A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[filipenko32]

Lexi there you are. Have you ever had a test done called an immunogobulin a ? Mines come back high and I just wondered what it was! I've got sleeplessness from the steroids now and hunger and wired ness, I spoke too soon!

 

[lexi374]

Ummm..... duno? i have a few blood results upstairs will have a look in a bit and post if i have.

Im still waiting for all my blood results letter from oxford, nearly 11 weeks, its a bloody joke!

Are you taking the steroids in the morning? Hope it doesnt last too long for you x

 

[Tweak0605]

Jax - CONGRATS!!!! What an awesome beta number!!

Lexi - glad to hear you might have a solution! FX'd for this next time, good luck in the TWW!

Beach - what a beautiful picture of little bean!!

patiently - ugh, limbo land sucks!! I hope you get an answer soon

filipenko - good luck in this TWW!!

AJ - sorry to hear AF showed

Hi Lee Welcome!

JW - Take it one day at a time hun. Enjoy this pregnancy

Ladyfog - Yay for staying up late! And double yay for being closer to your 2 week scan!

Hope everyone is well

AFM - Not up to much. CD10 and feels like time is going soo slow. I have a doctor appt tomorrow with a fertility specialist in the office I go. Over 1 year trying and 2 miscarriages. So I printing out my charts, and printing my TTC word doc with symptoms/pains on it to bring with me. Hopefully we come up with a solution. I want CD21 blood tests for me and a SA for DH, for a start.

 

[justwaiting]

Tweak - the first tww of the month goes so long doesn't it. There is no symptom spotting to keep you occupied your just waiting for the bding to begin. Good luck this month.

Good luck to all of those in the tww, I hope it goes quicky for you all. Fingers crossed.

Can I ask what steriods are used for, I saw Filipenko and lexi discussing them but am not sure why you take them?

afm - Numbers came back hcg 1074 and prog 78, so doubling nicely and all going well. I go back on Thursday for another b/t. I also booked a scan for Tuesday week and the tuesday after that too. so 6.3wks and 7.3 wks. I just want to make sure everything is going as it should and the week after hopefully see a hb and a healthy little bean fingers crossed. I'm just taking it a day at a time and trying to keep my self calm. Thank you all for your words of support.

Hi to everyone else

 

[filipenko32]

Lexington have you tried calling them? Eleven weeks is crazy!! X x x I would stamp and stomp and complain

 

[lexi374]

Fili - Just a quicky on my way out the door - had a look through bloods but cant see the 1 you mentioned sorry!

I emailed doc after 8 weeks he got secretary to email back saying tests were normal and would get a letter shortly, gonna email again..... of course now i have the other result from quenby.... but still they take the piss, this is peoples lives, dont they know we are sat here waiting, counting the days off!!

JW steroids are for high NK cells, we had to pay to be tested as nhs does not do this/ believe in it? x

 

[Ladyfog]

Good morning ladies

JW - you're right to take each day at a time . It helps a bit to know that worrying wouldn't stop anything going wrong, even though that doesn't stop me worrying about it all going wrong! . For me I'm pretty sure the MCs were random chromosomal issues so just bad luck and I'll feel so much better by week 12 when all the baby has to do it get bigger! Every day that passes is a day closer to that! Still feeling like crap is a comfort as I've never got to this stage before and still felt like death!

Good luck Patiently - just have a few quickies if you're tired - that's what I did. 5 mins at then you can go to sleep!! I stopped using OPKs as they never worked for me - could never catch my surge. Instead I kept an eye on my CM and just roughly followed SMEP method. Hopefully you did O and you'll be able to give OH a lovely birthday present and if not, just think you'll be able to drink lots over Christmas!

Hi Tweak Good luck with the BDing - not long now until action stations!

Fili - can definitely recommend Barbecoa - although it's a bit weird it's in a shopping centre it doesn't feel like it when you're in there!

Hi everyone else. Good luck to the TWWs, the BDers and the pregnant ladies!

 

[BeachChica]

Hi ladies :wave:

JW – I am anxious all the time. I’m not sure if that is going to stop after experiencing the losses we all have been through. I used to look at my pregnancy tracker every day… time seemed to go so slow. Now I try not to look at it as often so the time passes faster.

Patiently – Good luck!!!

For everyone else good luck this cycle and sending lots of your way!!!

 

[filipenko32]

Aww beach those pregnancy trackers are a bit haunting when you've had losses aren't they. Really feel for you, I will e just like you x x x

Lexi my predictive text calls you Lexington !! Thanks for looking x x x can't believe you have to wait so long, but at least they are normal. Did they give any reason for the delay? X x x

 

[lexi374]

Nah they are just useless!!

I chuckled when i saw it, cos my cat is called lexi and sometimes we call her lexington!

to all xx

 

[justwaiting]

It's nice to know everyone feels in the same boat when newly pregnant or even 6 months in !! It's a shame the innocence is gone and we can't just believe it will all be ok. I actually like my pregnancy apps, I like seeing the days tick past. My tickers on here are a little out tho because of the time difference so I'm not a huge fan of them!

good luck to everyone

 

[Ladyfog]

Are there any Australian websites that do tickers?

 

[Tweak0605]

JW - Thanks hun So glad your betas are looking excellent and happy you have a couple scans booked.

Hi Lady :wave: Hope you and little bean are doing well!

Hope everyone else is well

Well, just wanted to update about my appt. The doctor I saw was super nice and I really like him. He is being very proactive with everything, and was very happy when I pulled out all my charts. So .. I have an HSG scheduled for this afternoon, and sometime next week getting an SA for DH. If everything is good with those 2 things, and I don't get pregnant this cycle, he's going to put me on Clomid since he thinks there might be an issue with my LP. Kinda anxious about the HSG, but I've heard it's not that bad.

 

[justwaiting]

Tweak - Good luck with the HSG, I had one during my operative hyst so don't know what it feels like to be awake during but after I was crampy and had blue dye on my inner thighs and panty liner for a few days. I was a bit tender when sitting but really felt ok. I hope everything is given the all clear and you either get your bfp or start clomid.
There is also qute a few women who get pregnant straight after a HSG, it's like a clear out. So you just never know. I'm glad you have found a proactive dr who you realy like.

Lady- I don't know you were aussie, I don't know if there are any aussie tickers, If you find some let me know. it would be nice to have things in kg's and mm, not lb's and inches!

I will let you know how today's beta's went a little later

 

[Tweak0605]

Thanks JW Good luck with your betas!

It went well. I actually had more cramping then I thought I would, and it hurt. I took some deep breaths in and out and just closed my eyes. He said the right tube was fine, the dye just poured out of it. The left tube, it took a little bit, and he had to inject more dye in to get it flowing. So, I'm hoping it was just clogged up and he got it flowing again and cleaned out whatever was in there. But he said everything looked good! Hoping we are one of the lucky ones who get pregnant straight after an HSG, or else it'll be Clomid time!

 

[patiently]

Tweak my fingers are crossed for you hope you get your bfp and wont even need to go on clomid...either way its a win win situation this month or next.. losts of women fall pg on their first cycle of clomid..i'll let you know if i turn out to be one of them but not too hopeful at the moment...fingers crossed that your bfp is just around the corner...

JW good luck with your betas today looking forward to hearing the news later x x x

Ladyfog your nearing the 12 week mark im so happy for you giving a pessimistic individual such as myself hope! so thank you and wish you all the best with your pregnancy...

Beach i know it must be hard and stressful at times having had multiple miscarriages but every pregnancy is different! really wishing you a h&h 9 months im so excited for all your soon-to-be-mama's you give me so much hope for the future...

NSN you are in my thoughts and im sending you the biggest hugs ever right now...hope you're ok...and were all here for you

AFM i am pretty certain im out this month didnt bd the past two days and have been cramping for three days now...i havent had much cm either but thats probably down to the clomid...i dont know whats going on with my body and i just got back from an 11hr night shift (from 9pm until 8am) been on my feet all night and im sick from tiredness so really dont expect to get a bfp this month dont think ive been in the best of health for it...we really did try to bd as much as possible but now im just tired so im going to refrain...what will be will be...im tired of ttc this month im going to try harder next month...just want xmas to come so i can relax a bit and take my mind of my new job that i actually hate...

Sorry for the tired rant...hello to all...good luck all those testing and bd in the next few days...

goodnight

 

[justwaiting]

Patiently - You've done all you can, as you say what will be will be. know how hard the tww is we all do but work and xmas might help keep your mind off it. What do you do for a living that your working night shifts? Why do you hate your new job? DOn't be sorry for expressing your feelings, were here to support you hun.

How is every one going? We haven't heard from NSN in a while but she is going thru a tough time. If your stalking hun, were thinking of you.

afm - hcg is 3488 and prog 74.1. No more bloods for a week now. Looking forward to the weekend. means xmas and 3 weeks holidays coming soon.

 

[Jaxvipe]

JW - when do you have your first scan?

AFM- I had a beta on Wednesday which came back at 454 so I had a doubling time of 43 so they said that i dont have to go back to the dr until my 1st scan on the 28th which makes me nervous!! But I'm hoping some of these symptoms will start getting stronger so that I can have some piece of mind. I told OH the other day I cant wait to throw up lol.

to everyone!!!!

 

[justwaiting]

JW - when do you have your first scan?

AFM- I had a beta on Wednesday which came back at 454 so I had a doubling time of 43 so they said that i dont have to go back to the dr until my 1st scan on the 28th which makes me nervous!! But I'm hoping some of these symptoms will start getting stronger so that I can have some piece of mind. I told OH the other day I cant wait to throw up lol.

to everyone!!!!

Hi Jax,
I have my first scan on tuesday. I'll be about 6.4 by lmp but am thinking it'll probably be out by a few days. I'm looking forward to it and I have read once your levels are over 6000 which mine should be tomorrow thats when things should become more visible. fx
Our beta's are rising at the same rate. Thats a great number you have. You send some vomiting dust my way and I'll send some yours.

Apart from reassurance my waistline could use it.

How is everyone else going? Any symptom spotting going on?

 

[justwaiting]

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