A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Tweak0605]

Lady - thanks hun, I always think when I get spotting it could be IB. But unfortunately it was full blown AF. I am determined to get pregnant and have my baby in 2012. I'm getting my Clomid tomorrow when I call the doctor and we're going to follow the SMEP from CD10 onwards. I'm DETERMINED

I can't believe you're 14 weeks already!! I'm sure little bean is growing well in there. Yay for new maternity pants! I miss mine - they were so comfy!


Hope everyone is well

 

[RaspberryMini]

Happy New Year everyone hope this is a good year for everyone

I think my sickness is finally easing, good job as back to work tomorrow and 13 weeks too!

Lady - congrats on 14 weeks and congrats on maternity wear! I've been shopping in the sales and picked up a few bargains, some jeans for £15, a denim skirt for £8 and some work trousers for £16. Most of my regular clothes are just too tight and I've already gained a ton of weight despite being so sick. So back to to the gym tomorrow where my instructor is going to do me a pregnancy work out.

NSN - congrats on 6 weeks. I bet you can't wait for your early scan.

Tweak - good luck with the clomid. Hope this is your year.

Hi to everyone else xx

 

[ayclobes]

Lady - yes, it is frustrating..but i know the time will be right next time. Maybe baby wasn't meant for us yet? i don't know. I do know, that god would not give us anything he didnt think we could handle. dh and i are so ready for a healthy baby..we're hoping it happens again soon.

 

[patiently]

ayclobes welcome!! so sorry for your losses...you have such a positive attitude and im loving it...really makes me feel that like you i should be optimistic too...i definately agree with you that we wouldnt be given things that we couldnt handle...and have we had to handle it!!! Hopefully 2012 will be our year and we will get our sticky bfp's shortly! Good luck hun hope this month is your month!

Ladyfog wow your 14 weeks already time really does fly!!! wow congrats!!! and thumbs up for your maternity shopping! i think its good that your looking forward now...GL or your scan hope you will have some pics to show!

RM like ladyfog your pg is progressing really quickly...yeayyyy!!! maybe because my life evolves around my fertile period all the other times just fly by! lol..but really happy for you...

Tweak GL with clomid many women have got their bfp on their first cycle so FC...if you need to know anything about s/e or anything feel free to ask...what days will you be taking it?

NSN 9 more sleeps to go (im doing the worm across the floor as i type in celebration) lol bummer about going back to work tomorrow but take it easy put your feet up and before you know it its time to go home!

Florida where are you? hope all is well...x

AFM nothing to report really trying not to think of ttc but its so hard when your on medication your so aware of your body! Im on cd 11 now so think this week will be my fertile one FC hopefully! I was thinking to bd every other day until my positive opk then everyday from the day of my positive opk...I was also thinking that if i get my BFP this month I wont tell anyone in my family just my OH i will wait until the first trimester is over then announce it...just seems better for me i think...how is everyone else?

 

[ayclobes]

patiently - thank you! I have no idea how i can be so optimistic..but i feel like he does have a plan for me/us..and you have to believe. I am really hoping we'll get or sticky/rainbow baby yet for 2012, but apart of me thinks it won't be until 2013, which is fine by me.

 

[ayclobes]

Patience is also not my virtue..so its been hard to wait for to show..but she finally fully did

 

[patiently]

you WILL get your sticky bfp in 2012!! i just know it!! and patience is not my strong point at all..lol...but we have been extremely patient for our bubbas so hopefully we will be greatly rewarded...happy AF came will you be trying again soon as AF is finished?

 

[ayclobes]

you WILL get your sticky bfp in 2012!! i just know it!! and patience is not my strong point at all..lol...but we have been extremely patient for our bubbas so hopefully we will be greatly rewarded...happy AF came will you be trying again soon as AF is finished?

I sure hope you're right, i feel like it'll happen soon! DH actually asked if since i started af, if that meant we could start ttc when its over with..and i plan on it. i plan on starting my maca today, i think it helped regulate my hormones to get me pregnant last time..hopefully it does the same thing again!

 

[patiently]

Well at least now you can resume ttc and hopefully and God willing this will be our month!! GL....what is maca?

 

[Neversaynever]

All good things come to those who wait :winwkink:

Lady...already 14 weeks and RM...13 weeks glad all is well though

Patiently...you seem more upbeat and I am hoping you are feeling a bit more positive now

AYC...I was told when I had some info about RPL that having nothing wrong is the best outcome they like to find when doing the testing...keep going with that positive struff

Tweak...how rude of the hag to swoop in so early

Lexi...ready for the shagathon?

How is everyone else doing?

I have had a few symptoms today...nipples hurting when pressed and queasy on and off all day so I feel a bit better about things but confident

XxX

 

[ayclobes]

Well at least now you can resume ttc and hopefully and God willing this will be our month!! GL....what is maca?

Maca helps boost fertility in men and women, help alleviate stress, up libido, and for women who have pcos it helps balance hormones. I took this the month i got pregnant with my angel baby.

 

[ayclobes]

All good things come to those who wait :winwkink:

Lady...already 14 weeks and RM...13 weeks glad all is well though

Patiently...you seem more upbeat and I am hoping you are feeling a bit more positive now

AYC...I was told when I had some info about RPL that having nothing wrong is the best outcome they like to find when doing the testing...keep going with that positive struff

Tweak...how rude of the hag to swoop in so early

Lexi...ready for the shagathon?

How is everyone else doing?

I have had a few symptoms today...nipples hurting when pressed and queasy on and off all day so I feel a bit better about things but confident

XxX

Thanks, its been almost 6wks since the d&c, and i havent heard anything, so i take it they didnt really find anything bad when testing the baby.

 

[Tweak0605]

RM - Happy 13 weeks tomorrow! Glad the m/s is easing up!

patiently - I'm not sure what days. I have to call my doctor tomorrow and hope he tells me what days to take it. I hope it works - soy really did nothing for me, so I'm hoping Clomid actually will work. Yay for fertile week for you! Enjoy BDing! I'm not sure when we'll tell family with the next pregnancy. I guess we'll have to see how it goes. I'm sure I'll be scared regardless of when we tell though.

ayclobes - Patience is not my virtue either, so this journey has been extremely hard for me. I agree with patiently; you will get your sticky BFP this year! Think positive hun

NSN - Yay for symptoms!


CD2 for me and I think AF may be heading out early. Yay! Calling the doc tomorrow morning, first thing, to get my prescription for Clomid. They weren't open today. Gotta ask him what days to take it, and have a few other questions. Like why the hell did AF come so early after getting + OPKs

 

[FloridaGirl21]

patiently, i'm still here, checking in every couple days.. FXed for this upcoming week

 

[Applejack1]

Hi everyone.....

Welcome Ayclobes! Yipee RM congrats on 13 weeks. Hello to everyone else and of course Happy New Year. We have been away so just catching up now! Hope everyone is well!

So started clomid today. My regim is to take 100mg days 2-6. Today was my first day. Scared to see what the side effects may be. Don't plan to OPK was just told to get busy on days 12-18 so that's the plan this cycle anyway.

How many of us are on clomid????

 

[Tweak0605]

Good luck with the Clomid AJ!! I know there's a few of us on it - I'm starting my first cycle hopefully tomorrow!! Hope it brings us a sticky BFP soon!

 

[NewToAllThis]

Lady - wow, 14 weeks - fabulous. Really hoping everything is ok with bubba and you find out really soon.

Welcome Ayclobes, sorry for your losses hope you get some answers soon.

RM - yay for sickness going - you'll soon be in 2nd tri - wowzers, amazing!

Patiently - gl for your fertile week. Make sure you get plenty of in. Fingers crossed for you hun.

NSN - glad your symptoms have come back. Excellent sign

Tweak - sorry AF got you - on to this month hun we will do it! Hope you get your Clomid from the doc. Definitely ask all the questions you can.

Anyone I've missed

AFM - No real TTC news, still no AF but think Christmas Day should have been CD1 so am counting it as such and see what happens in the next few days. Will check with opks but am expecting my normal O pains in next 3 to 4 days.
We've had ok amounts of the last week or so, CD2, 3 and 8 & 9 so hope it doesn't fall by the wayside now we're at work. Gosh, seems like ages since I talked TTC - feels strange!

Got a question for all you experienced ladies.
As I have had 2 m/c's now and no tests as such (except tests to see if I O'd after my first m/c and testosterone levels).
Do you think I should ask doc for more tests, am I entitled to anything in particular? (UK ladies may be able to tell me this)

Any info would be great. Once AF arrives, I may take a trip back to the doc and would like to know where I stand.

 

[Ladyfog]

New - After MC 2 the Dr arranged some blood tests for me - basically anything that we could do with just bloods. I had tests for hormone levels, diabetes, thyroid, clotting, and antibodies. I think that was everything! My Dr is fantastic, and I don't think it's normal to test after 2, but we saw no reason to wait for another MC if we could find something we could fix easily. All my tests came back normal. which gave me some confidence when TTC again. I'd talk to your Dr and see if they can arrange these for you. I didn't see the need for more invasive testing as I still felt that my MC had just been bad luck - I lost my 2 babies at different times so didn't feel they had died for the same reasons. Lots of MCs really are just bad luck, even if you have more than 2 - there's no reason why your net pregnancy won't be a happy one

RM - glad your MC is easing up too. I still get a reassuring bout of nausea every now and then but it's so much better than it was. Hope you get on OK at the gym - think I'm just going to do some exercise in my pyjamas before I go to work!

NSN - glad symptoms have started. It's still early days for you so don't worry - give it a couple of weeks and hopefully you'll feel awful!

Patiently - glad you are back to your lovely positive self! Good luck this month

AJ - good luck on Clomid. What are the posible side affects? Nothing horrible I hope .

Hi everyone else . Have you all gone back to work? I've got another week off (yay!) glad I have as I've worn myself out with all the festivities!

 

[lexi374]

RM and Lady wooo hooo! So pleased its all going great for you guys

Beach and JW how are you 2 getting on?

Florida hope you are ok?

Patiently good luck hun, get x

AJ and Tweak good luck with clomid this cycle

NTAT Glad you are getting back in to ttc, keep fx for this cycle if you have a nice gp they may run some tests for you but i was not referred til i had 3 mc, i think they will refer after 2 if you are over 35? x

Ayclobes i have heard good things about maca too, i hope it works quickly again for you

NSN The shagathon was last week! He aint getting any this week!
I saw in your journal you had no symptoms today, this pal thing is sooo hard! I hope they return soon and give you peace of mind.

AFM back to work today couldnt get to sleep last night and couldnt get up this morning!

Im 4/5 dpo gona try not to symptom spot this month, i already feel down about it and think im out!

My bf at work told me shes pregnant today, im really pleased for her as she had 2 mc last year, but just feel like it will never be me at the mo, Shes fallen quite quickly each time and it doesnt happen like that for me.... weve been trying at this for years now! Feeling a bit crap about it all today

 

[patiently]

Ayclopes hope maca works again for you...and you get your bfp soon! if it worked once im sure it'll work again!! x

Florida hey hun! glad your still here but understand that its hard to get on here all the time...and HAPPY 5 WEEKS!!

AJ yay for clomid hope it works for you hun...how come your on 100mg? do you ovulate on your own? the s/e i have had the past two clomid cycles have been hot flashes!! omg!!! i feel it from the last pill all the way until AF and its really random for me! other than that id say mood swings but tbh whilst i have these s/e it doesnt put me off of clomid...i think i just look at it as reassurance that its working, but it no way shape or form does it mean it is just for myself i guess i like to think so! hehe! Hope it works hun and your one of the lucky ladies to get your bfp on your first round!

Tweak good luck with clomid!! FC or you hun! hoping that we all get our clomid bfp's!

NTAL i think im 2 days ahead of you in my cycle...hopefully i'll also get a positive opk over the next few days. what opks are you using? As for testing i had blood testing done before my mc's to see if all was ok and they checked my thyroid, hormone levels and cant remember what else but all came back normal so maybe you can get some bloods done...i dont know why these drs say to wait until your third mc...like the first two werent painful enough...im thinking that a lot of the times its bad luck...hoping were third time lucky...FC for you hun...and GL bd!!

Ladyfog so jealous that you're off for another week!!! ...enjoy your extra week off put your feet up and relax...you deserve it...

Lexi im so sorry hun sometimes it really comes back and hits you hard...but were all here for support...in a few days you may be joining your bf with your bfp...when will you be testing? I really hope this is your month hun...Have you noticed any symptoms yet?

AFM still no positive opk so we're just bd every other day..thats all i can manage as im so tired from work...I hope we catch the sticky eggy this month...my younger sister hasnt even been to the dr's yet since finding out she's expecting and shes completely the opposite of how i would be when pregnant...but thats life i guess...i cant talk about anything to do with her pregnancy and she complains that shes ill...but if she knew how much i would give to have morning sickness if it meant i would have a healthy sticky baby!! anyway...im trying to be positive this month couldnt sleep at all last night and really thought i o'v but took my temp this morning and theres isnt a rise...so still waiting for that positive opk...hope its coming soon!!! this wait is soooo long sometimes..! Anyway hope everyone is well have a lovely evening all...x