks for being there when I need most.