A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Jaxvipe]

My beta is 110!!!! I'm so relieved! The nurse said that is an awesome number!!

 

[filipenko32]

It is jax it is so pleased for you!!!! X x x

 

[Applejack1]

And it's a no go this month. Fili I always think I have symptoms. Beginning to think I need to find a way to sleep away the tww. RRRRRR the frustration of it all! Boo

Congrats Jax so happy for you!

 

[filipenko32]

Apple how many days past ov are you. X x

 

[patiently]

Hi ladies i have been away for a while just to clear my head a little and take a break from obsessing over my ttc journey!

Firstly congrats to all the new bfp...jw and jax...congrats anyone else that i have missed congrats and wishing you a h&h 9 months!!!

Good luck to all those in the tww

And hi to everyone else..i havent read through all the messages since i left here a little while ago but will do so and will get back to individuals when i have more time on my hands...

AFM im in limbo land again...im on cd 13 my first cycle of clomid (cd2-cd6) and i have no idea when to expect Ov...i have had slight twinges for the past three days and cd8-cd12 had lots of ewcm..but since then nothing much at all...i know you should expect ovulation to occur between cd11-cd15 when taking clomid 2-6 but i really dont expect to ovulate soon...i have been bd all week apart from tuesday and tbh i cant be asked tonight...yesterday we literally had to force our bd!!! we have just got a new bed and were so tired from bd all week i just want to sleep haha! i have no idea when or if i have Ov as people usually say that they can feel ov pains when on clomid...im just going to try and bd as frequently as possible and hope for the best...i was going to use opks but i would just end up stressing about it so have decided to stay away from them...has anyone OV on clomid but never actually felt it?...atm i have little to no cm but it was the opposite a few days ago...i dont know...I think i will be back now as i have missed keeping up to date with everyone!!

Hi to all hope you're all well..

sending baby dust and hugs to all x

 

[filipenko32]

My boobs are hurting is that a good symptom in. The two week wait at five days past o?

 

[filipenko32]

Patiently as much as poss and if you can get hold of some lube called pressed or conceive plus that will help you too. X x x

 

[Applejack1]

fili - I am 13dpo and my period started. Boo. I just wait now for it to come instead of wasting the money on tests. 3 years of that had to stop.

Patiently I will be interested to pick your brain come January as clomid will be my next step!!!! Take notes for me!

 

[patiently]

filipenko - both times i conceived i had sore boobs from 5dpo...so looking positive!!
fingers crossed mine hurt more on the sides tho near my armpit.. i'll try and bd as much as possible but conceive plus really doesnt work well with me...makes me feel really uncomfortable down below..sorry tmi

Applejack- i'll be taking note dont worry...i hope they will be my bfp notes!!!

 

[filipenko32]

filipenko - both times i conceived i had sore boobs from 5dpo...so looking positive!!
fingers crossed mine hurt more on the sides tho near my armpit.. i'll try and bd as much as possible but conceive plus really doesnt work well with me...makes me feel really uncomfortable down below..sorry tmi

Applejack- i'll be taking note dont worry...i hope they will be my bfp notes!!!

Thanks! Theyre not hurting this morning now I put the conceive plus on hubby and it works really well but I know what you mean about it feeling icky! Are you temping too? I signed up to fertility friend and you can make your own temp chart so you can see exactly where ovulation is. I also use cbfm do you? X x

 

[filipenko32]

fili - I am 13dpo and my period started. Boo. I just wait now for it to come instead of wasting the money on tests. 3 years of that had to stop.

Patiently I will be interested to pick your brain come January as clomid will be my next step!!!! Take notes for me!

Sorry applejack x x x I hope the clomid works for you. You know you got a higher chance of twins with clomid, jealous!!

 

[LeeC]

Hi All. I'm CD 10, feeling excited about TTC again after being on a break for 6 months nearly!!! Feels like forever.
It's gonna be a busy week for dh.
Where is everyone else upto.
I need to read through the thread as only stumbled across it now.

Good luck everyone

 

[lexi374]

congrats jax! Great numbers

Lee and welcome, i sometimes lurk on the recurrent miscarriage thread and have seen you on there x

Patiently sorry i dont have any experience with clomid but good luck

Aj sorry af got ya

Fili good luck with tww

Afm think i ovd sometime between thursday and today, not sure exactly as i had a couple of bad nights sleep and wacky temps so who knows, we only bd wed and thur am so probably not done enough but im not gonna stress about this cycle, i think getting a bfp just before xmas would have me worrying the whole time im off, not to mention the getting around not drinking with family/friends etc.

to all xxx

 

[BeachChica]

Congrats Jax!

Welcome Lee! Your profile message said you have had 10 angels!? Gosh that's a lot, I am so sorry. Have you been for testing etc?

Patiently - I track BBT on FF also and find it very helpful regarding the timing of OV.

Hope everyone else is doing well! :wave:

 

[filipenko32]

Lee has had every test done and nothing is wrong and so because nothing is wrong there's no reason why she won't be successful

Beach how you doing Hun? Are you relaxing a bit more? X x x

 

[justwaiting]

Congrats on a successful scan, although a shaky beginning, Beach thats fabulous news. dates can be off and so can us's when your so early, thats why babies usually catch up later! Your so lucky to get another scan in a week. Where are you cruising too. So jealous!

Jax - Congrats, nice number on the beta's, hoping your feeling well and positive.

Patiently - Welcome back, we have missed you!

Welcome Lee

Good luck all of those on the tww.
Hi to everyone else hope your all doing ok

AFm - So very anxious, my babies die at 6 weeks and as you can see from my ticker that isn't far away. I'm going to try get an early scan and another a week later to get me thru this horrible time. The beta's every few days help a little but I'd like to visually know everything is going well. My anxiety is getting the better of me but hopefully all will be ok and this is my forever baby. How do u ladies cope?

 

[Ladyfog]

Hi Ladies, I was away Friday and Saturday and just dead tired and yuck all yesterday.

Welcome Lee - I really admire you for carrying on after 1o losses. We all know what it's like to have to pick yourself up after an MC, but to do it that many times takes real personal strength I hope you get your forever baby very soon. Good luck this cycle!

JW, I was so so anxious at the beginning so know how you feel. I suffer a bit from anxiety anyway and have had CBT to teach me how to keep it under control but the hormones sent me a bit crazy! It helped me to think that at least 50% of how I was feeling was chemical and that it would pass. Just remember that each pregnancy is different - not all your babies will die at 6 weeks - there's no reason to believe that this one isn't your forever baby. Just take each step at a time . Not saying I don't feel nervous every time I go to the toilet , but I think we just have to accept the naivety that comes with a first pregnancy has gone - but this does mean we appreciate it so much more!

AJ - sorry AF turned up - at least you can have a boozy Christmas! I'm really going to miss pate and baileys this year!

Hi Patiently good to see you back! Good luck on clomid - hope it does the trick.

Good luck Fili. Keep us posted. I really don't think symptoms pre AF mean much so don't worry about your boobs!

AFM, MS was terrible all day Friday but then settled down in time for my meal at Barbecoa and I managed to stay up until 11.30pm!! We had a lovely time in London and DH even got treated to a bit of BD which he was very grateful for!! I went to Neal's Yard to buy some delicious cheese that I can eat over Christmas. Suffered for it yesterday though and had to spend all day on the sofa! Did some internet shopping for Christmas in my pyjamas under a blanket . It's 2 weeks to go until my pre-Christmas scan - fingers crossed it's all going OK in there.

 

[filipenko32]

Lady fog, I walked past barbacoa by chance the other day! It looked lovely and I thought of you

 

[patiently]

JW thank you i have missed you guys too...so glad ur betas are going well and hope all goes well in your scans...Like Ladyog said each pregnancy is different so happy for you!!

Ladyfog glad you had a lovely weekend...and your OH must be super happy to get a little bd!! TBH as i havent been using opks ive tried to bd everyday since last week and so far we have been successful but seriously im so tired of bd! lol...I just want to sleep but then i remember that we are ttc so i have to get back on the horse (no pun intended) my OH has been very very supportive this month BD as frequently as possible...even though i know he can feelt he strain too...really wish i used opks that way i'd just have to bd during my fertile period...argh! next month i guess...i dont even know if i've ovulated but really doubt it now..im on cd 15 so today would be my last fertile day if clomid is working for me...im going to skip the bd tomoro and resume on wednesday...fingers crossed i hope i can give my OH a BFP stick for his birthday on the 21st dec! please please pretty please...

 

[lexi374]

Patiently good luck with the bd marathon! It does get to be a bit of a chore sometimes doesnt it!? Its my Dh's birthday on the 21st too!

Lady glad you had a good weekend away, sounds like your symptoms are still strong

Jw no pearls of wisdom, i will be as anxious as you, just try and take each day as it comes, and try and get that early scan if you can

Fili, aj, beach, lee, Jax, and

Nsn i know you wont be able to post much at the mo but thinkin of ya.

Ntat, Raspberry, where are you guys? How are you?

Sorry if i missed anyone! xxx