A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[DSemcho]

Well the main reason we have to pay is because we live overseas, so even if we were to adopt from our country (the US) we'd have to pay for travel and all that jazz. My DH is very against not raising a child that isn't his own (he won't even consider donor sperm or anything!) but I think he'd go with adoption. Main problem though is most of the children you can see online that are adoptable in the US are handicap in some way, and I don't know if me and my husband can willingly handle it. I'm not saying I wouldn't if my child was born handicap, but knowing that going in might make it harder.

 

[Petzy]

Well I myself have an update, not a good report.

I guess my body tried to ovulate but failed to do so this month. My period showed full force tonight. I am very disappointed. I was hoping it would not til next week when I could get my Femara.

Looks like it won't be til December when I will be back on my Femara cycles.

Hannah I'm sorry AF has shown....nasty bitch isn't she? Well you are in good company because I don't expect to ovulate for another week or two. So hang out here and will wait it out together

 

[Petzy]

DS - I am so sorry to know about your blocked tubes.It is really hard to digest.I would also prefer IVF over surgery.In Surgery you get more cycles and can try yourself but in IVF they actually fertilize the egg in lab.So in my personal opinion IVF gives more hope.Also as your insurance is not going to pay you for any of them, you need to take care of the finances as well.
But tube surgery is better option for long term!Take a second opinion if possible.
Did your hubby got ready to go for IVF at last?

Hannah - I am so sorry dear

Nicki, Petzy- How are you doing?

AFM - I went for follicular scan today and seems like I stopped responding to fertility injections.My follies are not growing as much as they should.The lining is not good as well.I am doomed!I am only spending money and time without any result for long time now, really tired
My IUI will be on next week it seems.I really hope this one works.

I wish you the best of luck for your IUI next week xx

 

[Petzy]

Hannah - so sorry AF arrived early and messed up your cycle this month. I know that feeling of missing an opportunity, it sucks. Fx for December.

DS I hope you figure out the way fwd soon.

Ttcmoon, so sorry things aren't going to plan. Have they given you any reason why the injections might have stopped working? I will still keep my fx that the IUI works.

AFM I went to an adoption meeting on Thursday and it was great. DH is totally on board. We are going to stop ttc if nothing happens by January (our 4 year anniversary of ttc) and move onto adoption. I am so excited that next year, one way or another, I will finally make progress towards being a mum. Oh and also this means only 2 cycles more of baby sex!! I am so over BDing and can't wait to get back to normal

Wow Nicki that's very exciting! What a feeling it must be to know that either way it's going to happen for you soon! That's great news xx

 

[Petzy]

Well some good news today, the bleeding has stopped completely and no more spotting either! Today is one week from when I started miscarrying so I'm happy about that. I suppose my next step is to go back for blood in a few days and see how low my level is now. Really hoping that I can look forward to ovulating in the next week or two.

 

[HannahTTC]

DS - I am sorry to hear about all of this we to suffer blocked tubes only the right side which seems to be my best side. We are currently saving for IVF as well. Which is $ 15,000.

And that is with all medications. The mini IVF is like $6,000. We are saving for worse case the medication doesn't do what we want.

Adoption is pretty much same price as full IVF, unless you go through state and adopt through DFS. It is for free or low price like $300.00.

I haven't looked much into adoption yet.

NiKI - I wish you the best of luck on everything coming your way. I have heard about the whole stop TTC thing. But, I also know couples got their BFP the week of the adoption. What a suprise!

Maybe you will have a big suprise soon.

 

[HannahTTC]

Well some good news today, the bleeding has stopped completely and no more spotting either! Today is one week from when I started miscarrying so I'm happy about that. I suppose my next step is to go back for blood in a few days and see how low my level is now. Really hoping that I can look forward to ovulating in the next week or two.

Out of curiosity have you tested at home on HPT? That's wonderful your bleeding has stopped. Hopefully you ovulate real soon. If in a few weeks maybe we will be almost on the same cycle. And. Maybe get early Christmas gifts.

 

[Petzy]

Well some good news today, the bleeding has stopped completely and no more spotting either! Today is one week from when I started miscarrying so I'm happy about that. I suppose my next step is to go back for blood in a few days and see how low my level is now. Really hoping that I can look forward to ovulating in the next week or two.

Out of curiosity have you tested at home on HPT? That's wonderful your bleeding has stopped. Hopefully you ovulate real soon. If in a few weeks maybe we will be almost on the same cycle. And. Maybe get early Christmas gifts.

No I haven't. I have some cheapies at home but not sure if I want to waste them. I may wait until I know my number in a few days that may make more sense. Yes so glad it's over ... Can get back to myself and BDing for No reason other than I want to .... Yes we may be close in cycle days . Ohh a bfp before Xmas would be amazing. I may have only one chance, two if I'm lucky.

 

[DSemcho]

Well some good news today, the bleeding has stopped completely and no more spotting either! Today is one week from when I started miscarrying so I'm happy about that. I suppose my next step is to go back for blood in a few days and see how low my level is now. Really hoping that I can look forward to ovulating in the next week or two.

I hope your levels get back to normal soon! It took mine a almost 2 months!

DS - I am sorry to hear about all of this we to suffer blocked tubes only the right side which seems to be my best side. We are currently saving for IVF as well. Which is $ 15,000.

And that is with all medications. The mini IVF is like $6,000. We are saving for worse case the medication doesn't do what we want.

Adoption is pretty much same price as full IVF, unless you go through state and adopt through DFS. It is for free or low price like $300.00.

I haven't looked much into adoption yet.

Yeah which is one reason I'm happy my DH got stationed over here cause IVF with ISCI and meds is about $3700. What is mini IVF? We would go through a state if we can, but it might be a long process with us being a military family and moving ever 2 - 4 years.

 

[Nicki123]

So ladies, look what I got today... 10dpo, very faint but you might just make it out.
https://i1072.photobucket.com/albums/w362/nicolaflack/null_zps92a8e5d5.jpg

 

[cruise]

Definitely a BFP Nicki!! And a strong one for 10dpo for that brand of test.

 

[Sooperhans]

Ooooh Nicki I see, I see!!! Looks like a fab bfp to me xxx

 

[Nicki123]

Thanks ladies yup I'm quite pleased for that for 10dpo as those ics are usually still squinters at 13dpo+ for me. Will treat myself to some frers today.

 

[NewToAllThis]

I see it, I see it

Excellent BFP - keeping everything crossed this is your rainbow.

Wowzers girl, you're fertile

 

[Nicki123]

Haha thanks new -yes no trouble getting pg just LOTS of trouble getting it to stick.

 

[Petzy]

Haha thanks new -yes no trouble getting pg just LOTS of trouble getting it to stick.

Nicki... FX for you, I will be watching for your progression!

 

[DSemcho]

Wow that's SUPER light!! I can def see it though! Congrats girl!

 

[NewToAllThis]

Soop - how are you and the gorgeous Blake doing? Will you be posting your birth story?

 

[honeyprayer]

Haha thanks new -yes no trouble getting pg just LOTS of trouble getting it to stick.

Nicki I had trouble with getting them to stick too but then I had the hysteroscopy (polyp removed) and this pregnancy happened a few months after that and has stuck! Hoping it'll be the same with you

 

[HannahTTC]

Here's my test from 8 DPO. "If I ovulated anyways". I started bleeding on November 8th and wasn't due til the 14th. And my chart only showed 3 high temps.

My bleeding was heavy too. Today would be 11 DPO. Thinking of testing again as my bleeding stopped.


https://i43.tinypic.com/ziofa0.png


Niki - Congratulations I hope you have a sticky bean and tests get darker.