A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Ladyfog]

Hi everyone.

JW, I'm British, but just thought there must be some Australian baby sites out there! I had a look for you and https://www.bubhub.com.au/tickers/ has some

JW and Jax - glad to see those betas going up! I've never had any taken so I'll take your word for it that the numbers are good - I have no idea!

Patiently, you're right not to put too much pressure on yourself. You can only do so much and if it's not this month there's always next - especially with clomid. Sorry you're not enjoying your job at the moment - please feel free to rant whenever you want, it's what we're here for

Tweak, so glad you have a Dr that seems to be on your side and is looking after you. Well done for getting through the HSG and hopefully you'll be one of the lucky ones. If not, you'll be on clomid next month so that should help so things are looking positive for you!

Hi to everyone else and any lurkers. RM hope things are going well for you, NTAT hope things are settling down with your cycles and NSN, hope you're doing OK

AFM, had my booking appt yesterday (my third one!) - just lots of forms to fill in again. The midwife was pleased to see me back . It just makes me nervous though as although it's a big step, it been the 'kiss of death' for past pregnancies and I've never got further than this point. I still have all the symptoms although the MS has been a bit better this week, still have sore boobs, a funny taste in my mouth, am knackered all the time and my dreams are still mental! I guess I just have to believe that there's going to be a wriggly baby on my next scan - it's jut seems so impossible at the moment, like a dream come true. It's a week on Monday so not long now!

 

[Razcox]

Hi all wondered if i could join you ladies after being pointed here by a couple of folks from the PAL due in July thread. Just found out i have lost our 4th beaine so we are back on the TTC wagon for our first.

Bit of background we have been TTC since Oct 08 and had 4 losses now, testing shows i have a translocation which is thought to be the cause of my losses. We have been passed to a FS to look at IVF with PGD but have heard nothing since applying for funding with our PCT in July. In the mean time we are still trying naturally in the hopes that we win the genetic lottery!

We are going to start TTC again right away but also trying to lower my BMI as it has crept back to 30 again thanks to a summer of to many parties and BBQs. So thats me and i look forward to getting to know you girls *waves*

 

[Neversaynever]

Ladies I am still reading and rooting for you all thank you all for thinking of me too

Congrats to the new BFP's

to those sticky babies here

to the testers or ladies in the TWW

to the new ladies and I'm sorry you had to join this thread too

Raz...I'm so sorry your baby didn't make it...I was so hoping for good news

Love you all

XxX

 

[Ladyfog]

Welcome Raz

NSN - good to here from you - we've missed you. Hope you're holding out OK

Just been to my works Christmas do - managed to get away without anyone wondering why I'm not drinking. I feel like I'm up really late!

 

[patiently]

Raz welcome to this very supportive and understanding thread...i actually feel that these women are my friends and have helped me feel better in times when nobody else could so you've come to the right place x

NSN its so lovely to hear from you!! how are you? you have been in my thoughts and just want you to know how brave and strong you are...you seem so positive and strong through your replies and so genuine...truly inspirational! sending lots of hugs your way sweetie! x x x

Lady how was your xmas do? well done escaping the questions...have you told your employer that you're expecting?

JW how are you doing?

to all the ladies hi...good luck those testing and those approaching ov...
AFM im cd 19 and my cm has completely dried up so really i think i ov on cd16 or 17 shame that we didnt bd either of those days though! oh well just have to wait and see...not expecting much thpugh tbh...have been very very snappy today probably from working all night wednesday still havent caught up on my sleep! I am a visual merchaniser so im on my feet at least 8hrs a day and im lifting so much things and bending down all the time too...so if i want to get my bfp i"d have to tell my employer right away! I dont like my new job because they're not organised when my shift finishes at 3 they make me stay until 4 its annoying i dont get paid for those additional hours and i do have a social life!

if i was having my baby i'd be on maternity leave already argh i just want to hold my baby in my arms...hopefully i'll go into xmas with a bfp and a sticky sticky healthy bean!

 

[lexi374]

Hello ladies!

Raz welcome, so sorry for your losses

Jax and JW congrats on great numbers, JW fx for great scan on tuesday

Lady glad you are doing well, cant be long til you are at the 12 week mark now?

Patiently good luck with tww, fx for that bfp

Beach how you doing?

Tweak fx bfp this month

RM how are you ??

Nsn good to hear from you thinking of you lots

Hi to everyone else hope you are ok?

Afm im around 8 dpo, no s&s, well except crazy dreams. Not expecting bfp this month as we kinda gave up bd before i ovd. Will defo put in more effort next month! x

 

[menb]

Thanks Puppy...changed the title slightly as it's more about having no children and more than one loss.

So..any takers?

XxX

Neversaynever: I didn't read through the entire thread, but wanted to let you know you're not alone. I'm 35, have had 2 MC in last five months and still trying. In fact, I'm in my fertile days now. Talk to you soon!!!

 

[patiently]

Hello ladies!

Afm im around 8 dpo, no s&s, well except crazy dreams. Not expecting bfp this month as we kinda gave up bd before i ovd. Will defo put in more effort next month! x

Lexi good luck! hope you get a bfp remember it only takes the one little swimmer! i dont know when i ovulated actually, think it was last week sometime but cant remember what day as i've had cramping most days...but i know i have ovulated...well im as sure as i can be at this stage..and like you no symptoms apart from crazy crazy dreams...kept waking up through the night last night and I had about 5 different and vivid dreams...also for the last couple of days i feel like AF is on her way...keep getting that heavy feeling that i get the day AF shows..has anyone else had this?

Good luck those testing this week...and in the tww...anyone else got any possible symptoms?

 

[lexi374]

Hello ladies!

Afm im around 8 dpo, no s&s, well except crazy dreams. Not expecting bfp this month as we kinda gave up bd before i ovd. Will defo put in more effort next month! x

Lexi good luck! hope you get a bfp remember it only takes the one little swimmer! i dont know when i ovulated actually, think it was last week sometime but cant remember what day as i've had cramping most days...but i know i have ovulated...well im as sure as i can be at this stage..and like you no symptoms apart from crazy crazy dreams...kept waking up through the night last night and I had about 5 different and vivid dreams...also for the last couple of days i feel like AF is on her way...keep getting that heavy feeling that i get the day AF shows..has anyone else had this?

Good luck those testing this week...and in the tww...anyone else got any possible symptoms?

I have that feeling right now!!

I think the witch is due tue but could be a day out as im not exactly sure of ov day either, had a couple of wacky temps.

I feel crampy though so i think she is right around the corner!

Will keep my fingers crossed for ya x

 

[patiently]

I have that feeling right now!!

I think the witch is due tue but could be a day out as im not exactly sure of ov day either, had a couple of wacky temps.

I feel crampy though so i think she is right around the corner!

Will keep my fingers crossed for ya x

High five!!!

My fingers are crossed for you too hun!! when will you be testing? Also im having hot flashes but that could be down to the clomid i think, not sure if the s/e last this long but its ridiculous wake up throughout the night sweating which is something i've never had before...

Cramping can be a good sign though hun so your not out yet...fingers crossed lovely!

 

[lexi374]

Sweating is a great sign!

Im gonna temp in the morning and that should give me some idea, im expecting it to be on the way down ready for af, so we will see.

When do you plan to test?

xx

 

[patiently]

ooo lexi im so excited for you for tomorrow morning!!! fingers crossed come on temp lol!!!

AFM i dont know when i will test i think im around 3dpo atm something like that i think...well if i ovulated thursday which is when my cm became scant sorry tmi...so think ill test next sunday hopefully it'll be a bfp for OH birthday..but part of me wants to test tomorrow morning because if i ov'd when i shouldve on clomid i would be 11dpo...i didnt know sweating is a great sign...oo hopefully it is a sign...looking forward to seeing your message tomorrow too!! i dont even know if i'll be able to sleep....hehe! baby dust to you x

 

[justwaiting]

good luck patiently and Lexi. I;ve been having very weird and vivid dreams so maybe thats a sign too. Fingers crossed
Also to whoever else is in the tww good luck.

Thanks for the ticker site ladyfog, I'll have a look today.

Hope everyone is feeling ok and looking forward to xmas, 13 more days yay! only 9 1/2 of work which is even better!


Raz, nice to meet you and sorry for your losses. You mentioned that they thought they had a cause for your mc, I know I wont say it right but u know what I mean. how does it cause mc? I hope your doing ok.

NSN Nice to hear from you.

afm - I'm so tired right now and as I said above vivid dreams. the nausea has started on and off, usually morning and late arvo, the boobs are heavy and hurt if not strapped down lol. The sore nipples come and go though. I have my first scan tomorrow and am so excited. I'm hopinh for a hb but just a sac and yolk will do me fine and measuring close to dates! Time to go pee again!!!

xx

 

[patiently]

Good luck with your scan jw hope all goes well hun x

 

[Ladyfog]

Hi

Good luck Patiently and Lexi - hope you both have Christmas BFP! It's so hard to tell sometimes if it's just pre-AF hormones or early pregnancy. Either way, you'll either have happy news or have a Christmas of wine, lovely cheese and pate! - wow I'm going to miss pate this year...

JW - goo luck at the scan! Sound like MS is kicking in right on time!

I'm hoping mine will start to clear by Christmas so I can enjoy all the Christmas food etc. I've had the worst taste in my mouth for the last 6 weeks (it's meant to be metallic - it's not, it's bitter and horrible - a bit like when you have a cold and nothing tastes right - yuk!). Combined with the MS, food just isn't that great at the moment and I want to be able to enjoy my Christmas dinner! However, I'll caveat that by saying I'd really like it to continue for at least one more week so I am a bit more relaxed in the run up to my scan next Monday

Hi everyone else - hope you all have a good week

 

[lexi374]

ooo lexi im so excited for you for tomorrow morning!!! fingers crossed come on temp lol!!!

AFM i dont know when i will test i think im around 3dpo atm something like that i think...well if i ovulated thursday which is when my cm became scant sorry tmi...so think ill test next sunday hopefully it'll be a bfp for OH birthday..but part of me wants to test tomorrow morning because if i ov'd when i shouldve on clomid i would be 11dpo...i didnt know sweating is a great sign...oo hopefully it is a sign...looking forward to seeing your message tomorrow too!! i dont even know if i'll be able to sleep....hehe! baby dust to you x

I think im out, temp hadnt crashed today but i had a superdrug test in the drawer so i caved and poas, defo bfn! No hint of a line so expecting the witch tom or wed at the latest!

So fx for you now, ill be checking for updates! Good luck!

 

[lexi374]

Jw good luck for your scan

Lady oooohhhh 1 more week! YOU ARE SO CLOSE NOW!

Anyone else testing this week? Good luck if you are!

Hope everyone is ok x

 

[Tweak0605]

Lady - Happy 11 weeks!! Can't believe you're already 1/4 of the way done!

Lexi - sorry for the BFN Hoping it's too early and you get that Christmas BFP

Patiently - good luck! hope you get your Christmas BFP

JW - Yay for MS! Glad you got some symptoms!


Not much going on with me - still waiting for ovulation. Feeling very relaxed this cycle though - don't really care about doing OPKs this cycle. Hoping the relaxed approach will give me a BFP.

 

[Razcox]

Ladyfog - Happy 11 weeks! Only a week left of 1st tri now x

patiently - Good luck with the testing, will be sending lots of your way xxx

JW - Hope you have a good scan today and they see a HB. My translocation causes MC because 50% of my eggs have got the wrong genetic makeup causeing the pregnacy to not be viable should they get fertalized (sp?). My body somehow picks up on this and stops the baby from developing, its so good at noticing this abnormalaity that if i get to 12 weeks then there is only a 1% chance of the baby being effected by it.

Lexi - Sorry about the BFN but it may be too early, this time i did and IC and got a very white BFN the day before AF was due. Then 3 days later it was a BFP on a frer.

Tweak - I love the relaxed approch and after taking a break towards the end of the summer we got our last BFP on the back of one night of fun on the sofa!

AFM - Waiting for the bleeding to stop so i can start temping and doing some OPKs so i can get a handle on my cycle again. Decided to just carry on TTC and see what happens but will not be too obsessive this month as you are meant to wait really.

 

[patiently]

I think im out, temp hadnt crashed today but i had a superdrug test in the drawer so i caved and poas, defo bfn! No hint of a line so expecting the witch tom or wed at the latest!

So fx for you now, ill be checking for updates! Good luck!

Your not out yet hun some people dont get bfp till 16dpo so just hang on it there..and your temp is still up!!! you never know ive got my fingers crossed for you!!

Not much going on with me - still waiting for ovulation. Feeling very relaxed this cycle though - don't really care about doing OPKs this cycle. Hoping the relaxed approach will give me a BFP.

Hope you ovulate soon hun! its best to try and be relaxed too...the only months i didnt do opks were the months i got my bfp...so good luck!

My translocation causes MC because 50% of my eggs have got the wrong genetic makeup causeing the pregnacy to not be viable should they get fertalized (sp?). My body somehow picks up on this and stops the baby from developing, its so good at noticing this abnormalaity that if i get to 12 weeks then there is only a 1% chance of the baby being effected by it.

AFM - Waiting for the bleeding to stop so i can start temping and doing some OPKs so i can get a handle on my cycle again. Decided to just carry on TTC and see what happens but will not be too obsessive this month as you are meant to wait really.

Razcox im so sorry for your losses! did you get testing done? how long did your pregnancies last if you dont mind me asking? The reason i ask is because I have only got to 5 weeks before things started going wrong and my betas doubled week 4 but week 5 is where they stopped doubling....maybe this is what has happened to me too...

...i really hope that you get your sticky bfp and the bleeding stops real soon, hoping for a speedy recovery! some women dont even get a period and get a bfp so my fingers are crossed for you hun...sending lost of sticky baby dust your way! x